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Is this normal???--WILL RATE
I'm 14/f and latly I've been wanting a boyfrined soooooo freaking much, I just want someone to make me laugh, hold me, like me for me, protect me, just a guy to be there for me. It's not like my whole school has a boyfriend or girlfriend there only like err...4 mabye 6 couples that have been dating for a while. Also I'll be attracted to this guy and I can't stop thinking about them then like one day I'm like ew wtf was i thinking liking him. I just don't get why I like a guy one momment and then the next not so much and I want a boyfriend soo bad and it seems like my friends are quite as obsesed as I am with guys and wanting a boyfriend so is this normal? Is there any way I can um.. like try to not have my emotions so strong, not wanting a guy soooo much??
WILL RATE
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Totally normal!
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At your age your hormones are going haywire, emotions are all over the place, things and people you like one day you can hate the next. It is a time for adjustments and finding out exactly what you do/don't like. Don't worry, it's perfectly normal and we've all been through it. At some point (probably quite soon) you will find there is a guy that you really like, he'll like you and you will find you do have a boyfriend.
As we all develop at different times there will be girls that are already in a relationship and there will still be girls not ready when you have found someone.
You can't really do anything to calm down these feelings because they are a part of growing up. Give yourself some time, you'll be fine. Good luck.
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Haha Okay well i went through the same thing i actually was pressured into a relationship from my friends becasue i wanted a bf so bad, but let me tell you that its the wrong way to go. i kept telling myself i like this guy because i wanted a bf so bad so i think you should think about this guy before you actually no if you like him or not, uhm id say that its easy to get out these emotions by flirting alot then you may decide its funner to hang witha variety of guys then just one!
-Tawny
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What your going through is completly narmal in fact i just went through the same thing. Love isn't just about getting a boyfriend because you just "want" one its about falling in love with one person and loving them forever. When you find the right one your not going to say "eww" after so i guess you just haven't found him yet...you will some day though. I Hope I Helped.
♥ Samantha Lynn ♥
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I've got the same friggin problem. emotions are emotions and you can't change em even though I totally wish we could. There's this one dude I like that has a gf and we only got 5 weeks til summer break.. so ya... this isn't the happiest time in my life since pretty much everything i do ends up going wrong lately. Sorry, back to you, kinda started babbling on bout my life story.
Anyways, the reason you probrally want a bf (deeper than to hold and laugh with and all that) is most likly because you are going through some tough times also. You might also want a bf cause your guy friends don't treat you like they should. You might be missing a guy friend that DID treat you like you should be treated and now you don't see him much anymore. So basically tou want a bf that treats you like your old guy friend did. (that is, if Im right and there was an old guy friend).
What you should do is just try to hang out with this guy you like more often. Your emotions for him will get stronger at first, but eventually they'll calm down.
What I realized about the whole bf/gf thing, is that its all based on time. The time it takes for them to break up so hes single. The time it takes for you to pick truth instead of dare, and they ask who u like?. The time it takes for him to ask you out. The time it takes til he finds out you like him. The time it takes for someone to ask him if he likes you.... geez, i hate time a lot...
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-brittany
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Yes it is normal, I want a bf. Almost every middle school girl does. To get your mind off it, concentrate on your studies.
*~*~*~*Don't be shy~*~*~*~
-shygirl66
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Yeah it's fine, because you know you're a teenager and a lot teenagers who are single ((including me)) really want to have a boyfriend/girlfriend just to experience being in love, and having that comfort. It's perfectly fine to want to have that, but just don't turn desparate is my point basically. I really like this guy too, and he seems basically PERFECT for me, and yeah sometimes I feel like "I wonder why I like him so much, he's so mean to me sometimes," so I just try to keep my eyes open and keep myself happy for who I am and everything that I already have. Don't worry about a thing =)
-mystical_breeze
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