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Well my name is Kristy and i go to East Thibodaux Middle school in Thibodaux Louisiana.I'm 13 in the 8th grade.I am also on Dance team.I have brown hair brown eyes.i'm 5'1. I love to hang out with my friends, and talk on the phone,computer, and i love to help people when they have problems, so dont be scared to ask me about anything if you need.well if u wanna know more about me then IM me on yahoo or aim. later..

advice

What kind of job can a 14 year old girl get?
I am almost 14 and need a job badly. My parents barely have enough money to pay the bills. I want to help them out. Please no babysitting. [if this helps i live in PA]

If you have like antiques and stuff like that people will probably pay alot for that.

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So there's this guy and I really like him. And everyone says he likes me. Yet, he didn't ask me out. Well, my friends and I are going to see Stay Alive soon and I wanted to ask him. How do I do it?

Just be yourself and go and ask him.

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ok so my friends boyfriend rappe me..and i told on him because everyone on here told me i should and im glad they did cuz now hes in juvey and my friend is mad at me because i got him sent there but she dosent know why and im not sure if i want to tell her..she has a BIG mouth..and she wont answer my phone calls..or IMs..what should i do???

Sammy

i think you should tell her and just tell her that she cant go around saying all kinds of stuff.If she dosent understand and listen to you then she isnt really your friend.

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Well, I have a friend who has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend is a really good friend of mine, and she's a close friend of mine as well. I love them both, but I feel like I can't talk to him without her thinking that I like him. I've talked to her about it, and she says she's okay, but I can read her, and I can tell it's NOT okay.

And another thing is that when me and this boy talk online and she's on at the same time, I have the strangest feeling that he sends her our convos. I mean, they're nothing to get mad over, but it has a lot of ... provocative things in it.

Am I just being paranoid, or should I continue to talk to the boy as if nothing is wrong?

If these are bad convos your having with her boyfriend then i think you should stop becuase if he does send her yall convos then she'll read them and theres a good possibility that she'll get mad at you.If you want him to stop talking to you like that then just tell him that so you wont get into any trouble.hope i helped

kristy

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When i was in 3rd grade i was ALMOST rapped, then in 6th grade, i was. The guy who rapped me was only 4 years older then me and he keeps calling me..hes 17 now and i dont know what to do. im scard but if i tell anyone i dont think they would believe me or theyd think i was joking..what do i do?!

well really i think you should tell someone because if you dont then something bad might happen to you.If they look on the phone bill they'll se his number anyways

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Everytime I look in the mirror I feel horrible I mean people tell me I'm beautiful or w/e but I just don't see it and I really swear I CANNOT SEE IT. Then, my best friends I've like blocked them from my emotions and my thoughts because I feel like their fake liars...it just feels everythings going to crumble and I wanna cry for no reason. Is this something teens go through or do I need to talk to someone?

Well this is somethig teens go through alot of my friends have been depressed about thins kind of thing.It will pass.

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my grandmother moved in last month because she started to get sicka nd everything so we had her come to our house after the hospital& everything. well i alwasy have faught with my mom, we just really dont get along like most of the time. but its been worse since my nana has been here. the other night my mom started yelling at me about everything ( she has issues, im not tryin to get attention she has problems though but i love her) but she started yellin at me so i was yellin back and my grandmother started bitching at me and they both started like egging me on trying to get me mad, cuz my mom knows how to get me mad and irritated. the next day my grandmother moved into my other aunts. i obviously feel really bad even though i knows its better but i feel like my moms hurt and my whole fam (my aunts and uncles, cousins) are all mad

what do i do? i dont wanna apologize idont know i dont think i have to but i probably do =(

Well you never know they might not be mad.Just like talk to them individualy and see what happens.

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Ok, here's the deal...I'm 13/f and all of the sudden I'm starting to really like my best friend, now I know that's kinda normal but here's the catch. ITS A GIRL! What is wrong with me? This isn't normal or right and I dont want her or my other friends for that matter to hate me, but I just can't make it go away! Should I just stay away from her until this weird feeling goes away? Please, I rate high! Thnx in advance

Well if there ur true friends they'll except you for who you are so dont ignore your feelings and you have nothing to worry about its normal.

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I'm 13 and I've liked this guy for a year now, and I'm beginning to wonder whether I should tell him I like him. I doubt he likes me back in "that way", but I'm 99.99999...% sure that he likes me as a friend. We're good friends. Not like unseparably devoted best friends, but we talk a lot. I'm not sure whether telling him how I feel is a good idea. Can anyone give me their thoughts?

i'd say just be honest with him and speak your mind.

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I was wondering were i could find a penpal (to like talk to through email or aim)
or if any GIRL who types nice would like to be my penpal
(even though the word penpal is pretty stupid more like friend.)
and im 13/f by the way.

Send me a message on AIM KrisLuhYouAlwayz

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Whenever I try to talk to a girl I have not met I just freeze. I can't get the words out of me. I am looking to start off as friends and if I like her then ask her out but I just freeze. Is there some way I can get myself to get past it?

Well dont frezze becuase girls dont like when guys are shy.There is nothing to be scared of anyways.

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One of my best friends likes the same guy as me. Well my and my crush (Ross) have been talking alot latley and he told me he likes me. I don't know how to tell her that he likes me. I don't wanna sound like I'm trying to rub it in her face, but I don't want her to find out from like gossip or something so I want her to know so she doesn't get her heart broken, but what should I say?

Well just talk to her and say that we both like each other.but it wont sound like your rubbing it in her face.You shouldnt keep anything from your best friends becuase if you do thats how you'll get farther away from them.

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I'm in high school and my group or friends are really close to each other. So, when one person tells another about something, they run off and tell someone else and then it finally gets around to our whole "group." It always happens, with everything and everyone. And of course whoever told the first person gets upset because they did not want their "secret" or whatever to get out to everyone else.


We go through these arguments about once a week, no joke. We're all guys and girls between the ages of 16-18. We can't just stop telling each other stuff, that doesn't work. EVERYONE has a big mouth.


Any advice?

Well i mean if yall are all close friends you should be able to trust them. so if it really bothers you then talk to them like individualy. it might work.

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I think I may like my exboyfriend again. But the thing is, we never really talk anymore. I think he likes someone else but I'm not sure. I know that if I ask him out, he'll say yes because I almost asked him to a dance a few weeks ago and he found out and asked me instead. Theres something stopping me from asking him out though and I just don't know what to do. What would you do in my case?

Well if you really like him then I would ask him out. I mean you'll always have feelings for your ex even though some people say they dont. So if you like him i say go for it.

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Okay I really like this boy (( let's call him Joe )) Well Joe and I became friends this summer and since then we've been best friends. I realized today that I really like Joe but, I really don't want to ask him out because I don't want to ruin our friendship and he also has a girlfriend. What should I do?

Well if her has a girlfriend right now i wouldnt mess with him, but mabey when he's avalible you can have a shot.

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eugh
i kow this younger guy (hes nearly 16, im 17)its just so obvious, we are in the same band and he just stares at me and its grosse (sp?)

how can i get him to not like me? i dont wanna tell him to his face cos i think hes got it big :S so yeah any suggestions.

(ps ive tried to distance my self from him but he keeps talkin to me, and we dont go to the same school either)
thank-you x

Well what i would do is like get a good friend of yours to go and talk to him, if you dont want to tell him yourself.If that dosent work and you dont really mind just talking to him for a second. then just talk to him and say that its really nice you like me and all but,,well just tell him what you think about it. Just try not to be mean.
~Kristy~

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Ok so here is the problem I have a serious crush on this boy let's call him Kyle. I am 14 so it's not just some stupid little kid thing, and no he isn't super popular. He's just there. He's always teasing me he likes to call me a turuturu. (they are cute little made up creatures) The main problem is I know he doesn't like me as more than a friend because he's gay. I keep telling myself I don't have a chance with him because he's gay but I can't get over him. What should I do?

Well you should start hangin out with different guys and mabey it will take your mind off of "Kyle". you could find another guy for you. Plus i dont think "Kyle" would fall for you becuase he's gay.You cant help who you like though right? Well just spend time with more guys and it should get your mind off of him.

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i was just wondering how many times a day should you use proactiv? im not sure if its one or two. and please dont tell me that i should stop using proactiv cause i want to.

They say use it 3 times a day.

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i straighten my hair everyday, and i dont use any special conditioners or anything. Is that bad? i use garnier fructis shampoo & conditioner, if that helps. thanks xOx [♥]

No. its not bad. You can get different spray stuff so your hair wont get fried or get split ends.Garnier fructis dosent make your hair like that either.

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Well... im deathly afraid of spiders! Does anybody no a way I can stop fearing spiders so much?

I'm very afraid of them to.Just try to saty away frm them so they wont bother you.

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