alirght im a male and 16 and usually i know what im doing around girls but this time im in a hole,well me and this girl were going out awhile back and she dumped me and it didnt bother me,but the next day she was all over me again(well apparently she doesnt know that doing that hurts) anyways she did this the rest of the school year until about the last week then she just stopped.Well now to the question recently shes been inviting me just about everywhere cause we are freinds but than she messages me saying things that well lead me to believe she liked me so then the most recent time we were hanging out with a group of people and a kid pulled up to a car well you could tell she was trying to make me look at her cause she was doing "certain thing" i will not speak of but nothin dirty,but next thing i know i turn around from talkin to someone and shes all over him and i mean kissin and all of that but she wpuld stop and flirt with me a little bit but go right back to him and she continued the back and fourth. i think it was trying to make me jealous but i let you figure that out.
Apparently people dont understand that makes people mad not wanting them.
thanks for the advice i may get.
Additional info, added Friday July 21 2006, 5:23 pm:
Well i agree with ASHLEYLYNNXO she is a bitch but my other problem is that ive tried to ignore it but apprently the green eyed monster got me because i just cant ignore her because i just like her to much and well shes choosing the wrong people to be with and im trying to change that because im a good person but can someone PLEASE help me just pull away even tho i dont want to because all that REALLY hurts. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? caramella answered Friday July 21 2006, 8:04 am: she is definetly DEFINETLY trying to get you jealous,its so obvious.i mean,she stopped being all over you all of a sudden because she decides...you know what,i have a better way to make him notice me.so she kisses that guy and flirts with him in hope that you still didnt get over her and that you would come outta nowhere yelling at her and telling her not to kiss him so she can get the feeling that you still like her.anywayz dont give her ANY attention and itll piss her off more like....if she kisses another dude or flirts with him and comes flirting with you,act all normal as if nothing happened,if you act mad that she was flirting with the other guys she get stuck on you more.and when she flirts with other guys dont look at her AT ALL(itll piss her off and shell give up) [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
ASHLEYLYNNXO answered Friday July 21 2006, 12:51 am: what a bitch. okay sorry i know thats your friend or whatever but she is too much of a tease. she only wants your attention and once she gets it then everything is ok and that means she can go flirt with the next guy. i know whats going on..she wants you to be jealous that she can get other guys and then that way she thinks this will make you want her even more. you could talk to her about it and say..look why do you keep doing this to me? so you've gotten my attention but then how come everytime i look at you then you go to some different guy and go all over him. confront her and tell her that you dont like what she is doing..she may get a little upset but that may help her realize that it really bothers you! or you could pretend that it doesnt bother you. either way would work it just all depends on what you want to do ♥ [ ASHLEYLYNNXO's advice column | Ask ASHLEYLYNNXO A Question ]
crazyme6 answered Friday July 21 2006, 12:42 am: this girl is very desperate for attention and is a MAJOR tease. she wants you to want her, but as soon as you do she leaves because she wants to leave you hangin. girls with this kind of attitude have low self esteem and also she probably just wants to see your reaction.it does sound like shes trying to make you jealous and i think that you should tell her that whatever shes trying to do she needs to stop..and try to stay away from her if you can! [ crazyme6's advice column | Ask crazyme6 A Question ]
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