I threw a party last weekend and one of my good guy friends, Chad, brought a guy I didn't know. I didn't care because the party wasn't invite only.
Well anyways, Chad always asks me to hook him up with my friends and I do. He's dated like 3 of my good girl friends.
Well the other day I asked him about his friend that he brought with him and if he was single and all. I told him that I wanted him to introduce us. He automatically said no. I tried to ask why and he just said that he didn't want me to date his friends.
That's the only reason he gave me which I think is complete BS because I always introduce him to people he wants to meet that I know. And this guy seems really cool (plue he's sooooo cute).
Nallie answered Sunday April 16 2006, 11:44 am: In my opinion I think Chad likes you for more than a friend. It doesn't seem right because he dates your friends..but I suspect he has stronger feelings for you than you do him. What I would do is try to find out the guys number and call him yourself. Leave Chad out of it all together. [ Nallie's advice column | Ask Nallie A Question ]
prescott answered Sunday April 16 2006, 5:00 am: I think it is kinda selfish of Chad. But then again, everything has its reasons.
The only way to find out what those reasons are is to talk to Chad.
Since you guys are close, i am sure he will level out with you.
geetarist answered Saturday April 15 2006, 8:04 pm: talk to chad about it
ask him why is it ok for him to date your friends but not the other way round
posibly chad has a crush on u and is just protective he probly feels that he's known you longer and that you should be choosing him not his friends it happens quite often trust me.
if he doesnt have a thing for you then find out what it is he might have a good reason for not letting you date his friend
hope i could help
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Xo_NeSmiiRa_Xo answered Saturday April 15 2006, 8:00 pm: i think that you shoudl find a way to talk to Chad and find out the real reason to why he doesnt want to introduce you to this friend.
personally i think that Chad likes you or someting because he would introduce you to his friend otherwise.. but liek he might think that he is ruining his chace..
if you dont think thats the deal then maybe you should find a way to meet this guy (chad's friend) on your own without Chads help...
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