Gender: Female
Location: new york
Age: 15
AIM: pop lil cutie
Member Since: April 18, 2006
Answers: 5
Last Update: April 18, 2006
Visitors: 838
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None of my friends are very...um... supportive of me. I came out to them about being bisexual and now they're freaked. My own brother even treats me different. I used to be against gay relationships to...until I couldn't get girlfriends. I experimented with some guy friends of mine (not sex, just kissing) and it got me aroused. I've dated some guys and those relationships have been just as good as (or better) than the relationships I've had with girls. Since all of my friends are straight, I feel like I should be too. I want to marry a girl, not a guy, but why do I want to date guys and kiss guys? I've even though about sex with another guy. What should I do? How can I sort out my feelings? (link)
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theres many things i can say about your situation. first of all your friends arent suppotive of you maybe because theyre confused. you were hatin on gays and now you are one. if you wanna find supportive frens find girls. we love having a gay guy friend. rite now you shudnt think about wat you going to do now that youre gay. you mite not even be gay. maybe you just havent found the rite girl and you have more in common with the guys than the girls in the past. im sure theres a girl out there that you wud prefer over any guy
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My best guy friend has been a real asshole to me the past few days. Well today I got really upset because the stuff he's been saying kind of hurts specially coming from someone like him. He'd like tell me that I look like crap, that my skirt is too short, tell me to shut up, give me that "are you a effing retard" look, ignoring me, all kinds of mean things. So I asked him if he was mad at me because he never acts this way towards me. He said no so I asked him why he's being so mean and he just said that it wasn't his fault that I can't take honesty and that I take things too seriously then just walked away.
What am I supposed to do? I really don't know what I did and he wont tell me. 18/f
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hi its me again i think it mite be a good idea if you ask his friends if he said anything about you. its pretty clear that his actions have something to do with you. maybe he had talked bout something to his frends.
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I really like this guy but hes 11 years older than me. yes i know its illegal but we really like each other. he said he would wait till im 18 to go out but if we like made out or anything would it be bad? i dont know what to do. i cant get over him....
Lil' Girl (link)
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its a bad idea to have a relationship with anyone 11 years older than you. from your tone, it sounds like you two would end up marrying. think about the kids. even without the kids.just him. hell be wrnkly and old. as time go by ppl eventualli change especialli in a huge age difference relationship so sooner or later youll probly get over him. im not gonna tell you to do anything bcuz i dont kno how strongly you guys feel bout each other but i wud suggest preparing for breaking up. its not easy for these relationship to last, especialli wen the problem is sumthing you realli cant change
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you know, sometimes i would hold back on goin out with a person because i want my frist relationship to be perfect. i know nothing can be perfect but still you know waht i mean? is this bad? i'm i juss bein too picky. i dont feel anyone around me is right for me (link)
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i dont kno how old you are, but your a teenager like maybe 15-17 i dont think you shud be picky. being picky isnt a bad thing but rite now theres a very little chance you're going to marry this girl. i think you shud go out for the experience (im not telling you to be desperate) and learn the rite things and wrong things to do in a relationship. so wen you do find the rite person youll kno how to act. there are some mistakes that have to be made for someone to learn from
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Recently, the guy that I really liked told me that he felt the same way too. Right now we are getting to know each other by talking to each other. He keeps telling my friend all of this negative stuff and saying what doesn't like about me. He said that he doesn't like the fact that I'm too serious, I'm bad at giving advice, I have a low self esteem, no confidence, and I don't enjoy drinking or partying. That makes me feel like I have to change everything myself so he'll like me. so I'm really confused and I don't know what to do. (link)
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i dont think you shud change fer this guy at all. if he thinks theres so many negative things that he dont like about you and hes going to break up because of it, wat did he like about you in the first place? plus im sure he has alot of negatives too but if your willing to live wif it then so shud he
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