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11 whole years!
I really like this guy but hes 11 years older than me. yes i know its illegal but we really like each other. he said he would wait till im 18 to go out but if we like made out or anything would it be bad? i dont know what to do. i cant get over him....
Lil' Girl
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you have to get over him.
omg 11 years crazy don't wait you need to find somone else.and yes kissing hugging anything.................hes gana go to jail!!!!!!!and it will be both of ur guyese fault.
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In my opinion, if a guy that much older than you has feelings for you, there's something wrong with the guy.
Take a minute and think about it, why can't he get a girl his own age? There's obviously a reason. Just try and be careful, this is a dangerous situation.
But, to answer your question, if you make out with him it isn't bad (legally), it's bad in many other reasons, but that's beside the point. The only way you will get into trouble with legal reasons is if you have sex.
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its a bad idea to have a relationship with anyone 11 years older than you. from your tone, it sounds like you two would end up marrying. think about the kids. even without the kids.just him. hell be wrnkly and old. as time go by ppl eventualli change especialli in a huge age difference relationship so sooner or later youll probly get over him. im not gonna tell you to do anything bcuz i dont kno how strongly you guys feel bout each other but i wud suggest preparing for breaking up. its not easy for these relationship to last, especialli wen the problem is sumthing you realli cant change
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honestly? it sounds like he's a creep.
i mean, i have no idea how old you are.
but, in my opinion, (especially if you're under 18) you're way too young to be dating someone 11 years older than you.
that's a huge age difference.
24 and 35 don't seem like that big of a difference.. but however old you are PLUS 11 years would be huge.
you're still young -- i'm sure there will be many other guys in your life.. don't think you just can't live without this one.
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i know this is hard, but you have to find someone else. no matter how convincing this guy is even if he doesn't mean to he'll end up taking advantage of you..and what i mean by even if he doesn't want to is that you'll do stuff you don't want to do just so he won't break up with you..even if he doesn't think he's being controlling it will be happen.. i know this is hard but find another guy closer to your age and you might even find that you like him more anyways
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the truth is no matter how much you deny it he will eventually take advantage of you. you are young and naive and he's an old experienced man just waiting for you to come around... it's extremely tempting.. i mean who doesn't like attention from older guys?! but no you need to get over him before you fall too far. The easiest way to do that is to find another guy closer to your age that you like!
good luck!
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