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Im Ashley♥ My friends keep me going and i love them more than anything. Im a pretty happy person and like to be that way so dont come into my life if your just going to hurt me or be mean. I love lots of things=] and i get excited about the little things in life. Im very friendly. Get to know me before you start judging me. You can love me or hate me but remember im not gonna change just for you. Ive been through a lot in my life so far but not everything so if you ask me a question i will try to answer it as best i can.

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hey im 15/f so my period is really irregular like it will go a few months without showing up. so is this normal n could it affect me having kids?

did you currently just get your period? because if you did then its totally normal and sooner or later it will start being on a regular schedule. and im pretty sure it will not affect you having kids ♥

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alirght im a male and 16 and usually i know what im doing around girls but this time im in a hole,well me and this girl were going out awhile back and she dumped me and it didnt bother me,but the next day she was all over me again(well apparently she doesnt know that doing that hurts) anyways she did this the rest of the school year until about the last week then she just stopped.Well now to the question recently shes been inviting me just about everywhere cause we are freinds but than she messages me saying things that well lead me to believe she liked me so then the most recent time we were hanging out with a group of people and a kid pulled up to a car well you could tell she was trying to make me look at her cause she was doing "certain thing" i will not speak of but nothin dirty,but next thing i know i turn around from talkin to someone and shes all over him and i mean kissin and all of that but she wpuld stop and flirt with me a little bit but go right back to him and she continued the back and fourth. i think it was trying to make me jealous but i let you figure that out.
Apparently people dont understand that makes people mad not wanting them.
thanks for the advice i may get.

what a bitch. okay sorry i know thats your friend or whatever but she is too much of a tease. she only wants your attention and once she gets it then everything is ok and that means she can go flirt with the next guy. i know whats going on..she wants you to be jealous that she can get other guys and then that way she thinks this will make you want her even more. you could talk to her about it and say..look why do you keep doing this to me? so you've gotten my attention but then how come everytime i look at you then you go to some different guy and go all over him. confront her and tell her that you dont like what she is doing..she may get a little upset but that may help her realize that it really bothers you! or you could pretend that it doesnt bother you. either way would work it just all depends on what you want to do ♥

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16/f

hey! what are some cute love songs that i could use for myspace or just download! im really going through a hard time right now im trying to get over this boy that has a girlfriend but i just cant stop thinking about him..

well right now i have i dont want to miss a thing by aerosmith on my myspace.

but i was just wondering if there are any cute songs or anything that could relate to me!?

♥amazed by lonestar
♥back at one by brian mcknight
♥all my life by kc and jo jo
♥let it burn by usher
♥the world by brad paisley
♥must be doin something right by billy currington
♥southside by ashanti

hope this is what you were looking for!

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Im am kendra and im 13 years old and i am on my period today. everytime im on my period i cramp and i don't tell my mom because she overreacts like when i was 10 and i first came on it she got so mad because i messed up my underwear!! im still cramping and as i type i cramp and cramp should i tell her or not

i would tell your mom! your mom should be there for you and understand what your going through because she went through the same thing! i always talk about things like that with my mom and she understands! your mom shouldnt get mad because its not something you can control! also what you can do to help with your cramps is either take motrin which is what i take and it takes most of the pain away otherwise taking a nice hot bath works real good too or putting like a heating pad on your stomach and just laying down! if you need any other help or have any other questions let me know ♥

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I'm looking for something to whiten my teeth that actually works. I was gonna try the Crest Whitening Strips but I've been getting mixed answers from people, saying they don't work/waste of money, etc. Does anyone know of something like that that actually works and makes your teeth whiter? Thanks!

ive used those before! they kinda worked for me but my parents just got done using them and there is a huge difference! it does make your teeth kind of sensitive though..or at least it did for mine! but also what i did was my neighbors are dentists so i asked them about it and they got me this gelly stuff that you put on your teeth! so the next time you go to the dentist you can always ask them what they think but my dentist recommended the crest white strips!♥

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I have minor acne and i wear make-up 2 clean it up.My dad says not 2 wear it but i do any way.All my friends say im so pretty and so do random people. i dont think im so preety.I dont care if my friends think im pretty i want this 1 boy jay to think i am.He only likes this 1 girl jasmine who is hawiin and japaneese and so pretty.Does the acne have any thing 2 do with what he thinks of me????

i doubt that its because of your acne! everyone gets acne here and there even i have it! but your just like me ..all my friends think im so pretty but i just dont see it! i really think you should listen to your friends and everyone else around you though because hardly anyone ever likes their appearance. maybe try being more confident around him..if you arent already! if this guy doesnt like you because of your acne then thats pretty bad..and you dont need a guy like that anyway! but if you still want to go for him then keep flirting with him! but dont get too attached because you dont want to get annoying or seem too clingy.♥

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do guys really like blond better than brown hair?? cause in movies there like always blond girls with good looking guys and everything! so i just wanna know what collor do guys like better?

well i think that it depends on the guy. Yeah some guys like blondies but then some like brunettes ♥ lol. But im sure your gorgeous either way! sometimes guys dont even go on hair color..they will go on personalty..or other good qualities you have--not just hair!

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you know, sometimes i would hold back on goin out with a person because i want my frist relationship to be perfect. i know nothing can be perfect but still you know waht i mean? is this bad? i'm i juss bein too picky. i dont feel anyone around me is right for me

ohh nooo! your not too picky at all! but you wanna know somethin? i was the same exact way! i never seemed to like many people..i didnt seem like they were the right one for me..and if someone liked me and i didnt like them back..i would see them differently and be kinda weired out. even tho thats not a good thing lol! but i understand where your coming from. you dont want to make a bad decision and go out with someone..and get your heartbroken! the right one will eventually come! just keep your eyes open and listen to your heart and you will never go wrong!!
♥ ash

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okayy well my brother is only about 16 months older then me.. we are pretty close but sometimes he can be totally horrible to me and my friends.. he has a bunch of close guys friends thatt are allways at my house. one of my brothers friends i think im attracted to but i dont kno what to do.. my brother would kill me if i made a move and im not sure how my brother's friend would react.. i mean i have caughten him checking me out when i walk around the house in skimpy little pajamas that i accidentally wore when he was at my house;)

wow i kind of have the same problem as you! but my brother is actually 3 years older than me but he hangs out with some guys only one grade above me..and actually he didnt care that his friend kind of liked me for a little bit. even tho he can be horrible to me too! he understood. if you really want to make a move and you care what your brother thinks, i think the safest thing to do would be to ask your brother and tell him what you think about his friend! also just start talking to his friend more..maybe to get to know him better before you make any sort of move! goodluck. if you need anything else let me know!
♥ ash

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hi all.

i'm getting my braces off in a month (and counting every day!). my ortho told me i should get wires placed on the back of my teeth to support and keep them straight for a while. is this normal and has anyone else out there have these on?

its a thin piece of wire that is glued on the BACK of your top and botton teeth. i'm getting the normal retainers and these wires are just extra support i guess. any info on these wires would be great (eg. does it affect anything... and i mean.. anything!)

cheers 22/f

its totally fine! because i have one too! lol but yeah well like the person below me said..you do sometimes get stuff stuck in it..but for me..not very often! i can hardly even tell its there! and it does help keep everything in place! dont worry..it wont affect anything

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on myspace to get the page to be private do you have to set your age to 14 or younger or is there another way to get it completely private?

well the only way i know of is if you put your age as 15 or younger!
♥ ash

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