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Location: Kentucky
Age: 18
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Member Since: March 5, 2006
Answers: 14
Last Update: September 8, 2007
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So, I have been friends with this boy for a long time, but my senior year, we became really close. We were both in relationships, than both our relationships ended. I would tell him all the time or hint at the fact that I liked him, but I think he thought I was just kidding. We had three classes together, in one of them I would always flirt with this other boy and he always seemed annoyed by it but he never said he was annoyed by it. So, he started dating this other girl, but we'd always make fun of her together and he said he didn't really like her. Well, we graduated and didn't talk for awhile, but then, we started texting each other all the time. We'd stay up till like 2:00 in the morning texting each other. He'd always ask me for advice about girls and such and we'd talk about everything together. Well we seemed to be going good and then one night I told him about this boy that I was interested in and he was rude when I talked to him about it. I texted him a few days later asking if he was mad at me. He called me and said he wasn't, but that his texting bill was too high to talk. I was over it, and then we didn't talk for like two weeks. Then one day he calls me and tells me that he's officially dating the girl I mentioned before. I was annoyed by it and he knew it and he was like, what, are you jealous that she gets to be with me? He called me the next day to. I haven't talked to him in like two weeks again. I don't know what's going on with him. How does he really feel about me? Also, he wanted me to move down to where he is, so we could go to school together. He was also complaining about wanting swedish fish and I told him to have his girlfriend send him some and he was like, why don't you send me some. I don't know how he truly feels about me. We also made a pact that if neither of us is married by 29, we would marry each other. What's his deal? Are we just friends or is it more? (link)
It seems like their is a potential for more but you guys need to talk about things. Sit him down one day and tell him how you feel and then ask how he feels.

Good luck.


ok so today me and my boyfriend had sex and we didnt have proctection but we cant get it because none of our friends know and we arent going to go and buy them ourselves so he just takes it out before he feels like he is going to finnish, well today he said he didnt feel it until 10 seconds before he finnished and he pulled out and about 8 second after he finnished. i freaked out of course but he said he could feel when he pre cums so i dont know if i should believe him or what. ALso, what are the first signs of being pregnant ? (link)
If you and your boyfriend haven't had a serious talk about sex and being protected I would talk to him about it. If you all aren't responsible enough to get condoms, then don't have sex.

I don't really know the signs of being pregnant though.


okay i have been BEST friends with this girl since 1st grade. we are inseperable. but lately she has not been acting like a true friend. i liked this one guy for the longest time and he just told her that he liked her. well she has a boyfriend that she says she "loves" very much. she said that she'll try and hook me and the guy i like up. but he text messaged her and asked if she wanted to hang out and if her bf would have a problem with it. she said he wouldnt then she said "bye sexy" and he said "bye sexier." right when i was sitting next to her. this isnt the first time she started flirting with a guy i liked and got him into liking her. plus my other friend likes a guy named nick but my best friend says she claims him just because he lives across the street and because she has made out with him. and nick is her boyfriends best friend. she is really mean to her bf too. she flirts with other guys constantly. slapping austins ass everyday at lunch..telling other guys their sexy...sitting on guys laps and her boyfriend doesnt even know it. i dont want to stop being her friend cause she seriously is my Best Friend. but i really like this guy and she sits there and flirts with him right in front of me. what should i do?!?!?!? (link)
No she is doing your wrong. The girl that I've been best friend with for 6 years totally pretty much ignores me so my pretty much new best friend I've only known about a month.


i was wondering if anyone has used the veet bladeless razor set and if they have does it work and were u statisfied with it? (link)
It works, and it's good, but it BURNS YOU UP. It irritated me like crazy and burned.


I just met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we really hit it off. We met at my party (one of my friends brought him to introduce us). Well, he lives about 3 hours away from me but is in town 4 days a week because he has an internship down here. Most of the time he'll probably be working. I'm a senior in high school and he's a junior in college so this coming fall, I'm going off to college and we'd be going to the same school. But, he's still going to be down here most of the week and possibly even more than right now.


Would it be a good idea to get involved with each other?
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If you really like each other try it. You never know it may work out.


ok well im really white. . and it sucks. .is there any way i can get a good tan? like wat stuff to use for tanning and its quick and wont look bad. and how much is it to go to a tanning salon??
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Well it's according to what tanning salon you go to. Some of them are by minutes, some are by visits. Don't use tan in a can or anything like that. I used Jergens Natural Glow and it turns you orange and streaky. Atleast it did me.


ok well i get made fun of almost everyday. . mostly because i am really white. is there anyway i can make them to stop? ive tried standing up for myself and being nice to them and i dont want to tell a teacher because ive done that and they didnt do anything. . so wats a good way for them to stop?
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If they are gonna make fun of you because you are white, or pale skinned, then they need to get a life. Try ignoring them. I'm pretty much having the same problem having to ignore people and its not that easy. Just keep telling yourself that they are being heartless nad immature.


Dr. Dre FT. Eminem!!
whats the song called?
5s for anything!!
"most people wanna talk like they got somthin to say but nothing comes out when they move their lips just a bunch of jibberish"

WHATS IT CALLED??!

MUCHO LOVE
LILA (link)
Forgot About Dre is that it's called.


My best guy friend has been a real asshole to me the past few days. Well today I got really upset because the stuff he's been saying kind of hurts specially coming from someone like him. He'd like tell me that I look like crap, that my skirt is too short, tell me to shut up, give me that "are you a effing retard" look, ignoring me, all kinds of mean things. So I asked him if he was mad at me because he never acts this way towards me. He said no so I asked him why he's being so mean and he just said that it wasn't his fault that I can't take honesty and that I take things too seriously then just walked away.


What am I supposed to do? I really don't know what I did and he wont tell me. 18/f
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If he's going to treat you that way tell him to kiss your ass and get a life honey. You don't need negative people in your life that will end up causing you to feel self-concious about yourself. Tell him to get his head out of his ass and start being nice or else don't talk to him and if he apologizes then good, if he doesn't don't worry about him. I'm sure you are a beautiful and caring girl or obviously, it wouldn't hurt your feelings if you didn't care.

Hope I helped.


I think my two best friends are bullying me! They act like my best friend when its just one of them indivally. but when they're both together with me they call me names and then say its a joke and take the piss otta me.
plz help
Madi
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If they are going to act that way toward you, you don't need them as friends anyway. They aren't being true friends. Thats really childish for them to do that and they need to learn to grow up.


I accidently left my favorite water bottle filled with juice at work over the weekend, and now I can't get rid of the 'rotten smell'. But I don't want to just throw it away - I am quite attached to it.

Is there a way to get a 'bad smell' out of plastic containers? (link)
Have you tried washing it out with Hot water and Dishwashing liquid?


we'll me and my bestfriend hang out every weekend and we hang out with these two boys, c and j and my best friend started to date c, and after a while me and j got kinda bored with having them date and everything so me and him we started talking a lot and some how we got to talking about becoming "friends with benefits" and at first it was just simple just us two making out but then after that it got more serious and well i let him finger me and i jacked him off and it was more then i intended to ever do with him, we'll now things have gotten more serious between me and him and well now he likes me and i like him, we arn't dating or anything but our feelings are gettn stronger everytime we talk and i've had sex before and so has he and well we always talk about maybe having sex with each other and now im thinking that maybe i shou;d..i need help on weather or not i should or not? (link)
I agree with what the person above me said.


Alright. I am 17 and ive had sex alot. but the thing is...my parents think im still a virgin. and my brother found out about me and this guy last night. and now hes like holding it against me. i am pretty paranoid cause i mean. he usually doesnt tell on me but sometimes he does. what should i do? come clean or just see what happens? (link)
I would do what everyone else said. But If you can talk to your parents, you should just talk to them about it and see what they think. More than likely they won't go totally crazy on you. If they are like my parents they'll just want you to be safe. My parents aren't strict about that and we joke about it sometimes. They were young once and they know how it is . So were your parents. Hopefully they'll understand. You need to sit your brother down and talk to him. I would say if he's younger it would be harder(im not sure im an only child) but if hes older he should understand that its your life and its not his place to tell your parents.

This is pretty much my first time giving advice on here. Someone from a message board gave me this site. I love it. Hopefully it all works out


ok im 15/f. my bf now we have been dating a little over a year, and i love him with all my heart, i would do anythin for him in this world we'll call him FRED.well we broke up for like 2 weeks and i dated a boy (bob)and i broke up with him because i couldnt stop thinking about fred. my dad dont let me see fred or talk to him but now that we are dating again i have been in such a good mood and everything like that. me and bob got along good and were good friends now but the other day he asked me to go to prom with him what should i do??? is that considered cheating if i would go with him or is that wrong or what(going as friends)? (link)
I have a boyfriend. If a girl asked him to prom and he went, I would be very upset and I know he would be also if it happend to me. Just talk to them both about it. See what happens. Good Luck.




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