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I have recently started squirting a lot, and getting really wet when I am having sex. It feels great, yeah, and the guy I am seeing seems to enjoy it as well but I keep getting wetter and wetter when we have sex (not all the time do I get wet but about every other night we sleep together) and its almost starting to gross me out, like I should be doing this in a bathtub. How much do guys enjoy girls getting really wet and squirting when they orgasm? thanks! (link)
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yes
I would die,,probably kill,literally,kill a person to have a girl that squirts and actually can have an orgasm. You know how many girls out there actually have an orgasm? Very few. You know how many girls squirt? Almost none.
You have a very lucky guy. I admit that I have an extremely huge ego and this is one of the rarest times I'm gonna say this: I envy him.
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16/f, he's 18/m
okay..um...we talk on MSN and myspace and I see him like every other day.
1. whenever I put up new pictures on myspace...he compliments me...but he doesn't comment them on myspace, he just sends me messages telling me how pretty the pictures are.
2. He tells me I'm hot and pretty and whatever
And here's the biggest "creeping out" factor :
yesterday, he told me that my pictures make him masturbate. WTF. and then it's like
*pause on MSN*
oops, sorry..I'm just *ahem*
WTF and then...he's like..You made me come.
What-the-fuck.
if this happened to you, wouldn't you be creeped out? so, is my being creeped out the LEAST bit rational? :|!! what should I do? I'm kinda shy... (link)
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errr,well i would be flattered,lol
just kidding,its kinda obvious that he is really into you..and yeah,basically,has a major crush on you
BUT...based on the masturbation factor,he could just see you as a sex toy or some lust thing to get him going if you get what i mean
so yeah,just tell him that you are not comfortable with it..cause maybe like other girls would play back or like get into the sex mood but you are different which isn't bad as everyone is unique,so just tell him politely to stop what he is doing.
take care,ciao
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Im in a relationship, and its pretty open.. because we dont call either bf and gf. we just kinda tell people were in a relationship. (he calls me his "almost,sorta, kinda, girlfriendish lady") i know that sounds weird. (infact he called me while writting this.. i tried to talk him into go talking to some girls he didnt know) He moved far away. as in about 2000 miles away.. and were not sure when he can come back.. so i try to tell him to date around or just TALK to other girls. dont ACT like im your girlfriend. Im not sure if maybe that offends him, as in i sound like im trying to get rid of him, or if he really just likes ME. I do it because i want him to have fun and be happy. I guess my question is.. do you think that might offend him? do you think he thinks that im trying to get rid of him? do you think that he might think its like a "go ahead" to go sleep with some other girls? I just want to know if im making a bad move on telling him its okay to try and flirt with other grirls and that he wont go too far.. (link)
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ok i'll answer it from a guy's point of view,since i'm a guy and well,maybe you girls take things differently
if a girl asks me to not act like i'm her bf,or anything,it would rahter hurt me
yes,it's true,it is rather hurtful as it kinda feels like the girl is pushing him away and not even trying to be in a relationship or maybe try to make this seemingly open relationship work
it would also make him feel degraded,if he doesn't have good self esteem.meaning,he would take it that you are just "using" him in a way and treat him like a second hand/part time/leftover kinda bf gf relationship.and this would also make the situation worse.
my suggestion:you guys have to sit down and talk..serious talk,not the baby boo i love you kinda talk,but some serious talk about where you guys are going.Why? well because you both are confused about your direction and this is not healthy,even for an open relationship,trust me.
so just ask, if he wants to take things to the next level or if he just wants to remain static because the bottom line question of the day which WILL come someday is this: If you love each other,why not be together for real?
it's kinda of an all or nothing situation,but as i said,open relationships will end up to the bottomline question,so sit down and talk and everything will be fine.ask me for any more enquiries
p.s:just as a reminder,yes it does offend guys ,if he likes you ,he wants to be with you and it hurts him that you are pushing him away even though you do it for a differernt reason which he can't see because well...you guys haven't talked..so,talk! lol,good luck
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Okay this is so random and stuff but I was just wondering if guys like when girls moan. I was with my best friend and we had a 6 some. I guess you could say then she started having sex and she didn't moan at all and neither did the other girls there. I was like what? I thought guys loved moaning. None of them moaned. Why? thats so crazy i always moan. always. im confused. please explain. (link)
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erm first of all
theman below me has no F***** idea about the question at all
ok,well,guys LOVE..i repeat...LOVE moaning,yes..so you don't have to worry.why do you think girls moan in pornos.
basically hun,anything a girl does in a porno,is the right thing...and let me tell you personally as a guy.i'm 19 by the way...the one thing that can turn us on more than a hot body is a hot body experiencing orgasm.seriously think about it..hot still body OR hot writhing body full of moans and orgasm?well not to get too graphic but basically what i'm saying is
turning a girl on is a turn on...yes,lol...ironic i know
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I like this guy and he likes me back but we never talk to each other. Do you think I should go up to him and make a conversation or should I wait until he comes up to me? Please REPLY!!!! Thanks! (link)
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ok first you are definitely SURE that he likes you back right? or is it just signals?
if you are sure,then.....
go for it!,seriously,the only problem a person should face is when one does not know if another likes/loves/is just friends with the person..then it would be embarassing..the rejection,the awkward silence,etc.etc
but since he likes you,and you in return like him...there is only one path to this scenario and i'm glad to tell you that it's a happy one
go and talk to him,tell him you like him..not profusely,or he'll think you're wierd,but just smile coyly and tell him you like him maybe in between the silence of your conversation..that'll be super random and super cute..lol
you'll do fine hun,trust me,just make your move first in case (god forbid) something happens in between the timeline
p.s.:oh and check out if he blushes when you tell him your feelings all of a sudden..lol
ciao,god bless
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Would you rather ask a girl out or have her ask you out?
And out of all the movies that are playing right now- which one would you most like to see?
thanks.
(please include your age in your answers if you don't mind) (link)
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19 years
a girl asking me out
sounds hot,and kinda getting sick of always asking the girl out all the time,no offense
girls that make the first move is a huge turn on,and mostly,guys won't turn these girls down,they know what they want and are confident
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THIS IS A QUESTION FOR A GUY'S OPINION ONLY
Where do guys like the girls to put their hands when they are making out?
Please don't say penis =P
Thanks in advance! (link)
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not penis...ok then
tickle his ear and run your fingers round his earlobe
if he as a nice bod,feel under his shirt and touch his chest or abs
also the inner thighs,like lay your hand on his thigh while making out rub it a little
you could also just put your arms around his neck
comb his hair with your fingers,that always works
ciao,have fun
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i'm 16/f... this guy at school I've had my eye on for a while is in my gym class and the only thing I know is that he's good at any activity except in the social area. Don't get me wrong I mean he's really sweet, but whenever someone has a conversation with him it's so one-sided it's like the person is talking to themselves. Ok, how do I approach him without feeling like I'll say something stupid and actually get pass this wall of his?
Thanks,
CrushOnMysteriousGuy (link)
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lol,I understand your situation perfectly since I used to like a girl in the same manner as well. Well basically ,you can't get into the 'zone' of his at first,this being because he has set up a wall before him,he could be 3 things which i will explain,sorry but my advices are pretty long.....bear with me.
shy:he is shy around girls/guys/people and might love to talk but is just shy to open up to
reserved:this kinda guy just loves to be alone,he loves serenity and queit and hates big parties or loud people screaming in his ear
introverted: basically,doesn't have much to say or has a lot to say but just doesn't feel like saying it
some might argue that all these 3 are the same but i assure you they are different
so the way to get past any 3 of these is to first SMILE,yes,wierd isn't it how a smile can work? just smile at him,and i don't mean one big fish happy smile which will make you look wierd.Just smile sweetly showing a bit of teeth on some days and smile wide on other days. This one works, cause first-he gets curious,no matter how dead he may seem,all humans are curious creatures and he will be curious and curiousity leads to interest and therefore interested.
okay next, don't introduce yourself tooo fast,you want him to be interested first,the guy wants to play hard to get,we'll give him hard to get.HAH!
give about 1 or 2 weeks,if he smiles back or looks at you differently,then you change your strategy....
introduce yourself,your name first of course and maybe talk about gym since you both are in and ask him open ended questions.
never ever ask him close ended like: do you like cake,he answers..no
ask him"so why do you join gym?"
he;ll probably shrug,lol
in any case,it's a better bet than close ended
next talk to his friends and find out his interest,yeah,this is a MAJOR factor,talk to a guy about something he likes and he's hooked,find out his ideal girl,his sports,his music,his family,his movies,his books,everything,kinda stalkerish but hey....he is a tough cookie,it's not like he's makin it easy for you anyways so you gotta do what you gotta do
then talk to him about his interst,and hopefully he will break out.remember to always TAKE IT SLOW,this case is a slow creature so play according to this timezone
anyways,i guess that's bout it,the rest it just inviting him to lunch or a snack slowly,talking to him after and before gym,inviting him to movies, and of course keep on asking stuff related to his life.
of course it will help if you dress well and smell good too,personality is important but looks are a strong aspect too
also maybe offer to help him with his assignments or anything like that ,he would like it and to be a little coy,probably work out right in front of him so he can admire you,lol,he probably didin't notice you before or whatever,anyways
best of luck,ciao
p.s.:make sure he's not gay
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14/f
well theres this guy named bryce in my comp. class and we talk a lot. hes pretty cute and i'm getting frustrated with knowing if he likes me or not? how do i get him to open up. i want to take it one step further..
wellll:
- we make a lot of eye contact
- he plays with my purse keychains all the time haha..
- one day he was messing around with me and i'm like 'you are so mean' (as a joke) and he's like 'maybe i like messing with you'
- i put my number in his phone like 3 weeks ago and he gave me a weird look when he found out.. he was kinda weirded out i guess and told my friend who is also his friend that he just wanted to be 'friends'.
- i noticed that hes getting more comfortable with me, and jokes around more instead of being uptight.
how do i flirt without being subtle? i really do like him, & i know that i cant force anything, but i want him to know. :]
oh & we're having a halloween party at the end of the month, do you think that i should invite him? (link)
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well this is always a problem,yeah,the in-between stage of friendship and love,when nobody wants to make the first move,and both are kinda stuck
well,i would recommend you to straight out..ASK him,seriously,this is the modern century,and girls should ask boys and vice versa,and something else,girls expressing their feelings to guys is a major turn on,trust me...we are getting kinda tired of the play hard to get ploy.
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First when I say hook up -- I mean just making out... no sex!
So theres this guyyy that I hook up with sometimes. Like once a month (this has been going on since the end of last year). I'm really good friends with him, but after every time we hook up, then it gets awkward and we totally ignore each other in class, like even more than usual. And why I say that is because normally in class we might talk, but like its not a habit. Were mostly friends just outside of school. I don't like this awkwardness...how do I get over it?! HELP!!! thanks =] (link)
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well,basically,you guys are probably guilty or shy
my guess would be shy after that...experience
just talk to him after that,like immediatly after that,and say assuring stuff,like everything's ok and all,that would make him feel at peace,the key point is to communicate,communication breaks barriers and awkward silences,be open and talk about the hook up or say something like you are a good kisser or that was amazing or something like that..since you both are friends,you guys can also joke about it and just be casual
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okay i like this guy and he likes me back but the thing is i cant date till im 18 and i told him about it and he said he'll wait but then he next day he says he cant wait because he wants to be with me but then i just dont wanna go behind my parents back so i told him to wait till im 18 and if he cant wait then he could move on and and but he still said he'll wait i asked him why cant he wait because he said he likes me a lot do you think he'll wait for me? we known eachother for 3 weeks and i asked him why he was rushing and he said hes not what do you think about this situation? we are both 16 (link)
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well actually honestly,you both are still pretty young so I would advice you both to take it slow at first.furthermore,you guys have only been together for 3 weeks..
i believe that he will wait for you if he really likes you,just tell him that the relationship at this point is just at a friend stage,or possibly close friends,you guys can still hang out and talk right?and if your parents ask,just say it's a close friend cause friends do hang out..get the point?it's a win win situation,you and him get to hang out and your parents thing it's just a friend thing going on.so yeah...technically you are not lying,and you get to be with him as well...
take care
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16/f
why cant i ever find the right guy for me? ok i know i aint that pretty its just my boobs that the guys are after(i got DDs)..... i dont even have THAT bad a rep but still im surrounded by all the bitches.... why cant i ever attract the right kind of guy? and when they find out im not that kind of girl they dich and someone else takes their place....starting the whole mess all over again! ive only lived in this town a year and its already drivin me insain, i mean the other guys at my old town in austin they never acted like this and i dont think ive changed im still that quiet redhead i always was!
why are the guys only doin this to me i mean they dont bother the other girls who have DDs or bigger.... only me!? how can i tell if a guy likes me for me and not just the boobs? i actually want to find someone who will love me even if i didnt have DDs. i really like my friend bret and i think he likes me... im not sure but how do i find out if he likes me for the right reasons? im more that just boobs, ya know, so how do i get the guys to see that????? (link)
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erm ok first i would say that your boobs are part of you,it's not like two seperate parts or an accessory or something,it's you,lol.so yeah,they like you.
and about the guy stuff,well it's just male instinct but if you really wanna tell,look at him eye to eye,if he stares down then probably he likes your boobs or if you look at him and his eyes like go everywhere around the room and like try to glance at your boobs everytime.
Another thing,make your personality stand out,be friendly,outspoken and sometimes don't talk too much at every single chance,just say something when the right opportunity comes and you have something ironic,random or funny to say.It makes you mysterious but still unique cause you say something at the right time,well that's my suggestion for standing in terms of character
also,if you don't want guys to like you just for your boobs,a drastic action would be to like...i don't know,maybe keep it down with a bra or something,or wear a jacket,again,that's a wierd way,but it might work,cause the guys would stop staring and maybe look at you,the whole you.
ciao,that's just my advice,hope it works
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thank you so much for answering my question and i really thought about what you said and i'm hoping that you are right about how he feels about me. But, I still don't know. When I told his best friend that I liked him, he told his best friend that he didn't like me. And now we've gone a a few weeks without talking and as far as I know, he's still dating that girl. Should I tell him how I truly feel, tell him that I'm completely in love with him, or should I just remain his friend. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I don't know if I can just be his friend... it's quite hard and as much as I joke about it with him, his dating other girls does make me jealous and I am in love with him. I ruined a potential relationship with the same guy twice, because I can't get over this boy. Should I tell him how I feel for real and if I do, how should I go about it? Sorry, to keep bugging you about this but, he means a lot to me and I don't want to lose him.
Thank you for your help and advice. (link)
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ok so we have to be clear of the issues at hand
first,you love him
second,you won\'t be able to get over him as stated,and it\'s affecting your love life
third,it is hard to remain his friend while you have a secret longing for him within.
among the possible paths are:
remain his friend,this is extremely tough as you like him and it\'s hard to know someone so well and like them but not be their friend,trust me,i\'ve gone through it before,unless you lose feeling for him,which doesn\'t seem to be happening at any moment when hearts are floating in your mind.lol
so to me,this path is out
2nd,this is a rather harsh path,but if you can\'t be his friend and love him at the same time,maybe end the relationship,it\'ll be hard,but you might forget about him and move on from there
again,this is a tough path,so i would vote out.
third,is of course the most possible path but the most dangerous,
the first two paths are rather safe you know?like a comfort zone,just remain his friend which you are,or stop calling him and the friendship,which is relatively easy,it has no really dire consequences.
the third one would be to confess to him.here we come to the \"keep and regret or tell and know\"
you can either take the first two paths in which you keep your secret but might regret later in life in what would have been.....
or you can tell him and get ready to be hurt or suprised,it depends on what person you are,are you ready to take what he has to say?if you aren\'t then don\'t continue this message
if you do,then first what you got to do is this...
don\'t immediatly put on your shoes and rush over to tell him,those dramas only work in movies.first,talk to him again,connect and rekindle your friendship once more.invite him out to movies and parties.important:ask his friends what he likes,seriously,if ever there was a turn on for guys it would be similar interest,i know a friend who is nuts over this gal because she smokes and drinks like him and another who is head over heels over a girl that plays the guitar and likes rock music like him...so yeah. ask his friends what he likes,fav movies,fav music,fav fashion,even fav gal types,some like short hair,long hair,brunette,fair,whatever.if it seems like i\'m asking you to change that\'s because it is....lol,i don\'t mean change your wholeself but you must have heard of people saying\"i would change for you\",who knows maybe this guy has come into your life to change you for the better.anyways,just take it slow,get to know him then maybe during a walk in the park,where there is noone there,so save the possible embarassment,never ever confess in a crowded restaurant,extremely awkward.then tell him,again not over the phone,it\'s impersonal and gives him time,if you want to know the answer,it should be right away,better good or bad.
so say,\"hey *name of person*,i really would like to stop and take the time for telling you what a wonderful friend you are and how much fun i have had,i know most ppl enjoy the ride so much that they forget to say anything about the journey so i would just like to say you are really amazing to me.*name of person*..then pause for awhile,then say\" i would like to take our friendship to the next step,i have made my decision and now i\'m asking you but whatever it is i just want you to be happy with or without me because i love you.\"
and that\'s it,a short direct confession,important is to tell him you appreciate him cause it really shows that you are not taking anything for granted and that you are a thoughtful person,so he\'ll feel touched and also the end,which states that you just want him to be happy,so he understands.
answers,he could just plain out say no
or yes!!!
or think about it,which is good,cause any confession takes some time to think about as it\'s again personal,not on the phone,but at least you got a answer.so continue to be his friend if he says this don\'t straight away go crazy and start sending him love messages or anything,it gets creepy,say\"ok take your time and i\'ll be waiting,thank you for listening,\"important: say thank you.
anyways that\'s it,yeah,of course please don\'t beat me or curse me as i hold no responsibilites of what might be,as i said,if you cant take the pain it might cause,go for the earlier two paths and ignore this dangerous risky gamble which just might make your day.you never know..
p.s:erm,since he\'s dating,it\'s best to wait till he breaks up or something,cause it might cause conflict to him,makin him feel bad and stuff about cheatin or dumping the girl
byes
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so this may be an immature question but when a guy fingers a girl does he go all the way into the vagina or just around the outside? (link)
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erm i'm a guy and we usually start outside before goin in,sometimes,the rough ones would just go in straight
nowadays though the guys like to stimulate the g spot which is about like 2 inches into the vagina on the upper wall so be prepared for that too
ciao
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Okay. Im 15/f and im not what people would consider a hottie. im a big girl. lol. im cute though at least thats what ive been told. but i just cant get a single guy to like me and/or the guys i like allways say no to me and go for my best friends. I dont like to say that my confidence is low but it is. I need to know how to expand my friendship cirle and find a guy! please help! (link)
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hmmm ok,well since you are cute and such but do not consider yourself a hottie,that does not mean you don't have a fallback....personality and skills
trust me on this,most guys,well i do,go for what a girl does and can do
for example,rocker girls really turn me and my friends on,just a girl playing a guitar...well,it's the same as girls who go for thin ugly rockstars cause they can sing
anyways,open up more and be friendly,smiling is an important key,and you could always do things to improve yourself,like working out,changing hairstyles,more spunky outfits and such.
what you are now never means what you will become tomorrow
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14/f
so she's been with her boyfriend for almost about 3 months and 2 weeks. Ever since she's been his girlfriend she hasn't been the same. It's like we're not even close anymore ...IT'S CRAZY...well are there any quotes that i could use to describe our frendship?!! (link)
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erm if you were a guy i would say bro's before hoes
but anyways,just tell her,guys are but a phase of your life,friends last forever
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So, I have been friends with this boy for a long time, but my senior year, we became really close. We were both in relationships, than both our relationships ended. I would tell him all the time or hint at the fact that I liked him, but I think he thought I was just kidding. We had three classes together, in one of them I would always flirt with this other boy and he always seemed annoyed by it but he never said he was annoyed by it. So, he started dating this other girl, but we'd always make fun of her together and he said he didn't really like her. Well, we graduated and didn't talk for awhile, but then, we started texting each other all the time. We'd stay up till like 2:00 in the morning texting each other. He'd always ask me for advice about girls and such and we'd talk about everything together. Well we seemed to be going good and then one night I told him about this boy that I was interested in and he was rude when I talked to him about it. I texted him a few days later asking if he was mad at me. He called me and said he wasn't, but that his texting bill was too high to talk. I was over it, and then we didn't talk for like two weeks. Then one day he calls me and tells me that he's officially dating the girl I mentioned before. I was annoyed by it and he knew it and he was like, what, are you jealous that she gets to be with me? He called me the next day to. I haven't talked to him in like two weeks again. I don't know what's going on with him. How does he really feel about me? Also, he wanted me to move down to where he is, so we could go to school together. He was also complaining about wanting swedish fish and I told him to have his girlfriend send him some and he was like, why don't you send me some. I don't know how he truly feels about me. We also made a pact that if neither of us is married by 29, we would marry each other. What's his deal? Are we just friends or is it more? (link)
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lol ok honestly this is like a match made in heaven because you too are definitely playing hard to get,and you guys are the hardest players there is.
first of all,you guys are like always kidding about wanting this 'perfect companion' to each other when it actually is part of your own attributes,and vice versa.
And both of you are using the jealousy game to get each other,but you both won't put down your swords until one of you says the magic word,or words
in this case,i seriously ask you to swallow in your pride and just tell him how you feel,you guys have been friends for so long,so your friendship won't be at risk even if he doesn't like you,which i highly doubt.
another proof is the pact,and well,most guys i know won't make pacts with any girl next door.after all the texting and talking,i can see he really likes you.
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i heard the song called pearl necklace by zz top. and i liked it but didnt quite know what it meant. i started singing it the other day in front of my mom && she got snobby && asked if i knew. but i just agreed.what does it mean. i do know it`s sex related. (link)
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well basically,you know like after or sometimes before sex,when the guy does a handjob for himself and he ejacultes and all the cum starts to shoot out
yeah,if it lands at the neck or the chest area of the girl it's usually called a pearl necklace,wierdly,it's one of the fav places to ejaculate upon besides the face.
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But he likes my best friend and i keep giving him advice trying to get him to stop liking her but i am not for sure if he likes me or not.
i need advice quickly
please help me (link)
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erm ok,there are two ways to this,either except that he likes your best friend,although it's really goin to be tough to do that,i mean you crush goin out with your best friend,it's either your friend or your crush if a relationship does take place.
the other way would be to just tell him how you feel,he might like you and trust me when i say that girls telling guys that they like them is a major turn on,it makes them feel special and such,i mean it's not everyday that a girl makes the first step.
a word of advice though,don't ever say anything bad about your friend behind her back which isn't true cause your friendship is not worth that.
ciao,good luck/
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Heyy everyone! :D
im Hailey (link)
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yes,i'm a guy,and guys like to be chased,i mean not in a harassing stalker way,but if a girl shows that she is willing to take the first steps in a relationship,it really is a turn on for guys.
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