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Heyy Everyone! My Name is Samantha Lynn. I'm 13 years old. I wouyld like to be a Physcologist in the fiture so I can help people out with their problems so I'm starting with Advicenators! Ask me a question and you can garentee it will be answered! You can IM me on GaudQueen490 or email me at Batontwirlers_26@yahoo.com if you don't want it to appear in my coulum....Heres a little bit about me...I LOVE Music! I'm absolutly obsessed with Elvis Presley! I love Green Day, All American Rejects, Simple Plan, Fallout Boy, and many others! My favorite type of music is rock but i also enjoy rap, rock n' roll, a little country, a little gospel (( only Elvis Presley gospel )), and that's all. I'm in seventh grade and I do pretty well in school... I'm in gifted but I have no common sense haha...I LOVE my friends! theyre so frickin awesome... Kori, Jordan (( H )), Chelsey, Acacia, Taylor, Rachel, Karissa, Holly, Meghan, Emily, Domenique, Chelsea, Jordan (( B )), Ian, Eric, Joanna, Allyson, Erika, Joe, Tyler, Mike, Destinie, Rachel, Lindsay, Sabrina, Shelby, Maria, Courtney, Miranda, Jessika, Jessica, and many others
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I am going to a wedding and im not sure where to get a dress or ideas for what an acceptable one would be... heres some questions i need answers to...

-where are some cheep places to get nice dress for about $40 at the most?
((websites?))

-what type of dress, its in the summer so what would good ideas be.. pictures would help?((websites?))

-how should i do my hair and make up?((websites?))

*** i would LA LA LA LA LOVE it if you found a picture of a dress, shoes, make up, hair if you know what i mean***

thanks (link)
I looked some sites up and all I found was this...



http://www.elegantgowns.com/ beautiful gowns under $300


Hope I Helped! =]


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Under the "send" button on an AIM screen theres a little bar with 3 red, 2 yellow and a bunch of green squares. Does it do anything & why is it there? (link)
yes it does. It tells you how many ims you can send. If you send a lot of messages too quickly it goes down to red and you can't send anymore untill you wait for it to build back up to green. If you go to direct instant message then it diappears.
Hope I Helped!


- Samantha Lynn ♥


Is Gerard Way gay or bisexual or straight?

P.S. He's the lead singer for My Chemical Romance if you didnt know.

Please help. (link)
I'm pretty sure he's bisexual but it doesn't really matter because he's hot anyway =]


what age can kids start to babysit other kids? (link)
Basically, you can start baby sitting at whatever age you think you're ready. If your mature enough to handle a young person and take responsibility for all of their actions then you're ready. The thing is you have to remember that you are in charge of the person's life. Once you think you can handle then then your ready.

P.S. if you're not sure then try baby sitting with a friend frist!


Hope I Helped!

- Samantha Lynn


okay, i like one guy, Gabe, who i don't know if they like me. i like Alex, who i went out with, and now regret breaking up with him, and he still loves me, but is going out with my best friend. and i like another guy, Diontrae, who also likes me back, but is going out with smeone else. my friends say that i need to pick one of them, but i like them all. i really need help!!!

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well in this situation, the best thing to do would be to decide who you love more and who loves you back. Try not to make a bad choice in this because you might regret not picking that person. Take as while to think about which one you love more and also the consequences of going out with them since some arent single. I hope I helped!







- Samantha Lynn


ok so what are some really cute love quotes.. or sweet ones...pllllllease. kthx. (link)
heres a lot...

eres a lot...



1. to the world you\'re just one person but to just one person you mean the world.

2. true love doesn’t have a happy ending. true love doesn’t have an ending.

3. trust that he doesn\'t cheat on you. trust that he doesn\'t lie to you. trust that he really likes you. trust that hell always be there for you. trust that you don\'t have to worry about him breaking up with you the second you wake up. trust that he\'ll stick up for you. trust that he\'ll never fall in love with another girl. trust that he won\'t get sick of you and trust that he wants you like you want him.

4. what\'s meant to be will find a way.

5. when it comes to loving someone you have three options: give up, give in, or give your all.

6. when one look from him is all it takes to brighten your day then that’s when you know that you’re in love.

7. when someone loves you for sure you just remember to never let them go.

8. when you fall in love everything else falls into place.

9. when you fall in love everything sort of passes by and you’re still there, looking at the most beautiful person you’ve ever seen in your life.

10. when you love him he\'ll drive you crazy because he knows he can.

11. when you love someone it\'s something. when someone loves you it\'s another thing. when the person you love loves you back it\'s everything.

12. when you tell someone something bad about yourself you\'re scared they won\'t love you anymore but then you get surprised because not only do they still love you but they love you even more.

13. when you\'re hopelessly in love and you think it\'s true, when he\'s all you\'re thinking of when there\'s nothing else to do, do yourself a favor and think the whole thing through. ask yourself a question - is he thinking of you too?

14. when you\'re in love with someone you can\'t control your heart; it controls you.

15. when you\'re sixteen logic and experience don\'t matter. all that matters is the way you feel and the way you felt the first time you knew it was love.

16. you aren\'t going to be his first, his last, or his only. he\'s cared about someone else before you and he will again but if he cares for you now, what else matters? he\'s not perfect. you aren\'t either. the two of you will never be perfect but if he can make you laugh at least once hold onto him and give him the most you can. he isn\'t going to quote poetry. he\'s not gonna be thinking about you every moment but he\'ll give you part of him that he knows you can break so don\'t hurt him, don\'t change him, and don’t expect more than he can give you. don\'t analyze. smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he\'s not there.

17. you can always have a new love but it\'s good to have your true love.

18. you can’t help who it is that you fall in love with whether they’re older or younger, taller or shorter, completely opposite or just like you.

19. you can’t help who you love. you’re not supposed to. when you love someone you love them.

20. you know he\'s someone special when no matter what kinda mood you\'re in he can always manage to make you smile.

21. you know how much someone means to you by how big your smile gets just by thinking about them.

22. you know you love someone when the mere thought of hurting them is enough to break your own heart.

23. you know you’re in love when nobody else is even worth looking at.

24. you know you’re in love when the hardest thing to say is goodbye.

25. you know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams.

26. you know you’re in love when you wanna tell everyone about it even when they haven’t asked.

27. you know you’re in love when you’re having the worst day ever and just talking to him makes everything so much better.

28. you know you\'re in love when you look back at all the pain and hurt he put you through and still you smile.

29. you know you\'re in love when you see that someone and your heart flutters, your stomach gets butterflies, and the rest of the world disappears.

30. you know you\'re in love when your life is better than your dreams.

31. you should never be afraid to be a little crazy because in the end the sweetest kind of love is the one that made you lose control.

32. you shouldn’t say i love you if you don’t mean it but if you do you should say it a lot because sometimes people forget.

33. you’ve never really lived until you’ve found someone worth dying for.




1. it\'s a feeling you get inside of you when you wanna be with a person, hug them, kiss them, and even just hold hands with them that makes you feel so good.

2. it\'s a surprise people fall in love. it\'s everything you were taught to run from.

3. it\'s funny how we set standards for the one we love while deep down we know the one we truly love will always be an exception.

4. it\'s impossible to find someone who will never hurt you so go for the one who\'s worth all the pain.

5. just a casual fall.

6. let\'s get these teen hearts beating faster, faster.

7. life is too short so love the one you got.

8. love leaves a memory that no one can steal but it also leaves a heartache that no one can heal.

9. love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.

10. make sure that you\'re really in love, not just in love with the idea of love.

11. maybe he\'s the one you want but maybe he\'s not the one you need.

12. never frown when you\'re sad because you never know who may be falling in love with your smile.

13. never give up on love because there\'s always someone who loves you even if it\'s not the person you were hoping for.

14. never leave the one you love for the one you like. they\'ll leave you for the one they love and you\'ll be left alone. so do yourself a favor and stick with the one you love and not the one you just like.

15. never take the one you love for granted because you never know when they’ll be gone.

16. no matter how many times you see a shooting star, how many times you make a wish at 11:11, no matter how many coins you throw into a fountain, or the number of fingers you cross if it’s not meant to be, it’s never going to happen.

17. no one ever said that love was gonna be easy. you gotta take the ups and the downs, the in-betweens. if you take this journey you gotta give yourself completely. never let anyone step on your dreams.

18. people fall in love not knowing why or how. it\'s so special, a feeling that it doesn\'t require much answers. you just love no matter how stupid you become.

19. really loving someone means that their happiness is the most important thing to you even if you’re not part of it.

20. remember you can love anyone in the entire world. don\'t let anyone or anything stop you from doing so but you have to remember he can do the same as you can.

21. saying you’ll never fall in love again is like saying you’ll never smile again. as much as you might not want to, someone’s just going to come along and make you.

22. she read the entire dictionary and not one word describes how she feels about him.

23. sometime you meet somebody and you know that whatever you did before must have been right because nothing you’ve done could have been too bad or have gone too far wrong because it led you to this person.

24. sometimes just holding hands is holding onto everything.

25. sometimes no matter how long or how hard you’ve loved someone they\'ll never love you back and no matter how much it hurts you\'ll have to be okay with that.

26. sometimes you just feel everything and nothing all at once. sometimes you\'ll find yourself smiling while missing something at the same time. at times you can absolutely love a person, all the while wanting to hate them. life comes without guarantees, except that smiling will brighten your face, laughing will enhance your eyes, and falling in love will change your life.

27. sometimes you just know when something was meant to happen.

28. sometimes your mind doesn\'t want you to be in love but deep down you know you are.

29. that\'s why it\'s called falling in love because you don\'t force yourself to fall. you just do.

30. the best feeling in the world is listening to someone’s heartbeat and knowing it’s beating like that because of you.

31. the difference between friendship and love is how much you can hurt each other.

32. the only guy that deserves you is the one that thinks he doesn\'t.

33. the sad thing is you can still love someone and be wrong for them.

34. the spaces between our fingers were created so that another person\'s fingers could them in.

35. there are millions of people out there but in the end it all comes down to one.

36. there are three things a guy can never hide; that he’s drunk, that he’s horny, that he’s in love.

37. think how different it would be if you never met the one person who changed everything.

38. to continue loving somebody even though there\'s no chance of that love ever thriving - that\'s romance.

39. to fall in love is easy. even to remain in it isn\'t difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. but it\'s a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be.

40. to fall in love you have to be in the state of mind for it to take like a disease.


. a priceless moment is when the person you’ve fallen in love with looks you right in the eyes and tells you that they’ve fallen in love with you too.


for more go to www.quotemania.2ya.com =]


Hope I Helped!


- Samantha Lynn x33


Ok so like my hair used to be kind of long like to the middle of my boobs. Then i got it cut to right above them. i hate it so much i think i look horrible. I need to fight a cute way to do my hair. By the way my hair is naturaly strait. thx much. (link)
I think that you should try curling it or maybe if you dont have them already get long bangs...you could also pull it up or half up...try playing around with it one day and see all the different things you can do...Hope I Helped!


-Samantha Lynn


I'm 14/f and latly I've been wanting a boyfrined soooooo freaking much, I just want someone to make me laugh, hold me, like me for me, protect me, just a guy to be there for me. It's not like my whole school has a boyfriend or girlfriend there only like err...4 mabye 6 couples that have been dating for a while. Also I'll be attracted to this guy and I can't stop thinking about them then like one day I'm like ew wtf was i thinking liking him. I just don't get why I like a guy one momment and then the next not so much and I want a boyfriend soo bad and it seems like my friends are quite as obsesed as I am with guys and wanting a boyfriend so is this normal? Is there any way I can um.. like try to not have my emotions so strong, not wanting a guy soooo much??

WILL RATE (link)
What your going through is completly narmal in fact i just went through the same thing. Love isn't just about getting a boyfriend because you just "want" one its about falling in love with one person and loving them forever. When you find the right one your not going to say "eww" after so i guess you just haven't found him yet...you will some day though. I Hope I Helped.


♥ Samantha Lynn ♥


Ok, I know this is a weird question.

I'm just curious, I'm not trying to get a bigger ass, but anyways, if you really exercise your gludius maximus (aka butt muscle), will you get a bigger butt?
I (link)
lol yeah I'm pretty sure it does ♥


i have been looking online for a website that i can make my own layout. except i cant seem to find it. like i know there is a tom one but what is it called? thanks so much.

if there is any other ones i would appericate it if you give it to me.

(link)
http://myspace.nuclearcentury.com/profileeditor.php



GREAT SITE! it tells you everything!


Hope I Helped! =)


- Samantha Lynn ♥


Okay I really like this boy (( let's call him Joe )) Well Joe and I became friends this summer and since then we've been best friends. I realized today that I really like Joe but, I really don't want to ask him out because I don't want to ruin our friendship and he also has a girlfriend. What should I do? (link)
Maybe you should wait untill Joe makes his move first. That way you don't lose your relationship with him. Hope I Helped! =)


-Samantha Lynn ♥


There is my school's culture night tomorrow. I need a Spanish food to bring in. Does anyone know any simple yet tasty recipies I could make or buy? (link)
Chicken Sofrito (Stir-Fried)
Recipe Cuisine: Spanish
Recipe Category: Spanish
Recipe Serves: 2

Recipes Ingredients:
2 ts Olive oil, divided
1 Pkt instant Chicken broth
1/2 c Finely chopped onion
-and seasoning mix
1/4 c Finely chopped green bell
1 ts Oregano leaves
-pepper 1/4
ts Each salt and black pepper
2 Garlic cloves, minced
1/8 ts Ground red pepper
1 1/4 c Drained canned Italian
9 oz Skinned and boned chicken
-tomatoes, seeded and
-breasts, cut into
Finely chopped 3
ea 1/2-inch strips
3/4 c Water
4 Pimiento stuffed green
1/2 c Sliced mushrooms
-olives, sliced crosswise
1 oz Julienne-cut Canadian-style
1/2 oz Shelled almonds, lightly
-bacon (thin strips)
-toasted and ground
2 tb Sherry


Recipe Instructions:
In 10-inch Skillet heat 1 teaspoon oil over medium-high heat, add onion, bell pepper and Garlic and saute until onion is translucent, 2 to 3 minutes. Add remaining ingredients except Chicken and olives and stir to combine. Reduce heat to low, cover, and let simmer, stirring occasionally, for 15 minutes. While tomato mixture is cooking, in separate 10-inch nonstick Skillet heat remaining teaspoon oil over medium-high heat; add Chicken and stir-fry until golden brown on all sides. Transfer to sauce, add olives and stir to combine. Increase heat to medium and cook until Chicken is cooked through and Sauce is thickened, 5 to 6 minutes. Serve sprinkled with ground almonds. Makes 2 servings. [WEIGHT WATCHERS NEW INTERNATIONAL COOKBOOK] Posted by Fred Peters.











Cold Gazpacho
Recipe Cuisine: Spanish
Recipe Category: Spanish
Recipe Serves: 4

Recipes Ingredients:
1 Green pepper, diced
3 c Water
4 Tomatoes, diced
1/4 c Wine
1 Onion, diced
3 ts Lemon juice
3 Garlic cloves, minced
1 Scallion, diced fine


Recipe Instructions:
Puree all ingredients, except scallion, in blender. Add a little more water if too spicy. Strain, discarding any Vegetable pieces that did not puree fully. Chill overnight. Serve in chilled glasses or bowls with diced scallion floating on top. Serves 4. Posted by Fred Peters.













Flaming Eggs
Recipe Cuisine: Spanish
Recipe Category: Spanish
Recipe Serves: 2

Recipes Ingredients:
1 tb Olive oil
220 g Crushed tomatoes
1/2 sm Onion
1 tb Tomato paste
1/2 sm Red pepper
3 Eggs
1/2 ts Chopped red chilli
1 tb Parsley


Recipe Instructions:
Preparation time: 25 minutes Cooking time: 25 minutes 1. Preheat the Oven to 160C. Heat the oil in a medium pan, add the onion and cook over a medium heat until soft and lightly golden. Add the pepper and chilli and cook for a further 2-3 minutes. Add the tomato paste and cook , uncovered, over a low heat for 10 minutes, stirring occasionally. 2. Transfer the tomato mixture into a shallow, ovenproof dish. Using the bowl of a Soup spoon, press two hollows into the mixture to hold the eggs (one per number of servings). One-by-one break each Egg into the hollows. 3. Bake for 20-30 minutes or until the whites are set and the yolks are still soft. 4. Sprinkle with parsley and serve immediately.

















Paella a la Alicantina
Recipe Cuisine: Spanish
Recipe Category: Spanish
Recipe Serves: 6

Recipes Ingredients:
7 tb Good olive oil
-chopped
3 md Green peppers, chopped
1 lb Rice
3 Cloves garlic, peeled and
Saffron
-minced
Sweet (Spanish) paprika
3 Tomatoes, peeled and chopped
1 Qt. water
8 Young, tender artichokes,
1 lb Pork, diced


Recipe Instructions:
Salt Heat the oil in a large Skillet and fry the peppers lightly and quickly to avoid burning them. Set them aside. In the same oil, fry the garlic, tomatoes and artichokes over low heat. Add the Rice and stir, then add the saffron and paprika. Add the water and salt to taste. When it begins to boil, add the Pork and let the mixture cook vigorously. Puree the fried peppers with a little water and add to the rice. Continue cooking, without stirring, until the Rice is half done, then reduce the heat and cook slowly until finished. This Rice should be cooked, dry and have the grains separate (rather than stuck together).





















Spanish White Bean Soup
Recipe Cuisine: Spanish
Recipe Category: Spanish
Recipe Serves: 8

Recipes Ingredients:
1 lb White beans, dried
1/2 ts Thyme, dried
16 c Water, divided
1 ts Olive oil
2 1/2 lb Ham hocks, 4 hocks
1 1/2 c Carrots, chopped
1 1/4 c Leeks, diced
1 1/2 c Turnips, cubed
2 c Onions, chopped
1/4 c Coriander, fresh, chopped
1 ts Garlic, chopped


Recipe Instructions:
1. Inspect the beans for imperfections or stones and rinse them under cold water. Place in a Soup pot with 4 cups water. Bring to a boil and cook 10 minutes. Remove from the heat and cool 30 minutes. 2. Drain the beans and return them to the Soup pot with the remaining 12 cups water. Add the Ham hocks, cover, and bring to a boil. Reduce to a simmer. 3. Meanwhile, saute the leeks, onions, Garlic and thyme in the olive oil over medium heat until wilted, about 5 minutes. Add to the Soup pot. 4. Cook, covered, 1-1/2 hours. Add the carrots and turnips and cook 30 minutes. 5. Remove the hocks and cool. When cool enough to handle, remove the Meat from the bones, discarding the fat. Add the Meat to the pot. 6. Add the coriander and serve. Yield: 8 to 10 servings. Recipe from "Cuisine Rapide" from Pierre Franey and Brian Miller.



Hope I Helped! =)



- Samantha Lynn


P.S. I got the recipes from

http://www.free-recipes.co.uk/spanish-recipes.asp


Can people see the list of questions you asked? like on the side when your logged on it says My questions can they get to that and know who wrote it? (link)
The only way they could see that is if they are logged onto your name. Hope I Helped! =)


-Samantha Lynn ♥


hey...did anyone notice...that the new "in" thing is acting ghetto? last year,it wasnemo rock whatever....now its ghetto...what the heck? why cant people be original and now follow the crowd? how can i not follow ANY crowd? everyone in my school follows the trends...and im just there,i want to stick out ina good way...any way i could do that? thanks...also...are you with me on this? (link)
I compltley agree with you. Our school is like that too...it's made up of preps and emo/punk/gothic people. Why can't people just be themselves and do and wear whatever they want? I agree with you 100%.


you know the sweatpants at victorias secret ... that say pink or whatever ... around how much do they cost ? like a lot ? thx, i rate high (link)
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=UK-187698&cgname=OSKEYSLPZZZ&rfnbr=19


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they cost about $36.50.


Hope I Helped! =)


-Samantha Lynn


I just got a new boyfriend the other day, and when we talk our convos usually start and end at "Hey you, how are ya?" ... What are somethings I could say to get the conversation to move on? (link)
Try stuff like hey how was your day? and wanna hear a joke!? or stuff like omg did you hear what so and so said!


Hope I Helped! =)


-Samantha Lynn ♥


how do i delete my myspace?
(link)
go to change acccount settings and then click cancel account ... a box will pop up and you click cancel my account (( its in red )).


Hope I Helped! =)


-Samantha Lynn ♥


Ok so here is the problem I have a serious crush on this boy let's call him Kyle. I am 14 so it's not just some stupid little kid thing, and no he isn't super popular. He's just there. He's always teasing me he likes to call me a turuturu. (they are cute little made up creatures) The main problem is I know he doesn't like me as more than a friend because he's gay. I keep telling myself I don't have a chance with him because he's gay but I can't get over him. What should I do? (link)
wow this is a pretty hard thing to deal with. In your case, I would have to try to get over him. I know that can be VERYY hard to do but you really have to try. Think about someone else and just be friends with Kyle. You may want to not spend so much time with Kyle anymore though because then you'll grow even more attached...Hope I Helped!!



- Samantha Lynn ♥


well lately my sister has been thrwing away her lunch and buying all this junk at the BP across the road from our school. she has no money cause it is sending her broke andhas been stealing it from me and my mum. I tried to tell mum about it without dobbing her in but mum just syas stop dobbing on your sister and takes it as a joke. i talked to my sister about it but she jut tells me to get lost. i am sruck in the middle cause it is my money getting pinched. i have tried hiding the money but my mum puts our weekly tuckshop money on the bench and my sister pinches it fromm there before i get it. then i dont get tuckshop. what should i do? (link)
You should sit your mom down and explain to her exactly whats going on. If she says your joking around then MAKE her listen. If that doesn't work then you should ask your mom to give the money to you directly and then you could keep it in a safe spot. If those things don't work then you can MAKE your sister listen to you or you can steal her weekly money before she gets to it and make her see how it feels.


Hope I Helped! =)


-Samantha Lynn ♥


I brought my friend to church with me, becuase i talk about all these people, my "best friends" at church, so i wanted her to meet them. When we walk in, all of my "best friends ever" completly ignore us, even while im introducing them. It takes the friend that i brought to come up to me and say "did i do something wrong?!" before i completly loose it. I start crying and just break down. then, my "best friends" get all concerned, and even more concerned when i ignore them. what do you think i should do about them? (link)
I think you should ask them what is going on or at least one of them (( the one you can trust the most )) . If that doesn't work then you should try not talking to them for a while and see how they like it.


Hope I Helped! =)

-Samantha Lynn




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