well i like this guy and i think theres a possibilty he could like me.
when he texts me he usually asks me something about school, but then we lead into another convoersation, could that mean hes interested.
also in school the other day he sat next to me, and him and i and this other kid were talking about who he likes, and i was like "oh you like her" and he was like "nah too old" then the other kid was like "what about kelly" and he was like "no" so i said, "yeahhh you do, if you don't then who do you like?" and he like avoided it, could that mean something?
what are some other signs that he would like me?
thanks.
signs that he likes you:
1. does he say your name a lot when ya'll are talking? or does he use it in texts?
2. does he touch your hair or hands?
3. does he blush when you're around ever?
if he's texting you first all the time then that is good. he might need a little confidence boost so how bout you text him first just a couple times and start off with something other than boring school. (little silly jokes are always a cute way to get a guy to notice you more. text him one or tell him face to face)
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good luck!
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Well my mom is 37 she was married twice and had a boyfriend. But all of a sudden she likes this girl. The girl is gay and my mom i dont know if my mom is becoming gay. But i dont like the girl shes with and i dont trust her. I know shes a perve and she wants my mom in ways you should know... She is taking my mom away from me and my mom doesn't really seem that happy. What should i do???
you really need to sit your mom down and kind of make her feel guilty. like "mom where have you been? this is so weird, please stop seeing this girl i don't like her and i miss you".
she needs to know you care, and if shes unhappy this is just another reason to leave the relationship. good luck. if you need more help just ask!
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well i really like this guy , but he moved to california. now after a year he moved back here ( lol (but he's still going to a different school) .
before he moved i think he liked me back! i mean he always smiled blahblahblah , i don't wanna spell everything out , just trust me on this.
ok so i asked his friend for his msn adresse cuz i couldn't really ask him since he's going to a different school. and i'm pretty good friends with his friend xD so when i was chatting with him everything went fine , but he didn't really knew who i was at first...it took him so long to figure it out , and then he was like "i don't really remember what you look like". that really pissed me of but i actet like i don't care.my friends said he did that on purpose just to test me (cause we had a little argument before he left , but it wasn't thaaat bad) so after that we had a nice chat , but it was me who always asked him the questions. if i wouldn't of come up with something the convo would just stopped! BUT he always responded after just 5 secons or something and his anwers werent exactly short xD. so i'm pretty confused right now...does he still like me or not?
and what can i do to make him like me again?
thx
he knew exactly who you were trust me. guys think they have to look cool and pretend like they're so freaking popular they just can't put YOUR face with the name. BUT anyways.. and the same thing goes with you asking the questions, he wants your attention and he doesn't want to fight for it which is cool for now.. keep giving it to him. keep on until it becomes a regular, daily thing. and then just stop. and i bet you he'll be messaging you first and trying to get your attention and just kinda play it like he did until ya'll are balanced. its a silly little game but you have to play if you like him. once ya'll become "balanced" you should start hanging out with him one on one. no group dates. just chillin' with each other. and soon he'll be fighting for you. good luck.
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I have my school's spring dance 2 weeks from now. How do I get guys to come up and grind? What should I wear (casual) to attract the eye? Skirts or jeans? Low-cut or reg? Thx!
its a lot easier to grind while wearing jeans. holey jeans are always a cool way to go.
tank tops ((that completely cover your mid drift though!)) are a good to get a guys attention, if you show much more they think you look trashy. and if you start dancing with your girls the guys will feel so much more comfortable to just jump right in. there's no easier way to do it. have fun.
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teach me how to grind ! desrciptions and detials pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee . which way to move, what to do with my hands, how to move my bottttttomm
haha i agree with the previous answer.
theres not much to it. you sway your hips from side to side with the beat and guys like it when you slowly put your hands above your head while moving your shoulders along with your hips... that probably sounds confusing if you have a quesiton about it just ask. but yes, as for your butt, side to side is the safest way to go, you're basically rubbing your butt against his you-know-whatty.. and well at this point he's humping you. haha just being honest. if you get really into it grab his hands and depending on how tall or short he is place them on your thighs or hips. if you get really good then take one of your hands and grab the back of his thigh and bring him closer. i hope this helps. if you have any other questions just ask. good luck.
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ok so on friday my friends and i want to get a little buzzed before going to a dance. we are each going to drink one bear. then my mom is going to drive us to the dance. is she going to be able to tell that we were drinking? (by the way we look, smell, or acting?) please don't say I am too young. and any other tips on this please share!
yesss especially if theres a lot of you. and if your mom doesn't notice then chaperones will definitely notice because i'm sure one of your friends will go off bragging about how they drank n' whatnot and then it gets around and before you know it your mom's up there grounding you. it sounds dramatic but it's incredibly predictable. baaad idea. rumors are going to be spread like crazy after that too. good luck.
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hey, i'm 14/f and in 9th grade. =] and this is my story.
i always seem to make really good friends then somehow distance from them, then I cant talk to them anymore and now everything is so awkward. this has happened 3 times but there's only 2 girls i want to be friends with again.
i used to be best friends with a girl (I'll call her "Ellie") in 2nd grade to 5th grade. Then, we kind of drifted..and now I really want to be friends with Ellie again, but I have NO idea how to go about it. We havent talked in like 4 years or the entire school year, but now we share a class and I know she notices me because we've made eye contact but neither of us says hi..which is kind of awkward
that's a tough one.
do you have a myspace or sn? thats a GREAT way to break into new friendships if not i'll try and give you my best advice..
next time your with just one of them start real small talk. just hey how was your weekend? and whatever they say be like, oh how cool! we need to hang out sometime!.. or "we need to hang out like old times!" and then follow it up with "yea me you and ellie should hang out next weekend!"
and just got shopping or to the movies, something that doesn't require too much one on one action but ya'll can do as a whole! you really need to regain your confidence with these girls, it sounds like you're good at makin friends, just deplete silly thoughts like "this is so awkward" and go for it, they'll say yes, and ya'll will probably have a lot of fun.
oh yea and if shes up for it ask for her phone number so you can call her with plans! and give her yours!! good luck!
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alright.
me & the guy i like [we'll call him steve] sit a few places apart in gym. he knows i like him. he's known for like a month. he also has a girlfriend which sucks but anyway back on topic..
well today in gym we did a push-up test. so here's the conversation..
steve- laura did you go yet?
me- no, i'm gonna get like 1 though. haha.
steve- shut up!
me- what?
steve- SHUT UP!
i'm really confused. he said "shut up" in like a really serious tone & he had a really serious look on his face. what did he mean? why did he say that? i'm seriously like really confused.
thanksssssss. [:
this is hard to understand via internet BUT. it could have been him hating how some girls are too modest or always hard on themselves like "omg i'm so fat" and all he wants to say is SHUT UP! but really thats a random thing to act on... i mean its gym class who cares? or perhaps ya'll were supposed to be quiet at the time? idk he kinda sounds like a jerk right now. if you confront him about it and he gives you a reasonable explanation then thats cool but if he doesn't, move on.
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can you ever love some too much? how would you know if some one is completely happy with you and you're not sufficating them? the person I'm speaking of is my husband and I'm truly in love with him he's my world. can any body help me? thanks.........
love is love. and you can't suffocate someone with it. it's supposed to be a very positive thing, love. if you feel like you're "suffocating" him maybe you should think about why you feel this way. are you controlling him because you always want his attention or his time? are you constantly bothering him when hes trying to work? there's silly little things that you can hold to a minimum while still loving someone the same. talk to him about it, after all he is your husband. if he think's you're coming off really strong lately then just back off, it might help to simply write your feelings for him in a journal instead of CONSTANTLY trying to SHOW him how you feel.
good luck.
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Okay im 14/f and my ex broke up with me like a year ago. but he was my very 1st kiss. and i still like him. even tho i have a new boyfriend. last weekend was my exboyfriends birthday. while i was using the restroom my best friend kissed him. and when i came back down they were all over each other. and im kinda mad at her. but the thing is...they arent dating..and i dont know why but my feelings for him got stronger because of that. so i guess my question is should i be mad at my best friend? and is it normal for the feelings to get stronger?
please tell me.
you can't be mad at her. You've moved on and it was a year ago ya'll were ever a "thing" anyways. If you're mad you really can't say anything because it'll only upset your friend and especially your current boyfriend. Stop focusing on your past and look at what you have now. 1st kiss? don't think of it that way. that's not special enough of to keep you wrapped around his finger. you need to forget about this guy and concentrate on your current relationship before its over since you're not paying attention. It's normal for you to be upset, i'm just saying its bad, and try to stop it asap. good luck.
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My boyfriend calls me names and tells me I am all sorts of horrible things. I don't think that is acceptable in the slightest, but I guess I DO, because I'm still with him, right? I have this state of mind that I am not all of the bad things he tells me I am, unless I stay with him... then I feel as if I have become those awful things. Which makes me feel like I deserve to hear everything he has to dish out. Afterall, why should he respect me when I don't even respect myself? Isn't that true?
Thing is, I wouldn't stand for this behavior from anyone but him, and that is a fact I am sure of! I have never taken poor treatment of any degree in the past, and I come from what someone would call the "perfect" family whose parents have the "perfect" marriage. I was raised right. I was taught manners, and I know the importance of respect. So why am I still with him?
He really just has a poor attitude. He is only mean to me when he loses his cool, but he is everything I've ever dreamed of when his temper is straight. So our goods outweight our bads. But does that make his act okay? We are both in our early 20's, and we do not live together. We've been a couple for years, but he hasn't always been this way. I'm not afraid of him physically hurting me or my loved ones, but yet I still can't find the strength to leave. I feel like the most disgusting, pathetic excuse for a human being for admitting this, but..... I feel like I have nothing better to run to. I've grown up a lot over the past few years, and he's been there through everything. He is such a part of my life, that I feel too scared and flat out lazy to lose him only to take a step backwards.
Do you think I deserve this treatment for having not yet left? I feel like I have brought this all on myself. I have, haven't I? Because I am the only one who can stop it, and I haven't, correct? Can anybody help me with finding a train of thought to help myself gain the courage and self-respect it would take to break away from him? And stay away?
you're not dumb for not leaving.. i mean its like when a girl gets cheated on.. you really don't want to break up with him but you know you SHOULD. It's not fair, because you didn't do anything wrong (you didn't bring this upon yourself) you're just taking your time and trying to wait it out until his attitude finally goes back to normal. but i'm sorry he really isn't going to change and theres no such thing as good outweighing the bad. its not that hes a bad guy, i think ya'll have just been together too long. this is your chance to leave and find someone else.. someone better, and learn from this, be able to recognize early signs that a guy might end up like this. you're 20 its really your ideal time to go out and date random single guys. you're not always going to have a back up you have to look sometimes and other times you have to take a break and see what comes your way.. you'll be fine if you and your boyfriend break up don't be scared of being alone, thats just a lame excuse you keep scaring yourself with. don't do that to yourself.
good luck.
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Hi.
I'm way younger then my 24 year old boyfriend.
I hate that he smokes weed. He does this rarely, like once a month. He knows I hate it and it's a serious thing in our relationship because if he doesn't stop I'll have to end it. I hate worrying about what he's doing when he goes out with his friends and it's because I can't join him since I can't go to bars and stuff because of my age.
The reason, this time that I'm SO mad. Is because on Friday he went out with a group of friends. These friends constantly drink & constantly do drugs together. I asked him on the phone if he had gotten high and he said no, and he promised. My boyfriend NEVER lies, so I was stupid enough to believe him.
A few days later I had gotten a message on myspace that was from his friend. The message said, "Your boyfriend got baked on brownies the other night." Which basically means he got high. After asking him what this meant and if he really did it, he lied again and finally told me the truth after nagging him for like an hour.
He told all of his friends on Friday about how I cause a lot of trouble in his life and he wanted to be happy again by smoking weed. Everytime I bring up that I want him to stop smoking weed, he'll argue until I have nothing else to say. What are reasons that he should stop? Because the reasons I come up with OBVIOUSLY don't matter.
BTW, he's 24 years old, and he just recently got his first job because of me. Before that he was a waster living off of his dads money and playing video games all day. I don't want him to turn into what he used to be.
Please help & thank you.
been here.. done this.
you've saved him from a lot of things and if he can't realize and appreciate what youve done for him he needs a serious reality check. he'd probably be in jail if it werent for you. and if he can honestly look you in the eyes and tell you he rather be smoking than holding you in his arms then girl it's not worth it. i understand you care about him way too much to let him do this to himself but really all you can do at this point is tell him you should be the only reason he needs in order to stop smoking. because i'm sure you're the only one who cares enough about him to encourage him to stop.. YOU ARE THE ONLY REASON HE NEEDS. and if it's not a good enough reason for him then you're going to have to step back and torture yourself while you watch him go down. But I encourage you to keep going as long as you can, after all he did get a job and i'm sure he's cleaning up his act a little bit, patience is the key if you see potential in him. Nobody can just quit in a day but honesty is something you should talk to him about. You need to tell him that you're not going to look like an idiot defending him all the time when really he's out there getting high, its ok if he does it at this point but he HAS to tell you about it. Because trust me he'll start feeling embarrassed or dissapointed the more he has to tell you what he's doing and that will eventually turn into a motivation to stop.
anyways. good luck.
if you have any other questions feel free to ask.
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I Have a girl who is indeed preety.i have been finding it difficult to beleive that she loves me.She does everything possible to make me understand her ,but i just have this fear that she might be faking ,I have tried in so many ways to frustrate her ---just to find out if she would walk away,but no .she prefers to stay .well,i just want to find out if this is for real .so that i can start on time to reciprocate all she has been doing for me .i musnt fail to say that in the moment of despaire ,she was the only one who stood by me .well i am 25 ,male.Fresh grduate. thanks a lot .
i don't really see a question in there but.. haha i'll still give you advice.
Love is definitely confusing.. and well girls are even MORE confusing but why do you HAVE to know NOW if she loves you? Why can't you just find out as you go along?.. it's almost like a game. Seeing that she has stuck beside you through difficult times i'm sure she really does mean what she says. Love isn't something easy to fake.. or even worth faking because it will only cause pain in the end. I think subconsiously you're kind of testing yourself.. do YOU really love her? If you're having a hard time trusting her love maybe really you're the one needing to consider what your true feelings are. Love.. and i mean true love is a hard thing to come by and it doesn't come overnight. True love takes a long time to find, even if you've found that one special person. There's no rush though, you're still young! Stop questioning her feelings and just go with your gut instinct.. is she THE girl for you?
good luck
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ok well how do u flirt with a guy..like i kind of know how but im like not pro on it..so does anyone kno any good tips for flirting and to get a guy to notice you?
thanks
i answered a similar question so i'm just going to copy and paste my answer
lots of subtle things will work without making you look desperate.
*touch his hair
*say his name a lot like when ya'll are talking
*when you get the chance just sliiightly touch his hand or leg or arm..w/e and see if he moves it or leave it there ((don't bump into it.. like slide your arm till ya'll are barely touching))
*hmm.. stare at his lips or deep into his eyes when he talks
*instead of a side hug go in for a full frontal and put your arms over his neck.. haha
*this one is weird but.. if you give him a high five give it low and kinda grab his hand as he slaps it
*and the last one.. let him catch you staring at him, weather it be from across the hall or in class.. let him catch you only a couple of times and when he notices you looking at him kinda look away and smile.. i guess guys think thats cute
GOOD LUCK! if you have any more quesitons just ask
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Ok i was wondering does jergens natural glow work good...im gonna use it but im scared that i will turn orange. i was just wondering like how much you apply and does it give directions in the box..?
i kno i sound stupid but this is my first time trying a tanning product
thanks
before you use it stay moisturized for about 3 days.. use a regular lotion everyday for a while because the reason most tanners get streaky is because of dry patches on peoples skin. And when you do use it rub it all the way it and wash your hands with soap immediately afterwards!!
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I really like this, you can say odd or weird, style of jeans. All my 'punk' friends do this, they sew their jeans to make them skin-tight! And i really love the style. My problem is that i want to learn how to do it myself with a sewing machine. So far i put the jeans inside out, put them on, and safety pinned them so theyre tight, and then how do i sew them with the sewing machine? Am i doing something wrong? Do i cut them? Please help, i'm very..slow. But instructing me on how to do it, or give me a website (Must Be Very Detailed!!) on how to sew skin-tight jeans will help so much! 5's! Please help! THanks sooo much!
oh man you are asking the wrong site.. this is a very hard thing to describe.. first of all google it "altering jeans" or something like that..
my mom sews A LOT.. and what I would do is..
pin the jeans, that's good ((when you pinned the pants make sure they're pinned with sewing pins on the INSIDE seam.. and not with safety pins.. sorry))
then when you take them off, flip the jeans inside out
sew together the two parts across the seem that are pinned together right now.
Sew them with durable thread all the way to the crotch.
Then repeat on the other side.
These are probably not detailed enough and i definitely would get someone to help you.. maybe you could take them to somewhere like "joanns" and they can teach you how. And uh you could always buy some tight jeans too haha good luck!
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So I am friends with mostly girls. One of my closest guy friends' name is Ethan. He has a girlfriend. I think that he likes me, though, because he flirts with me a LOT and knows me really well.
I always wait for him leaving school. Today it was me, my friend Kathryn, and Ethan. Ethan just stopped, playfully kicked my butt, and then kept walking. Also, we always get in trouble for talking.
Recently, I got contacts, and since for a field trip, I wasn't at school Friday when I wore them, I asked my friend Kody to tell Ethan that I was wearing contacts. Today, I brought it up and he was so excited for me. Also, I was looking for a certain shirt to show school spirit, and he reminded me to get it.
In like December, we, among other friends (a group of 20) went skating. He was holding my hand to not get off-balance, but even after he got on balance, he was still skating with me and grabbed onto me if he was about to fall.
We have a ton of inside jokes, and also, we sit together when we have to partner up in the class that I have with him.
Some of these are things that consider friendly, and some I consider flirting. Do you guys think that he likes me?
Thanks. Oh, and to avoid a low rating, please type correctly!! Thanks again.
Oh, and we're both 15.
this is tough since i haven't actually SEEN how this guy acts. To avoid getting hurt i would go with he's just being friendly.. sorry
some guys are just so used to flirting it's like their personality, so don't take it the wrong way. of course if he doesn't act like this towards other girls he could have a thing for you. But since you're so close why don't you ask him?? i mean don't REALLY ask him but ask about his girlfriend and then maybe say something like "ryan..you have a girlfriend..." the next time he really flirts ya know? kinda accuse him or make him feel bad.. but still have a little smile on your face like **i wish you didn't have a girlfriend but oops you still do.. break up with her**.. kind of look haha
hmm what else.. again he could just get along better with girls and really find you as a great friend and fun person to be around. I really can't tell, sorry. but good luck!!
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I really like this guy but hes 11 years older than me. yes i know its illegal but we really like each other. he said he would wait till im 18 to go out but if we like made out or anything would it be bad? i dont know what to do. i cant get over him....
Lil' Girl
the truth is no matter how much you deny it he will eventually take advantage of you. you are young and naive and he's an old experienced man just waiting for you to come around... it's extremely tempting.. i mean who doesn't like attention from older guys?! but no you need to get over him before you fall too far. The easiest way to do that is to find another guy closer to your age that you like!
good luck!
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My best guy friend has been a real asshole to me the past few days. Well today I got really upset because the stuff he's been saying kind of hurts specially coming from someone like him. He'd like tell me that I look like crap, that my skirt is too short, tell me to shut up, give me that "are you a effing retard" look, ignoring me, all kinds of mean things. So I asked him if he was mad at me because he never acts this way towards me. He said no so I asked him why he's being so mean and he just said that it wasn't his fault that I can't take honesty and that I take things too seriously then just walked away.
What am I supposed to do? I really don't know what I did and he wont tell me. 18/f
oh my gosh.. the worst part is when he says "you can't take honesty" which means he actually MEANS the horrible things he's saying to you... there is no way you should have to put up with that. i'm sure you are the sweetest person and don't want to do this but you need to break up with him. or at least threaten breaking up with him if he keeps treating you this way... oh man i'm sorry there's no way i would let a guy talk to me that way.. good luck!
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Would you ever meet someone in person off of myspace? I know most of you are going to say no but what if it's a friend of a friend?
sorry if i repeat what somebody else said cuz i didn't read all of the answers but when you meet them i would meet them while you're with the friend that knows this person.. get it?
like if you met a guy online who knows your best friend.. suggest going to the mall with your best friend AND this new guy. Then if he seems like a nice guy ya'll can talk more outside of myspace and then go from there
good luck
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