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Boy troubles, as usual
15/f- Okay so theres this guy, Ryan. Hes one of my friends cousins, and Lives like 2 hours away from me. I met him last summer, and ever since then, we hang out everytime hes in town. Well usually when we hang out, theres a little flirting and stuff, like we bicker back and forth and stuff like that, but when we hung out time before last, he wrote me this big long not on my cell phone about how he hoped I didnt think he didnt like me because of the "fighting" because he did. Well I didn't know whether to take that as he liked me as a girl friend or friend. Well he was over here last night with 2 of his friends, and we were all hanging out. We started cuddling and holding hands and stuff. When he was leaving, we were standing by his car and he had his hands around my waist, and we almost kissed, but my mom ruined it lol... well anyways, neither of us will really take the first move. I would, but its been like a year and a half since I've made out with anyone, so I'm afraid I'm gonna suck at it again. Its like starting all over for me. And I'm scared he'll pull away, because I misread the signals or something. I don't know. But I'm starting to like him a lot, and he said he liked me when we were laying outside. So I just dont know what to do. He'll be here in 3 weeks again. Any advice? Please, anything would help.
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when you next see him just ask him out, im sure he'll say yes and that way he will know you like him and will know its cool with you if he kisses you
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Next time when he come to see you just make a move. Ask him out or kiss him. If he said he likes you and you know that you like him then what's stopping you. I dont think he will mind that you aren't the world's best kisser lol. Well if you can't wait for the 3 months than call him and make your move. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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just go for it it sounds like he likes you and even if your a little rusty on kissing im shure he wont mind!!
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hey. if he said that he liked you, then why wouldn't you trust him? it sounds like your relationship is progressing and i think that you should take the next move. maybe you could ask him out on a real date as boyfriend and girlfriend. i wouldnt be worried about sucking at making out. ;) call him up and talk to him so then things can be straighted out before he comes to see you again. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥
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