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what an asshole
My best guy friend has been a real asshole to me the past few days. Well today I got really upset because the stuff he's been saying kind of hurts specially coming from someone like him. He'd like tell me that I look like crap, that my skirt is too short, tell me to shut up, give me that "are you a effing retard" look, ignoring me, all kinds of mean things. So I asked him if he was mad at me because he never acts this way towards me. He said no so I asked him why he's being so mean and he just said that it wasn't his fault that I can't take honesty and that I take things too seriously then just walked away.
What am I supposed to do? I really don't know what I did and he wont tell me. 18/f
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hi its me again i think it mite be a good idea if you ask his friends if he said anything about you. its pretty clear that his actions have something to do with you. maybe he had talked bout something to his frends.
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oh my gosh.. the worst part is when he says "you can't take honesty" which means he actually MEANS the horrible things he's saying to you... there is no way you should have to put up with that. i'm sure you are the sweetest person and don't want to do this but you need to break up with him. or at least threaten breaking up with him if he keeps treating you this way... oh man i'm sorry there's no way i would let a guy talk to me that way.. good luck!
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hey, you need to move on. hes obv. not a nice person to be around. i mean you tried to fix it. so at least you tried. cait ♥
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It's weird and pathetic how some people will tell someone they look ugly or they'll say something totally out of line and they just try and cover it up with, "You just can't handle the truth" When there are nicer ways to tell the truth.
I think you should tell your friend that you don't even want to be around him anymore if he's going to say things like that. And when he starts saying how you can't handle the truth, just tell him to go away and leave or get away from him yourself.
You should expect an apology from him before talking to him again because if he thinks that telling someone they look like crap is a way to keep a friend, he hasn't got a clue with friendships. Plus, don't believe him when he says how you can't handle the truth, because there are better ways to say things like that other than "You look like crap, shut up".
Tell him that he is ruining the friendship and hurting your feelings.
-TheTeenGirl
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If he's going to treat you that way tell him to kiss your ass and get a life honey. You don't need negative people in your life that will end up causing you to feel self-concious about yourself. Tell him to get his head out of his ass and start being nice or else don't talk to him and if he apologizes then good, if he doesn't don't worry about him. I'm sure you are a beautiful and caring girl or obviously, it wouldn't hurt your feelings if you didn't care.
Hope I helped.
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