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Mixed signalss


Question Posted Tuesday October 3 2006, 7:31 am



this boy used to call me like everynight and IM me and stuff and then at school be MEAN and like really rude in front of his friends. Than this weekend , he called me to hangout with him and his friend.... I couldnt because I was going somewhere. Than that night at like 2 am he called me twice.
The next day, I went for a walk and he saw me and screamed my name out of the car window and called me like right after that , and then i went for another walk and i saw him and his friend and he like talked to me for like a split second and then kinda ignored me.
Then that night, I IMed him [i never really IM him] and I said "hey is it raining where you live"
He says " Did I say you could IM me?"
I said "ugh no?"
He says "then dont talk to me"
then he says
"haha jk, but yeah its raining"
and i felt like shit.
Whats going on??


[by the way he has a girlfriend and im 13]


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mwalnutss answered Thursday October 5 2006, 10:54 am:
wow. he seems like a ass. he A. likes you but is embarassed by you. B. he likes you as more then a friend and dosent want his friends knowing/ and or he likes you and doesnt know how to act. C. his friends hate you, so he just does what they do.
it could be any of those or something else. dont talk to him about it, unless you feel like its nessacary. hope i helped

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dimitri answered Wednesday October 4 2006, 11:39 pm:
OK listen up,although i agree with most of the answers, and don't agree whole heartedly because most of them are from girls and they do not understand guys.so here is mine

FIRST,The thing about him having a girlfriend....just leave it for now, he probably likes you and might break up with her sooner or later

SECOND,okay you must understand that guys are always like that around other guys,cause they want to be macho and have girls like them instead of the opposite. Have you ever seen the movie " a walk to remember?" yeah,the guy acted tough in front of his friends but later went to her house to apologize,they always do that cause they don't wanna seem "weak" to their friends.

THIRD, notice how he only acts wierd when he is with his friends, but doens't when he isn't around them. When you IMed him and he was cold, i was quite confused too, but later he said that he was joking and that explains it all, he likes to talk to you,but just doens't in front of his friends.

FOURTH, if you do go out with him however, prepared to have a bumpy ride cause he would probably want to keep the relationship secret

FIFTH, he likes you.

hope i helped/.

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Genrawks2 answered Tuesday October 3 2006, 7:06 pm:
Okay, wth.


Tell that bipolar ass not to not talk to you. And you shouldn't. He shouldn't be all hung up on you and then just because he's with his friends, totally blow you off.

PLUS he has a girlfriend?
Just lay off him, hun. Lay off.

x

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sp4rklingr4in answered Tuesday October 3 2006, 6:37 pm:
....... this guy is just a total bipolar douchebag. If he calls you all the time maybe he likes you and just has a really... different way of showing it. Anywho, he might have some mental problems, so I'd advise you just stay away from him.

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Chika answered Tuesday October 3 2006, 6:27 pm:
he is kind of a dick. He is most likely looking to cheat on his girlfriend, i know exactly what your talking about. yeah he just wants to be friends and most likely was just horny when he was flirting with you. he probably doesnt even know you exsist.

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Xenolan answered Tuesday October 3 2006, 3:23 pm:
This guy is a complete dork. Seriously, he's a total waste of space.

Next time he initiates contact with you of any kind, tell him to get lost. Then, don't contact him, don't start conversations with him, and if possible avoid eye contact.

It's as simple as that.

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LadyD answered Tuesday October 3 2006, 2:41 pm:
hey gurrrrrrrrrrrrrl this is lady D


ok first of all how old is this guy? second of all do you even like this guy? wat you need 2 do is when he calls you ask him why dose call you and IM so much? then tell him of he wants to keep talikin to you then he betta stop acting phony in front if his lil friends!
Betta set dat boY straight!!!!
thats wat lady d would do

hope i helped
ps.
comment a chick!! (me)

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