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Crushing on my friend
So, I have been friends with this boy for a long time, but my senior year, we became really close. We were both in relationships, than both our relationships ended. I would tell him all the time or hint at the fact that I liked him, but I think he thought I was just kidding. We had three classes together, in one of them I would always flirt with this other boy and he always seemed annoyed by it but he never said he was annoyed by it. So, he started dating this other girl, but we'd always make fun of her together and he said he didn't really like her. Well, we graduated and didn't talk for awhile, but then, we started texting each other all the time. We'd stay up till like 2:00 in the morning texting each other. He'd always ask me for advice about girls and such and we'd talk about everything together. Well we seemed to be going good and then one night I told him about this boy that I was interested in and he was rude when I talked to him about it. I texted him a few days later asking if he was mad at me. He called me and said he wasn't, but that his texting bill was too high to talk. I was over it, and then we didn't talk for like two weeks. Then one day he calls me and tells me that he's officially dating the girl I mentioned before. I was annoyed by it and he knew it and he was like, what, are you jealous that she gets to be with me? He called me the next day to. I haven't talked to him in like two weeks again. I don't know what's going on with him. How does he really feel about me? Also, he wanted me to move down to where he is, so we could go to school together. He was also complaining about wanting swedish fish and I told him to have his girlfriend send him some and he was like, why don't you send me some. I don't know how he truly feels about me. We also made a pact that if neither of us is married by 29, we would marry each other. What's his deal? Are we just friends or is it more?
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lol ok honestly this is like a match made in heaven because you too are definitely playing hard to get,and you guys are the hardest players there is.
first of all,you guys are like always kidding about wanting this 'perfect companion' to each other when it actually is part of your own attributes,and vice versa.
And both of you are using the jealousy game to get each other,but you both won't put down your swords until one of you says the magic word,or words
in this case,i seriously ask you to swallow in your pride and just tell him how you feel,you guys have been friends for so long,so your friendship won't be at risk even if he doesn't like you,which i highly doubt.
another proof is the pact,and well,most guys i know won't make pacts with any girl next door.after all the texting and talking,i can see he really likes you.
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It seems like their is a potential for more but you guys need to talk about things. Sit him down one day and tell him how you feel and then ask how he feels.
Good luck.
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