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hey guys, i'm lindsey, i'm 15 almost 16. i play basketball, run track and play the flute and piano. i'm a sophmore in high school so i've 'been around the block' a few times. i've been through just about every situation and there is no question that will sound dumb to me!!!! so ask whatever you want!!!!
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how can you find out if the person ur with really cares about you (link)
next time you guys are alone together look into their eyes and say do you really care about me and you'll be able to tell if they're lying because they'll look away or be like don't be silly of course i do. if they really do care about you they'll look you back in the eyes and say more than anyone else and kiss you or something cute like that


i REALLY like this guy named eric. he goes to a different school then me though but we see each other so much! i like him soo much! the thing is - he doesnt think we should go out because we go to different schools. but i dont get it. its not like im gonna cheat on him! but anyways, we went out before and it didnt seem to bother him then. he likes me now too. but why is he doing this? is he shy? what are some things i can do to make him think about it again? please help!

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you may not cheat on him, and i'm sure hes a sweet guy, but he might cheat on you and hes trying not to hurt you. you don't know whats hes doing with or telling girls at his school because you don't go there. if you guys really like each other you can probably make it work but it takes a lot of effort


does anyone know where i can get anything free online like when u sign up for something and they send you free keychains, or makeup or lipgloss ect. I was just wondering cause im bored and browsing on line... thanks... (link)
go online to www.teenfreeway.com its got tons of free stuff like perfume and makeup and posters!


ok, theres this guy i like, michael. hes in my class and were really good friends. i sent him an email about a week before school started telling him i liked him and that i couldnt keep him off my mind. he told me he just wanted to be friends. now its really awkward at school when i see him or have to work with him. is there a way i can make it less awkward??? help me!!! (link)
the same thing has happened to me SO many times. you really need to talk to him about what happened. be like i know you don't feel the same way about me as i feel about you and its really awkward now between us and it makes me sad that we can't even be friends so i'm hoping we can just put this behind us and be friends like we always were!


I'm a 15 year old girl. I am depressed. And I'm not talking about depression that has been going on for just months. Its been over a year. and it's getting worse by day. The latest thing I hace done to my self when I had gotten angry was cut all my hair off. I'm scared!!! I've tried to commit suicide before. but thank god i made it out alive. I cut and burn myself. I dont do it because i want to or because I wanna try it. I never believed in hurting my body. I always am thankful for being healthy and alive. I never went one night without thanking god for all the good that he has done for me and my family. I go to therapy but i feel as if its not helping me. I have tried asking god for help and still am. But I am not seeing results. I am trying to be patient but it's hard. My parents are diagnosed with depression. but don't take it seriously. They think I am just crazy!!! I thoguht I was too for a while until it really hit me that I had a real sickness. I believe that I got it from them. But I don't care how I got. All I care about is getting effective help. If I don't get some soon I'm gonna end up hurting myself Badly. AND I DON'T WANT THAT!!!! I had a bright future ahead of me. but now i just don't see it. I wanna get my life back and be the person I really am. I know I was created for a reason. I know I am worth something!! but i need help fast. I am not crazy I just need help before I end my life when it's not time for me. I am too young and don't wanna waste every day of my lfe doing nothing. Because every second that goes by brings me closer to the end of my life. I wanna have a story to tell about my life when i get old.I wanna see myself old. inshallah!!! and I don't ever wanna see anyone experience this problem not even an enemy. (link)
i used to cut myself pretty bad, i still sometimes do. but you just have to remember that there is ALWAYS someone that cares about you, so before you hurt yourself or anything, think twice about it, because you may also be hurting someone else and you probably don't want to do that either. talk to your parents or a friend or anyone that will listen and they will help you get help or go see a counselor to help you get better! nobody should ever have to feel the way you do and you need to get help!




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