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I like my best friend
Okay I really like this boy (( let's call him Joe )) Well Joe and I became friends this summer and since then we've been best friends. I realized today that I really like Joe but, I really don't want to ask him out because I don't want to ruin our friendship and he also has a girlfriend. What should I do?
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kay i know exactly what you mean.. ive known this one guy since i was like 3 years old.. like last year i liked him.. and he knew and everything was okay.. if your really good friends then you should be able to tell him but id wait until a little while after him and his girlfriend break up.. or else itll just get all confusing.
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ok soo.. this is the same with me
hes you best friend rite?
he knows you best..
which means
he also knows you like him..
call him one day and just talk it out.
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Well you can't hide it forever that you like this kid. You should tell him just so he knows. he should understand and there might be some silence between you guys for a week or two but then it should be back to normal . Who knows maybe you will have a chance with him later on so it won't hurt to tell him.
<3 krystal
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dear 'i like my best friend',
Well you most deff. want to wait for him to make the first move and you cant force him into it either. this happened to my friend and her friend..well they went out ((and they had been really close)) and like then they broke up a lil while after cuz it was weird ((which is another reason why you might wanna wait)) and now they arnt even friends...so you might wanna wait a while aan make sure it is for real and not just a lil crush
hope i helped
<3 ALyssa
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Maybe you should wait untill Joe makes his move first. That way you don't lose your relationship with him. Hope I Helped! =)
-Samantha Lynn ♥
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Well if her has a girlfriend right now i wouldnt mess with him, but mabey when he's avalible you can have a shot.
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If he's got a girlfriend at the moment he's off limits- end of story. There's nothing you can do and it would be unfair of you to say how you feel to him as he's committed to someone else. However, the situation would change completely if he was not with the girl anymore. Then if you want to act on it and say how you feel that's entirely up to you!! But for now leave the situation as it is- it's much fairer on everyone involved. Good luck
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Dear 'i like my best friend.' This is a tough situation. If I were you, I'd try to keep my feelings to myself, at least until he's single again. Don't try to ruin their relationship and I definately wouldnt suggest telling him now. Doing something that will get you nowhere could seriously mess up your current relationship with Joe. If you still have these feelings after a longer amount of time, it might be worth mentioning to him. Since you don't really know if he has feelings for you or not, [because lets face it, guys are totally confusing] it might be worth a shot when he's either single or you have more time invested in him. Hope i helped you out.
&ROXiE;
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if he hasn't shown any signs of liking you as more than a friend it might be best to ignore the feelings for him, you dont want to ruin your friendship over a crush. if he has shown signs of liking you back than you might want to put it out there that you like him
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try finding someone else to like. it's hard to get over someone but when they're clearly unavailable and there's a friendship at risk i would definitely say break the feelings you have for this guy before it gets too complicated and someone gets hurt.
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