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Member Since: April 17, 2006
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Last Update: April 18, 2006
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14/f I like this guy dylan and he told me he likes me. I went out with him last year and broke up with him because he wasnt a great boyfriend. He was too clingy and he wasnt allowed to use the phone and stuff so I couldnt talk to him that much out of school. Now he can talk on the phone and stuff but I dont know how hes going to be. Also, all my friends think hes too much of a best friend to be a boyfriend. He is going to ask me out when he comes over. I dont know if i should say yes or no. Dylan is like my best friend and I want him as my boyfriend but i dont know what I should do? (link)
I know this seems like a big deal now..
But, you're only 14 years old. Whatever you choose to do will most likely have no affect on your life whatsoever.
Relationships aren't so serious at 14..
or 15, or 16, or 17, or sometimes even 18.


I really like this guy but hes 11 years older than me. yes i know its illegal but we really like each other. he said he would wait till im 18 to go out but if we like made out or anything would it be bad? i dont know what to do. i cant get over him....

Lil' Girl (link)
honestly? it sounds like he's a creep.

i mean, i have no idea how old you are.
but, in my opinion, (especially if you're under 18) you're way too young to be dating someone 11 years older than you.
that's a huge age difference.
24 and 35 don't seem like that big of a difference.. but however old you are PLUS 11 years would be huge.

you're still young -- i'm sure there will be many other guys in your life.. don't think you just can't live without this one.




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