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Well my best friend kissed my ex now they are dating.
Okay im 14/f and my ex broke up with me like a year ago. but he was my very 1st kiss. and i still like him. even tho i have a new boyfriend. last weekend was my exboyfriends birthday. while i was using the restroom my best friend kissed him. and when i came back down they were all over each other. and im kinda mad at her. but the thing is...they arent dating..and i dont know why but my feelings for him got stronger because of that. so i guess my question is should i be mad at my best friend? and is it normal for the feelings to get stronger?
please tell me.
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You moved on so no you shouldnt' be mad at your best friend. I understand that he was your first kiss and such, but you just got jelous and that's normal. It's also normal that you're feelings for him are starting to come back. When you really care about someone, it's hard to forget the person but when you see him again your feelings for him could still be there.
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i can see why you would be mad he was your first kiss its called "jelousy" hunn and it sucks from my point of view id probably say you cant stand seeing him with someone else which is normal but a boy isnt something to go getting mad at your friend for besides you have a boyfriend try putting your feelings aside and build a friendship with your ex you can never have too many of those =)
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you can't be mad at her. You've moved on and it was a year ago ya'll were ever a "thing" anyways. If you're mad you really can't say anything because it'll only upset your friend and especially your current boyfriend. Stop focusing on your past and look at what you have now. 1st kiss? don't think of it that way. that's not special enough of to keep you wrapped around his finger. you need to forget about this guy and concentrate on your current relationship before its over since you're not paying attention. It's normal for you to be upset, i'm just saying its bad, and try to stop it asap. good luck.
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Life moves on and aparently they have. Technically you got no right to be mad, it was her choice and his. It didn't affect you or really harm you.
Instead of worrying about it, concentrate on your own relationship and just don't worry about them.
-Ryan
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No you shouldn't get mad at her. You have a boyfriend of your own, and you can't control other people's lives. But Yes, feelings like that are normal, and they may get stronger, but just realize that, maybe she really likes him too. and it wouldn't be fair to her if you told her she couldn't go out with him. That would make you seem very controlling to her, and him too. They would both get mad at you for that. (Plus your boyfriend would get jealous and think that you don't have sincere feelings)
(I've been in a similar situation) Just be happy that they're happy, and realize that your boyfriend is happy to be with you, and be happy that you have him.
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