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Question Posted Thursday April 13 2006, 10:42 pm

is it normal to feel like you don't belong in your family cauze thatz how i feel but is it normal

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FrEe2bMe answered Friday April 14 2006, 12:28 am:
Well, to an extent, yes it is. Everyone feels like that at some point in time. Noone is perfect--and neither are families. You have to learn to take things with a grain of salt--so to speak. With that said, you shouldn't feel like that ALL the time though. I mean, it would be okay if you were just going through this as a spurt. But if this is more long term, I think you need to really ask yourself what/how you feel like out or like you don't belong. I would also highly suggest talking to you family about how you are feeling. Don't yet or attack or accuse them. Just calmly express why you feel alienated or like an outcast. Chances are there are going to understand and feel badly. I am sure everything will get better. Best of luck. :)

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4everMyself2 answered Thursday April 13 2006, 11:14 pm:
Yeah but eventually you should feel like you fit in.

Both my bother and my sister are really good at something. At one time I hadn't yet found my gift and what I enjoyed doing, so I used to feel out of place sometimes. With time I found out what my gift was and what I enjoyed doing. Through those experiences I learned that once you find yourself you won't feel like you have to fit in. Because you will know who you are and where you belong.

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orphans answered Thursday April 13 2006, 11:12 pm:
Teens often feel that they have nothing in common with their family members. I do all the time.. I mean, my dad, mom and brother are so into sports and everything like that; I'm the opposite. And at family get-togethers I feel so left out because all my cousins are really young. So yes, you are normal. But if the situation is getting way out of hand, you may want to talk to someone you trust or even a school councellor. :)

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charmed3fanatic answered Thursday April 13 2006, 11:03 pm:
it's normal at times. but if you feel like that all the time then no it's not normal.. maybe you should go to family counciling?

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greeneyedgirl9o answered Thursday April 13 2006, 10:59 pm:
everyone feels out of place in their family at times! its completly normal, especially if your a teenager! dont worry about it, everyone is different, and your family shoudl accept you for who you are, no matter what! good luck, and dont worry!

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