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Alright. I am 17 and ive had sex alot. but the thing is...my parents think im still a virgin. and my brother found out about me and this guy last night. and now hes like holding it against me. i am pretty paranoid cause i mean. he usually doesnt tell on me but sometimes he does. what should i do? come clean or just see what happens?
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Okay sad to say were in the same boat well almost. If my brother ever found out I'd go crazy. I know this sounds a little out there but ignore him depending how old he is he may forget all about it. So relax if he does tell come clean and take the exteamly long lecture (what else can they really do)So breath and move on don't stress out it's bad for you ;)
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DA <3
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You're 17, hun. What you're doing is your private life and it shouldn't be out there for everyone to know about, especially your parents. It's up to you and it shouldn't concern anyone else besides you and your partner. I wouldn't tell your parents and I'm sure your brother won't, either. If he respects you enough, he won't tell them. Just keep it to yourself, for now and if he does tell your parents, you'll have to have a talk with them. I'm sure you have nothing to worry about, as of right now, though. ♥
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Your 17 years old. Your life, your choice & your self. If he does tell your parents they cant exactly do anything about it if your 17! You're legal to do it and i think that if your parents want you to be happy they will trust you.
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well hey im only 13 but i can still have a say :) well um you should talk to your brother tell him his you brother and you need to trust him and you need him to be there for you and you will do the same tell your brother if he forces you to tell your parents you should but tell him when the time is righ tbecause you dont feel comfortable at the moment and if he tell your parents just tell him it's gonna be very hard to trust him and if you get in alot of trouble tell your parents yor 17 ur like an adult you also need to make your own decisions but you need them there to love and support you ifit dosnt work then im really sorry but thast the best i got plz reply
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I would do what everyone else said. But If you can talk to your parents, you should just talk to them about it and see what they think. More than likely they won't go totally crazy on you. If they are like my parents they'll just want you to be safe. My parents aren't strict about that and we joke about it sometimes. They were young once and they know how it is . So were your parents. Hopefully they'll understand. You need to sit your brother down and talk to him. I would say if he's younger it would be harder(im not sure im an only child) but if hes older he should understand that its your life and its not his place to tell your parents.
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You're 17 years old and you can make some decisions on your own and it's your personal life and it should stay private. You need to talk to your brother and explain to him what you did. I mean he is your brother an all, but he shouldn't have to get involved with ever pieace of information he has about you. I'm sure if he did something like that he wouldn't want you telling your parents. If he still wants to tell your parents, I think it's best to come clean. It's better for your parent's to hear it from you or anyone else.
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or you could tell your parents ill be hard but then you can kill your bro
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the whole virginity thing is your own privacy & your personal life. maybe you should talk to your brother & explain to him that its your life & if any of that ever happened to him, he'd probably wouldn't want your parents to know either & vice versa. if you want to be open & honest then let them know. they might want to know, but its really up to you.
-hope that helped!♥
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