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you know, sometimes i would hold back on goin out with a person because i want my frist relationship to be perfect. i know nothing can be perfect but still you know waht i mean? is this bad? i'm i juss bein too picky. i dont feel anyone around me is right for me
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i dont kno how old you are, but your a teenager like maybe 15-17 i dont think you shud be picky. being picky isnt a bad thing but rite now theres a very little chance you're going to marry this girl. i think you shud go out for the experience (im not telling you to be desperate) and learn the rite things and wrong things to do in a relationship. so wen you do find the rite person youll kno how to act. there are some mistakes that have to be made for someone to learn from
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ohh nooo! your not too picky at all! but you wanna know somethin? i was the same exact way! i never seemed to like many people..i didnt seem like they were the right one for me..and if someone liked me and i didnt like them back..i would see them differently and be kinda weired out. even tho thats not a good thing lol! but i understand where your coming from. you dont want to make a bad decision and go out with someone..and get your heartbroken! the right one will eventually come! just keep your eyes open and listen to your heart and you will never go wrong!!
♥ ash
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I think that is a good thing. You aren't settling for anything less than the best. It may take a while but he will come around. And when he does it will probably be worth the wait.
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when you meet the right oneyou will know it
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I don't really think you're necessarily being picky in a negative sense. After all, there's no reason you should go out with someone just for the sake of it.
However, you need to learn that relationships can never be perfect from the get go. You already say that nothing can be perfect but you need to risk being in a less than perfect relationship because otherwise, you could really miss out! Basically, it's just that you can be too careful.
To make a relationship work well, you need to have (in most cases) experiences with other relationships first because you can't learn how to make something right unless you make a few mistakes first.
You don't have to settle for someone you don't think you will like but what you do need to do is to get the idea of a 'perfect' relationship out of your head and just focus on how you feel about the guy in question. If you really like him then take the risk. If it's not perfect, you learn from it and you move on. That way, when something really great comes along, you'll recognise it and you'll have a better idea how to keep it.
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