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confused about signals
15/f I like this guy, and we have been talking for about 4 weeks now (he started talking to me first). All my friends think he likes me, but i am so confused by his signals! now i know i cant tell you every detail of all the hints and stuff but i can say there is a lot! he told me that hes been wanting to talk to me since last year and that he thinks im an awsome person. also we always do this game where we ask eachother random questions and he always asks me things as to find out what i like in guys and how i would act in a relationship. like hes asked me if i would like hanging out with my boyfriends friends or what i like in a guy. however this is the tricky part, my friend told him that i liked him, without my permission, and he said cool thanks for being honest, then later on i asked how he felt, and he said he didnt know, that it took him awhile to figure out how he feels and that its not that he doesnt like me, hes just doesnt know yet. soo what do i do, we still talk everyday for hours and while i was away for some of spring break we stayed in touch, and he told me he missed me! soo i dont know how he can be confused or what is going on with him but i need HELP!!! please any advice on what to do, how to act, if i should ask if hes decided yet (cuz it was like 2 weeks ago when he found out i liked him), anything at all!!!! please guys advice too, all the advice so far has been girls!
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i think you should tell him how you feel and give him some time too because he might have been in a bad relationship or is just scared of comintment
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Since your friends told him, it would probably help the whole situation if you told him yourself, or atleast talked to him about it. He might be just as confused as you are about everything. Don't just come straight out and ask him if he likes you. Depending on the guy it could be a little too forward and make things awkward later on. He might be deciding how he feels, thats ok. Let him do it..he's probably just getting his thoughts together because he DOES like you. But then again he could just wanna be friends. That's why it's important to just give it time and don't rush into it. If he wants to go out with you he'll let you know. Need any other help just ask!
♥ Evy
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I don't know how much help i can be but i will try...i was currently in a situation as that only well yeah i was....anyway i think you should choose your next move carefully because moving to fast if he doesn't know can make him think different about being in a relationship with you ...currently speaking when a girl does that the guy normal is more confussed than the girl,,,he doesn't know if he should like you...or not...it he does then he thinks he may move to fast and it will end badly...or if he doesn't than he may either get over it..or he may wish he did and think your mad at him...i think you should go for it...and tell him how you feel and what you like about him but do it slowly i mean don't just hey ....blah blah blah ...you know lol..me neither...anyway from the way it sounds you might get lucky un like me he liked someone else you've always got to watch that ask him if he likes anyone and find out who and then gain his trust and not tell anyone who he likes even if it is someone you are close to..anyway i hope i was somewhat a help to you, you know my first time in all but deffanity slowly tell him what you like about him and ask what he likes most about you..well ce yea
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