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How can you tell if a girl has a potential interest in you and does resting her head on your shoulder signify anything? Also, what if she lays with you on the grass with her head resting on your stomach without a care in the world of what a group of friends think?
Rick- Age: 18 / Gender: Male (link)
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Girls do that all the time and sometimes they do like you. Other times thats just what they do depending on the type of girl. If you really wanna find out if this girl likes you just ask her yourself.
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I would like teenagers to answer this one,
My daughter is 13. But the clothes she wears are not...happy. She always is sarcastic. She listens to strange, loud music. Is this the fashion these days? Should I let her be? (link)
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You should just be normal. Shes 13 and going through a phase wich everyone goes through but dont worry it will pass, just give it time.
I think you are just a little too paranoid.
You should let her be.
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hey everyone. my name is nikita im 15 and i go to seven lakes high school. and there's this girl named nicole hajka and she use to bother me alst year and she still does. and then now she has my cell phone number and she started calling me yesterday.. and she left me this really dumb voicemail. and i kept calling her and she wuz like stop caliing me. and i said well u keep c alling me and leeving me retarded voicemails. sh's soo annoying. and so r her stupid jock friends who talk shit about me. and i told her if she calls me again i'll call the cops. and that i wanted to talk 2 her mom to solve this but she never called back...so how do i prevent this from happening!? next time (link)
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By the sound of it i dont think that she will call again not after your threat. And if she happens to call you again just ignore it and eventually she will get bored of it & stop.
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I am in desperate need of some advice. My girlfriend, I am so worried about her. She is always saying how fat she is, and she is not. But I know every girl says that, but she is going to the extrememe and it is stressing her out so much. She is trying to become anorexic again, and I just don't know what to do to help her realize that she is the most beautiful girl to walk this planet, and that she is not fat...I tell her that every single day...and she still is like this...I am so worried, please some advice on something I can do to help her understand that she is beautiful..
Oh and I forgot a lot of this came from her dad calling her fat when she was little... (link)
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I dont think there is anything you can do i think her dad needs to talk to her and cheer her up and tell her the truth.
I really think you should ask her dad if he will talk 2 her.
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I am 15 years old and i have always wanted to have sex and i have finally found this great girl who is totally up for it but its illegal so i have no idea if i should or not. Should i? Please help! (link)
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Although it IS illegal i think you shouldnt have to wait if you really love her.
Maybe even if you think you can, ask your parents about it!
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i can't really explain my love for this one guy. And it's not like teenage-i-like-you thing. i think about him all the time, and some nights i literally cry myself to sleep about him. i don't know what to do. my friends say i should ask him out or they could ask him out for me, but i just can't. i talk to him a lot but it's just not enough...please help. what should i do? (link)
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I think you should take up your friends offer to if they will ask him out for you because othwerwise if you dont you may regret it.
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There's a guy I REALLY like. Let's call him "Shirt".
Shirt has called me hot on a few occasions, sometimes to my face, and sometimes not.
Today, one of my friends was hounding me about who I like, and when she said to tell her, Shirt looked over.
The thing that confuses me is that sometimes he doesn't even acknowledge me.
I don't really know him that well. We have a Sadie Hawkins dance coming up, and I was wondering if I should ask him. I rate!
I'm 14/f, and he's 17/m (link)
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By the sounds of this guy i dont think you need to ask him you just need to tell him about the dance and he will ask you. If not then obviously hes not that into you.
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i'm going back out with my boyfriend after he cheated on me. but i know he won't do it again! a lot of people tell me that i'm stupid.... "once a cheater always a cheater!" but i love him so much and know he won't do it again! WHAT DO I DO?! (link)
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I realize that he cheated on you but if you are this sure he will never do it again & you really love him then it is worth the risk.
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is it odd to date somebody a year younger then you, and he's a little bit shorter then you?
Im a female.
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No it is NOT. If you like him that what counts not his size.
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I have a confrontation problem. Meaning that I don't know how/can't confront people. Sometimes this is okay, but I can't even tell people when I'm mad at them and it only ends up hurting my relationships with people. Is there any way that I can overcome this problem? I'll rate high for good answers. Thanks very much. (link)
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That is completly normall. You just have to build your confidence up slowly. Start talking to new people. When you are mad at someone talk to them about it, if it doesnt work then you walk in like you own the place and yell. To hell what other people think its what you think that counts.
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Alright. I am 17 and ive had sex alot. but the thing is...my parents think im still a virgin. and my brother found out about me and this guy last night. and now hes like holding it against me. i am pretty paranoid cause i mean. he usually doesnt tell on me but sometimes he does. what should i do? come clean or just see what happens? (link)
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Your 17 years old. Your life, your choice & your self. If he does tell your parents they cant exactly do anything about it if your 17! You're legal to do it and i think that if your parents want you to be happy they will trust you.
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At the beginning of the school year is when we met and we talked and flirted alot :-/ we became really good friends til he told me he liked me I didn't like him at the time cause I thought he was ugly and I thought we was to good of friends he liked me for awhiel til he gave up now it's near the end of the year and we still talk but not as much he kind of picks on me alot and everytime i say something to him he makes a big joke out of everything..It makes me mad but now im starting to kind of like it..He was such a sweetheart before he started acting like a jerk and I realize I really do like him.. I'm afraid to tell him cause he might just make a big joke out of it like everything else what should i do? (link)
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Well he said he likes you. You have to ask him if he still does and if he does there you have it. He could be the person you have been looking for.
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I met this girl this year, and we quickly became best friends. We ate lunch together every day, saw eachother outside of school, and we had English together so we would always see eachother. Semester 2 began, and she started to eat lunch with the guy she liked and his friends, leaving me all alone. I found a new group of friends while she continued hanging out with her crush and his group of friends. I confronted her about it right after it started and we argued about it so much we didn't talk for 2 weeks. We made up, but things still aren't the same. She says its important that she gets the guy, but I always thought our friendship was more important. It's been a while now, and we still don't talk often (VERY rarely), never see eachother, and I don't know what's going on in her life anymore. I want our friendship back, but I don't want to fight about it again and have it be even worse. What can I do? (link)
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I think you may have a tiny crush! Freindship is very important and i think that if you talked to her about your freindship but tell her she should still get the guy she wants then you 2 could still be friends. Even if it seems that shes abandoning you, you have to talk 2 her about it. And sure she will have other friends but at least in the long run, once again, you will be one of them.
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Okay. This is going to be a longer entry but i'd really love the advice, i need some help on this one. So there's a guy at my school. this is going to sound incredibly typical, but i really do like him a lot. I have for a long time, i think its been about 5-6 years. We were together on and off for the majority of last year, but we had some conflicts and he said he didnt want a romantic relationship over the summer, but maybe once school started up again. This school year is almost over, and he's basically told me and some of my friends he liked me. We flirt with each other a lot, but every once in a while we just kind of stop talking, like for a week or so. I dont really know why, except that he's kind of shy when it comes to me. But with other people he's totally out there, and doesnt hold back at all. Recently, another girl has started to like him too. She's apparently really obsessed, and i do mean obsessed. She writes poems about him and basically freaks out everytime she hears his name. she follows him around and he's all she ever talks about. He knows about all of it, and has no interest in her. i feel bad for her, but at the same time i'm kind of annoyed. she found out he liked me and watches me all the time. her friends question me, him, his friends, my friends, and other people about our feelings for eachother all the time. One of this girls friends asked him if he liked me and he said if he liked me he'd ask me out. I was disappointed at first but just earlier that week we'd been flirting like crazy and his friends were telling everybody about how he talks about me so much and how much he likes me. I'd love to talk to him about it but the truth is i'm totally shy. I really need some advice, either on what i could do to get over my fears or what some of that stuff means. For those of you who read this far, thank you so much. Like i said i really need some help. ♥ (link)
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Well you say your totally shy but if you have been flirting this often i think its time you do something about it.
And if you cant build up the courage to ask him out yourself or see how feels get a good friend to do it.
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Okay so i have a dance compititon this weekend and i have a couple things i was wondering because it's my first compitition.
(I'm a 13 year old girl if that helps)
okay so i'm on my period. is there anything i should do to keep from getting leaks but not show through the costume? one's like a skin tight spandex uni-tard! but i can't wear tampons
2nd i was wondering if anyone has any advice or things i can do to relive stress and get sleep the night before. becuase i lose sleep the night before!
anything helps
Thanks in advance guys!!
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I think you should ask your friends who are also doing this dance what they are going to do about it and see if they have anything usefull in mind.
To relieve you stress i think you just need to relax buy thinking positive and practicing as much as you can. You will do great!
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does it sound like this guy likes me as more than a friend?
Well he had moved a couple of weeks ago. Before he moved we were usually in regular contact. He gave me his old computer before he left. He just got his internet hooked up. He gave me his private cell number, and also wanted to talk on msn messanger with me. In my experience, a guy won't volunteerly give out his private cell phone to a girl unless he's interested.
Well we started messanging each other a couple of days ago. When we talk it's usually for quite a long time; atleast an hour. He has been saying things like that he really missed me (with a crying face), and that he thought I was funny. I told him that I had a dream about the two of us a week ago and then asked if he ever did, and then he said he couldnt recall; but put a picture of a smiley face blushing. He also kept sending me winks and nudges. I also told him after my long shift last night that I wanted to soak in the tub and he sent me a smiley face with a huge grin and he said "GO FOR IT"! I also asked him if he liked talking to me on messanger and he said "for sure; you're a great person to know and talk to".
We talked for about an hour last night; and then he asked me what time I worked today because he wants to talk to me again.
So does it sound like there is something there more than a friendship? Or am I reading too much into it? (link)
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I actually have a couple of FRIENDS i am like that too but it depends on what he is like. Does he do this too all the girls or just you.
Find out and if it turns out that it is just you he does it too, then your not being paranoid.
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I'm sorry if this is kind of long..
helpful info: 15/f..all girls school... this was at an all-guys school dance....
last night i was at this dance. i was outside with some friends because we were waiting for a few people to arrive. so, this friend of mine, introduces me to his friends. One of these friends asks me if i wanted to go inside and dance, so i was like.. sure. we went inside and started dancing for a while. Then, they were having like this contest or whatever and we were watching and he put his arm around me and said: "thank you for dancing with me!"
at the end of the night the guy kisses me. I asked him "what was that?!" and he said "i like you" i tried to make it kind of clear that i'm not a slut u know, someone that just kisses anyone. he said that he could tell i'm not a slut, but he meant no harm by it, he just liked me. so i was like ok. then when i was leaving, he kissed me again the parking lot, and literally like carried me and spun me around and he even held my hand. i was kind of shocked because he just met me, but on the other hand, i could tell that he didn't mean any harm, he just liked me...
but, my mother saw me from the parking lot. she was appauled because she thinks she knows every one of my friends like the back of her hand. she claimed to have never seen this child in her life... and asked me who that was that i was making out with. i wasn't even really "making-out". i agree that it was a little weird for the first time that you meet someone, but he didn't seem like trouble or anything. he said that he was sorry, he just couldn't control his "impulse" but that he was really sorry he didn't mean any harm by it. but my mother is super worried about this! she told me that she couldn't even sleep last night thinking of this... and in my opinion that's a little extreme!
if you can give me any advice on this, i would appreciate it a lot. i really need help on how to get my mother out of these things. i wish she could just get over it, i've told her about other times when i've made out with guys and shes always been like "thats great!" please answer soon
thanks again!
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It is completly normal for a parent to be worried about a child making out with someone they just met.
I think you should get to know this guy and then tell your mum about him so that she can calm down about him if she knew that you know about him.
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Right, my best friend is usually really nice, but recently she keeps putting me down, mostly about things that arent even true. She keeps pointing out people and saying they're taller than me and teasing me about my 'frizzy' hair. Shes even started being mean about the things i like. Like my big eyes she says are weird and the other day she said "I like my tummy better than yours" and i really like my toned tummy. Even though most of it isnt true, its really getting me down. What should i do? Please do not tell me to talk to her about it because she would just tell me i'm being stressy. (link)
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Usually i would ask you to talk to her about it but if she is being so mean im sorry but i dont think she is that good a friend.
Your friend should be someone whos nice to you and someone you trust. Not someone who treats you this way.
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about 3-4 months ago my boyfriend and I split. I was so upset that he wouldn't let me explain my reasons for what had happened that I wrote him a long letter. I really did love him and I still do.I just didn't like what he said and did to me. In that letter I said some pretty nasty things. I have been thinking about him alot lately, and would reallylike to call him. should I? I mean after the letter that I wrote I'm afraid he won't talk to me, or if he does it will be to say some more mean things to me. What should I do? and If I should call him what should I say? (link)
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I think you should call him, if you really love this guy and are this upset about him, then it is definatly worth it. Besides it is really important that you hear how he feels too. Because for all you know he feels the exact same wasy. And if he does and you dont call him you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
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okay so i have two best friends. and lately its seemed like they have been leaving me out. of everything. one of them, lets call her A, ive known since 3rd grade and shes been my best friend since. now im in 8th. the other, V, has been my best frined since 6th grade. and i like intoduced them to eachother in 6th grade. its always been us three. we have even gotten the name as "triple threat" around our school and such. but now it seems like its them, and then me. they talk on the phone everynight for hours on end, and everytime they see eachother they run up and hug each other for what seems like an hour. and im lucky if i even get like a hi sometimes. it may be that im jealous.. but i still want a hug. you know? they have been getting closer to eachother and farther from me. i know i really shouldnt be having to deal with this kinda thing with my best friends, but i am. and it totally sucks. ive talked to them about it and they said its kinda my fault because i do travel basketball that takes up all my weekends, but seriously, they shouldnt be blaming it on me.. should they? i did basketball last year too, and it wasnt any different between us. this started happening like 2 months ago. and now its getting really bad. if you have any advice on what i can do, please just post back anything. please! thanks in advance :] (link)
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Its hard to be a 3rd wheel & feel jealous about it, in fact im going through the exact same thing right now.
I think that you should hang out with them more often and laugh and tell each other secrets. You go in tommorow with a big smile and hug them both and act cherry and talk to them all day then ivite them round and have fun and they will see that you can be fun too.
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