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Im the most shortest most outgoingest 18 year old u will meet!! i hate shit talkers and haters mostly when they cant back there shit up.. i hate that we live to die...RIP Billy,Beckie,Steve, and Brian
Website: LiL*Kelly
E-mail: Kellyistheshit@yahoo.com
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Location: Chicago
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Age: 18
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I'm not really sure what else you need to know to help me. Basically I like this guy that I talk to sometimes and we're in the same general circle of friends but I want to hook up with him. How should I go about doing that? (link)
well make sure he likes you and then make the move it is a scary thing at first but once you just get over it and do it youll be fine


i like this guy soooo much! hes really cute and soooo nice. we have so much in common. we talk online like everyday. but i dont think he likess me. my friend asked him and he said that he thought i was cute. then today i asked him if he liked anyone and he said "ehh idk, kinda but not really" i dont know what to do. what should i do? (link)
just tell him how you feel and ask him if he likes you what will it hurt???


http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat410135&navroot=clearance&productId=0368_7391_white

^^ okay so i bought a hoodie that was too big from american eagle.. what can i do to shrink it down.. i cant use the dryer because i dont have one so could i wash it in really hot water and then blowdry the hoodie with hot heat ? i need some advice please?? any suggestions other than returning it?! (link)
well if you do that it wont work with hot water use cold


Okey, I've tried working out, eating healthy and even counting every single calorie, and it STILL hasnt wokred! So please, don't give me the doctor-answer. Spare me the "healthy-talk".

If I skip dinner, and eat as much lunch as I do now, no more, no less..will I lose weight?

Just a simple yes or now, not "eating helthy, skip the sweets, try the gym" because I've foine that already. I've even tried making myself throw up, but my mother caught me.

So please answer truthfully, will it..or will it not? And please know what you are talking about. (link)
no when you dont eat its harder to lose weight


i always find the wrong guy!my last boyfriend was totally abusive!he would hurt me a lot..now im with this guy Zach and he FLIPS out over every little thing. like we went to the mall and we were holding hands and that, then i saw my friend Joe and i gave him a hug and after zach was like "your such a f**king hoe if you ever cheat on me again ill break up with you"..i guess i deserved that.then i went to go get some big cookies and he wanted a medium and they were outta medium so i got him large and he flipped out..what should i do!? (link)
umm when did hugging become cheating it is not you are goingto have guy friends and hug them and if hes an asshole too you then be a bitch back guys arent wroth going threw pain like that there is good guys out there


hey umm i smoked weed the other night nd i threw up n my heart was racing . . . is that normal? (link)
was it your first time because i know people that threw up too when they smoked some good stuff and you might have felt like that because you were scared if it was your first time


My two best friends, have started shop lifting and the other week stole £50 in value each I want them to stop because I don't want them to get caught.
I want to go shopping with them but if they're stealing and they'll get caught I will get in trouble to.
I think they're peer pressuing me to they all telling me to join in and its fun but I really dont want to.........
How can I get them to stop?????
Please help I rate high!!!!!!! (link)
well dont steal because me and my friends learned that lesson and it aint pretty but oneof our friends was like you and we asked her tocomeshopping andwe told her that we werent shop lifting but we did and got cought they let her go because she didnt have anything and they didnt see her shoplifting on the camra i hope this helps


I don't know what my sister's problem is but it's really getting on my nerves.


She has the random freak out sessions over the smallest things.


A bunch of our friends were over the other night and we were all in the game room. She was on the computer and I was laying down next to her chair. Every once in a while I would set my feet on the bottom of the chair (where the legs/wheels are) and she make a big deal out of it and say how she can feel me moving it. After she yelled at the top of her lungs about it, I moved up a little to be sure that I wouldn't touch the stupid chair. Then, my friend Andrew made me laugh and I moved around a little and my leg hit her chair lightly. She got up and asked me what my problem was. I told her that she needed to calm down because I wasn't going anything. I swear she just exploded and went psychotic about me touching the chair.


Then today after church we were at our grandparent’s house with all of our family and I was sitting next to the fire place and she told me to move because I was "too close to it". And once again, she made a scene out of it so I just moved. But seriously, come on now, it's not like the fire place was going to automatically come on or something.


She doesn't just pull this stuff with me either, it's almost EVERYONE! Even her boyfriend and friends. I'm 16 and she's 17 if that helps with anything. What's going on with her?
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she might be bi polar if shes like nice and all of a sudden mean for some reason or shr might have pms.. ask her whats wrong and tekk her how you feel sisters should understind


okay, well im on my mom's laptop which is her work laptop. and i was just going on cartoon doll websites like, pixlebee, cartoon doll.com and stuff like that. and all of a sudden this porn pop up came up! and idk what to do! what if someone finds out? i cant have my mom think i look porn because i dont! ah oh my gosh, i seriously cant have this happen! please help! (link)
that was a pop up and it wont say you went there or anything its okas long asu didnt sign up or download anything


does discharge mean your going to start your period soon?? ive been having it for a while now. but i dont know excatly how long. thanks (link)
no you can get it for a while befor you get it


you know, sometimes i would hold back on goin out with a person because i want my frist relationship to be perfect. i know nothing can be perfect but still you know waht i mean? is this bad? i'm i juss bein too picky. i dont feel anyone around me is right for me (link)
when you meet the right oneyou will know it


I threw a party last weekend and one of my good guy friends, Chad, brought a guy I didn't know. I didn't care because the party wasn't invite only.


Well anyways, Chad always asks me to hook him up with my friends and I do. He's dated like 3 of my good girl friends.


Well the other day I asked him about his friend that he brought with him and if he was single and all. I told him that I wanted him to introduce us. He automatically said no. I tried to ask why and he just said that he didn't want me to date his friends.


That's the only reason he gave me which I think is complete BS because I always introduce him to people he wants to meet that I know. And this guy seems really cool (plue he's sooooo cute).


What do y'all think I shoud do? (link)
tell him fuck you you dated how many friends of mine!! tell him its bull shit and try hooking yourself up for now on!


well i like this guy and well sometimes he acks like he likes me too but then sometimes he dosnt and well A/W the other day he was trying to make me go with his lil bro and well hes not too young but still i dont like him when i told one of my guy friends he said the the reson the guy i like was doing that was to see if i would cheat on him but then my older bro said it might be because he has a girl alreaddy i dont kno what it is do can anyone help

Will GIVE !!!!~5~!!!! (link)
just ask him it wont hurt nothing just be like you have a girl??


this isnt really advice... but does anyone know a good song by the all american rejects, the beatles, beck, coldplay, the cure, dave matthews band, death cab for cutie, franz ferdinand, Guster, hellogoodbye, Jack johnson, the magic numbers, no ddoubt, The Red Hot Chili peppers, the smiths, the strokes, weezer, or Zox that have really good lyrics that could explain my love for someone in my profile? i'm a girl if that helps. (link)
no dought you and me


15/f I like this guy, and we have been talking for about 4 weeks now (he started talking to me first). All my friends think he likes me, but i am so confused by his signals! now i know i cant tell you every detail of all the hints and stuff but i can say there is a lot! he told me that hes been wanting to talk to me since last year and that he thinks im an awsome person. also we always do this game where we ask eachother random questions and he always asks me things as to find out what i like in guys and how i would act in a relationship. like hes asked me if i would like hanging out with my boyfriends friends or what i like in a guy. however this is the tricky part, my friend told him that i liked him, without my permission, and he said cool thanks for being honest, then later on i asked how he felt, and he said he didnt know, that it took him awhile to figure out how he feels and that its not that he doesnt like me, hes just doesnt know yet. soo what do i do, we still talk everyday for hours and while i was away for some of spring break we stayed in touch, and he told me he missed me! soo i dont know how he can be confused or what is going on with him but i need HELP!!! please any advice on what to do, how to act, if i should ask if hes decided yet (cuz it was like 2 weeks ago when he found out i liked him), anything at all!!!! please guys advice too, all the advice so far has been girls! (link)
i think you should tell him how you feel and give him some time too because he might have been in a bad relationship or is just scared of comintment


4 some reason everyone thinks I'm a baby. I don't really get it. I'm in high school, I drive, I have my own responsibilities. But today this lady actually came up to me while I was doing my nails to tell me that I was an itty bitty baby. Is it just me or is something going on here? I wouldn't be asking if it happened more than once. But is there a reason that everyone is telling me this? Its just really really weird. Thanks. (link)
are you short and tiny because i am and people think im 12 and im 18


None of my friends are very...um... supportive of me. I came out to them about being bisexual and now they're freaked. My own brother even treats me different. I used to be against gay relationships to...until I couldn't get girlfriends. I experimented with some guy friends of mine (not sex, just kissing) and it got me aroused. I've dated some guys and those relationships have been just as good as (or better) than the relationships I've had with girls. Since all of my friends are straight, I feel like I should be too. I want to marry a girl, not a guy, but why do I want to date guys and kiss guys? I've even though about sex with another guy. What should I do? How can I sort out my feelings? (link)
well if you are attrative to guys you cant do nothing about it.. its jsut in you! it all depends on who you love/like more....just follow your heart and everything will be allright and if your friends dont like you because your different then them then they arent really friends are they people should like you for you you are not for what you like


15/f- Okay so theres this guy, Ryan. Hes one of my friends cousins, and Lives like 2 hours away from me. I met him last summer, and ever since then, we hang out everytime hes in town. Well usually when we hang out, theres a little flirting and stuff, like we bicker back and forth and stuff like that, but when we hung out time before last, he wrote me this big long not on my cell phone about how he hoped I didnt think he didnt like me because of the "fighting" because he did. Well I didn't know whether to take that as he liked me as a girl friend or friend. Well he was over here last night with 2 of his friends, and we were all hanging out. We started cuddling and holding hands and stuff. When he was leaving, we were standing by his car and he had his hands around my waist, and we almost kissed, but my mom ruined it lol... well anyways, neither of us will really take the first move. I would, but its been like a year and a half since I've made out with anyone, so I'm afraid I'm gonna suck at it again. Its like starting all over for me. And I'm scared he'll pull away, because I misread the signals or something. I don't know. But I'm starting to like him a lot, and he said he liked me when we were laying outside. So I just dont know what to do. He'll be here in 3 weeks again. Any advice? Please, anything would help. (link)
just go for it it sounds like he likes you and even if your a little rusty on kissing im shure he wont mind!!


i guess this goes in here.. but what are some good places to take like not exactly modeling but good pictures at? (link)
glamor shots they are awesome


I went to the doctors in like february and the doctor said I was going to get my period really soon and to be ready.

I still haven't gotten it.

Why is this? I mean i know they can't really tell when you're exactly going to get it or anything. But i think she just said that because i had hair down there. But i've had it for a while. and I've had discharge for about a year or 2 now. I just don't know when i'm going to get it. does anyone know why i havent gotten it yet and is that like weird? 14/f (link)
girls can get there period from like age 13 to 17!! it all depends on your body every one is different




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