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My friends hates me:-(
ok so my friends boyfriend rappe me..and i told on him because everyone on here told me i should and im glad they did cuz now hes in juvey and my friend is mad at me because i got him sent there but she dosent know why and im not sure if i want to tell her..she has a BIG mouth..and she wont answer my phone calls..or IMs..what should i do???
Sammy<3
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I think there are only three available options here. I expect she probably thought something was wrong. After all, however much she cared about him, you don't get sent down for being a good guy.
You could try writing her a letter, explaining everything and asking that she understand that although you knew she would be mad at you, you couldn't risk him getting away with it and going on to do the same thing to other people. Possibly even her at some point.
You could leave her be completely. She is in denial about the whole situation and chances are when she has had time to cool off and think about it, she'll realise something must have happened and you wouldn't have reported him if he hadn't done something really bad.
The only other option I can think of is to go to her house and try to speak to her face to face. Try to explain to her that you knew it might risk losing her as a friend but it was the only thing you could do after what he had done to you. She might not accept this at first but again, after she has had time to think, she should come around and realise you had to do it.
Just remember, please, that you did the right thing and although she is upset with you, you could have saved her from the same thing he did to you. That alone should be of some comfort. Her emotions are clouding her judgement right now and there's nothing you can do about that. You just need to keep reminding yourself you did the right thing.
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i think you should tell her and just tell her that she cant go around saying all kinds of stuff.If she dosent understand and listen to you then she isnt really your friend.
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well, your friend is prolly just confused. just pretend your her for a second...you think you ahve this great boyfriend and then suddenly for some unknown reason, he gets sent to juvey becuase you said something! how would you feel? if i were you, i would let her know what happened (once you find a way to get her to talk to you...but trust me she will talk to you eventually..shes just mad right now but it will get better), and if she is a true friend, she would understand and side with you instead of her boyfriend, and if she cared for your feelings, she wouldnt tell. if she doesnt agree that you should have told on her boyfriend, then she is a lowsy friend, and that is totally not your fault. good luck!! i hope this helps and you guys stay friends!!
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your right, shes wrong. if shes that horrible of a friend then get a new best friend sorrie!
♥`AUbREY`* ViNtAGExBARbiE_
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