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Question Posted Friday March 24 2006, 10:19 pm

Well, I have a friend who has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend is a really good friend of mine, and she's a close friend of mine as well. I love them both, but I feel like I can't talk to him without her thinking that I like him. I've talked to her about it, and she says she's okay, but I can read her, and I can tell it's NOT okay.

And another thing is that when me and this boy talk online and she's on at the same time, I have the strangest feeling that he sends her our convos. I mean, they're nothing to get mad over, but it has a lot of ... provocative things in it.

Am I just being paranoid, or should I continue to talk to the boy as if nothing is wrong?


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Additional info, added Saturday March 25 2006, 10:18 am:
What I mean by "provacative" is a lot of stupid things that isn't sexual, just innuendo. .

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KrisLuhYouAlwayz answered Saturday March 25 2006, 10:21 am:
If these are bad convos your having with her boyfriend then i think you should stop becuase if he does send her yall convos then she'll read them and theres a good possibility that she'll get mad at you.If you want him to stop talking to you like that then just tell him that so you wont get into any trouble.hope i helped

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TheTeenGirl answered Saturday March 25 2006, 1:35 am:
If these provocative conversations would be a conversation you shouldn't be having with another girl's boyfriend, then I'd say you should stop the deep conversations.

If you can tell that things aren't ok with her, it's normal for her to feel a little threatened. But, I think that you should give them space when it comes to talking to them. Everyday you shouldn't really feel the need to talk to him. Let him have time with his girlfriend on days. Just try to put yourself in her position, if you feel like the conversation is too much, try thinking, "If his girlfriend was watching our conversation right now, what would she be feeling like?"

I think right now, you should try stepping out of their lives just a bit to give them room. Let them have their conversations even when you are online. Talk to her at the same time you talk to him. Get in a chatroom sometimes so that she knows that you shouldn't be a threat to her.

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LoViNu2mOuCh answered Friday March 24 2006, 11:44 pm:
If you think that it is wrong, then stop talking to him.

I mean what do you mean by provocative things...? To me that does sound like something that she would get mad over..

You should try talking to this boy about it and see how he feels, and go from there...

Just use your best judgement on this..

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