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BAD BOYS!
i always find the wrong guy!my last boyfriend was totally abusive!he would hurt me a lot..now im with this guy Zach and he FLIPS out over every little thing. like we went to the mall and we were holding hands and that, then i saw my friend Joe and i gave him a hug and after zach was like "your such a f**king hoe if you ever cheat on me again ill break up with you"..i guess i deserved that.then i went to go get some big cookies and he wanted a medium and they were outta medium so i got him large and he flipped out..what should i do!?
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One of my friends was in a relationship like this but she didnt realize it until she was out of it. You need to brake up with him no one deserves to be treated that way.
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First, I would get rid of this guy. His behavior is outrageous. Please don't think this is your fault because it's not. It sounds to me like he has deep seated jealousy and control issues. While his abuse (Yes this is verbal and emotional abuse) so far hasn't escalated, it can and may move into a more dangerous situation.
After you've got rid of this guy, I would take a break from getting into another relationship for a while. I know from experience how easy it is to walk into another abusive relationship after leaving one. By giving yourself time to heal and rebuild your self-esteem, you'll be able to focus more clearly on determining the qualities that you need in a guy and hopefully make a better choice the next time. Good luck.
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Actually, hugging another guy in front of your boyfriend is perfectly fine. As long as it's like *hug* hey, nice to see you, talk to you later!* I could understand him getting annoyed if it was an intimate hug followed by a lengthy conversation in which he did not participate, but jesus, he said you 'cheated' on him for HUGGING someone?
Any guy who is that possessive is a dick sucking mother fucking cock sucker who will make your life miserable because that's what his is.
Slap him. Then break up with him.
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Just leave him, you deserve so much better than this guy. He's a total jerk, he needs to respect you and not call your a hoe. He should be thankful to have you because your getting line to pay for a cookie that he wants. You have the right to hug anyone you want, he doesn't own you. There are plenty of better guys out there. You might still have feelings for this guy but forget it because your gonna get over him. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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leave him. for good.
good luck<3
peace
*jaimee*
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Absolutely break up with him.
You definetly did not deserve an outburst like that. You are in an abusive relationship again. He's emotionally abusing you by calling you those names and there is no reason to ever be called those names and he is out of controllably jealous.
You need to be careful about the guys you choose and where you are looking for them. A lot of girls who end up in these relationship actually defend these guys who flip out at them. They think that they have a right to be jealous and scream at them. They make up excuses for them so that they can convince themselves that they can stay in that relationship. They flip out, and if you react by crying or leaving, they will tell you they are sorry and that it will never happen again and it always does.
You should never tolerate this kind of behavior by a guy the first time. He hits you once, you leave. He flips out on you for hugging or looking at another guy, you leave. Don't wait around for a second time, because it will come around.
A lot of what comes from picking a guy whose abusive in ways has to do with what that girl thinks of herself. If she thinks she is worthless and doesn't deserve to be treated right, then she will be with a guy who treats who like crap and she'll think it's ok. If she thinks that she truly deserves a smart guy who cares a lot about her, then she will have that guy and not settle for less. If you really have respect for yourself, and you think you truly deserve love that is healthy, then look for that and don't settle for less. If you believe that you don't deserve a good relationship, then you have to stop dating until you can start knowing that you deserve to be loved.
-TheTeenGirl
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umm when did hugging become cheating it is not you are goingto have guy friends and hug them and if hes an asshole too you then be a bitch back guys arent wroth going threw pain like that there is good guys out there
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You should dump him.
He had no right to call you a hoe just because you hugged another guy. I'm not saying hugging another guy in front of your boyfriend is okay but you certainly didn't deserve his reaction.
He flipped out over a cookie? Its not like you could control them running out of medium cookies.
I think you are much better off without him.
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my advice... BREAK UP WITH HIM! no guy should get mad if you hug another guy as a friend. you DO NOT deserve to be treated like that! no one does! who cares if you got him a large! he should be glad that you even stood in line for him! it seems like he is taking advantage then you. i'm SURE that you can do better than him. if you are not comfortable with this, then i suggest that you talk to him. say that he should lay off a bit. hope his helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥
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