Member Since: April 16, 2006
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Last Update: May 13, 2006
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14/f
SO me and my boyfriend Lets call him Cody were going out for 2 months and he made a promis to me to never break up with me in the beggining of our relationship, things were perfect. and he said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and that i was everyhting to him....but that all changed 5 days ago when he broke up with me......and i am heart broken and i just lost the love of my life. and did i mention he said we could be friends with benifits and he still wants to be bestn friends and hang out and go to movies together and yesterday after track practice we were hanging out waiting for our rides and he kissed me 3 times and he is all over me, he hugs me way more than he ever did when we were going out, but then i ask him if he still lvoes me and he tells me no,and he said he would give me anotehr chance near the summr and that i could count on us going back out and yesterday we had a track meet and i was crying the whole time, and he saw me crying and he just kept looking at me like i was some stranger in his world and he never came and said anyhthing to me like its gonna be alright or nothin like that, and after the track meet i asked him why he kept looking at me and he said because i wanted to know why u were crying and i was like well looking at me is not going to do you any good, you could of came and talked to me if u wanted to know, and he huged anoehr girl and i saw and i am really sad/hurt/heartbroken....i just dont know what to do? please help me figure it out.....and by the sounds of it, is he playing games? does he want me back? does he want me back but is scared to?
you can talk to me on AIM at BahHumBug357
thanx any advise would help. i am totally devidtated to the point were i am not eating bc i am sick to my stumach.
please help
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i know it may be hard because your feelings for him are still strong ... however if you guys arnt going to get back togeather then its better to just be friends... not w/ benifits.... just friends this way you wont stay to connected with him (or in that way) and my advise would be to not get back togeather with him. Dont let him think that you will always be there, and that he can keep coming back to you. And remember there just guys nothing to get sick over.
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i always find the wrong guy!my last boyfriend was totally abusive!he would hurt me a lot..now im with this guy Zach and he FLIPS out over every little thing. like we went to the mall and we were holding hands and that, then i saw my friend Joe and i gave him a hug and after zach was like "your such a f**king hoe if you ever cheat on me again ill break up with you"..i guess i deserved that.then i went to go get some big cookies and he wanted a medium and they were outta medium so i got him large and he flipped out..what should i do!? (link)
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One of my friends was in a relationship like this but she didnt realize it until she was out of it. You need to brake up with him no one deserves to be treated that way.
well hope this is a help
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