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i'm going back out with my boyfriend after he cheated on me. but i know he won't do it again! a lot of people tell me that i'm stupid.... "once a cheater always a cheater!" but i love him so much and know he won't do it again! WHAT DO I DO?!
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Relationships don't usually work out the second time. "Once a cheater always a cheater" is true in some cases. In the others, the relationship will end because of jealousy and trust issues. Whatever you say, you're not going to trust him completely again and you probably feel a lot of jealousy towards the girl he cheated with. This will cause problems in the relationship. I'll give you a line from a song. "And you think of all of the things you've seen and you wish that you can live in between and you're back again only different than before." It can work out, but it will NEVER be the same and I don't think you're going to like it. You can try dating him again to prevent regret, but just be prepared for it to end at any time. There's no such thing as soulmates or there being only one person out there that is perfect for you. Even if you do break up with him you will find another love. I hope that everything works out for you and good luck!
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I think you should give the relationship one more shot. Everyone should be able to have a second chance, no matter what they've done. Just make sure that he doesn't do this again. Become closer with one another so you're able to tell eachother anything. In that case if he DOES cheat on you again, he'll tell you and not keep it a secret. But, you said he won't. If you trust him and you're 100% sure he won't do it again, then that's great. ♥
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I realize that he cheated on you but if you are this sure he will never do it again & you really love him then it is worth the risk.
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i wouldn't say that you are stupid because you seem like a smart girl. some guys who cheat once are likely to cheat again but some actually do turn around and don't do it again. but my advice to you is trust your instinct. i hope things work out.
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Well, I really do hope you know that he won't cheat.
I think at the moment you shouldn't care what your friends really have to say about your relationship with this guy. You know what they think, now it's time for you to move on with what YOU know.
-TheTeenGirl
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Aw well people may call it stupid but dont even listen to that if you know its right for YOU then go back out with him.But talk it out with him and let him know how bad it will be if he does it again most guys just do it over and over again but if you really sit down and talk to him I don't think he will. Just do what ever your heart tells you is right..give him another chance ♥
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I went out with this one guy who cheated on me AGAIN. It lasted for about.. a month.
The reason why we broke up is because I found out that he cheated on me throughout the whole entire time we were actually together.
Now we don`t even talk. I don`t even acknowledge at school anymore. Such a jerk.
Anyways, I would say take a chance, but if he cheats on you again, just realize that he wasn`t good enough for you & it`s not your fault.
I know that the guy I went out with & your guy aren`t the same, but just watch out. ♥
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Well that saying "once a cheater always a cheater" thats not true. its really just a phase, but to some people they stick with that forever. just stick with him and see what happens.
~Kristy~
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Enjoy him while you can because it won't last. There's a reason that we date people before we marry them, and the great part about dating, unlike marriage is that you don't need to feel obligated to take them back. Dating is for weeding out the cheaters, liars, and jerks, so I suggest you move along and leave him for someone else to deal with.
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I think that you are making a mistake.
You are letting him think that he can do it again and still have you as a girlfriend. Take it from a guy. He might try to take advantage of you.
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Going back out with him is OK. Just beware that it could happen again.
I don't believe in the once a cheater always a cheater thing either. If you trust him and can go on without bringing it up a lot you might just make a go of it.
The thing is, it isn't going to not happen just because YOU love him. HE has to love you enough not to.
So, if you want to give him another chance then do. Tell the others one mistake may also be learned by...hope you're right!
Best of luck. :)
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