i am 14 and i have been through a lot with many different things i will help n e one with n e thing so just ask me questions and ill b happy to answer!!//xo stacey
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OK..I need hElp! im a girl ok and im 15 and so theres this boy i've liked since the end of the summer and he knows i like him because my friends always be like she likes u and so and so..but i don't know he's very complicated, it seems like he likes me cuz he calls me every night and we fall asleep together and its sooo cute! Everyone thinks that we would be a cute couple..but he just doesn't asked me out. I've asked him awhile ago but he was like i dont know and i dont wanna presure him and think im a crazy person I just don't know what to do!
Please help
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maybe he is just very confused and he doesnt know whether to just keep his good friendship with you or to go out with you and risk never being friends again. maybe you 2 coulf just be friends with benefits.i hope i helped!
♥ //stacey
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whats the difference between fraternity and sorority? (link)
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fraternity is like a guys collage house and a sorority is like a girls collage house.
this is where a whole bunch of guys/ girls live during their collage years.
♥ //stacey
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my mom is always great to me, and does anything for me, except when shes around her freinds. they treat me nicley, but my mom makes a point of sending me to do things and making fun of me! i hate it. i cant just stay away from them. what should i do? (link)
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the only thing you can do is talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. your mom will understand and hopefully stop.
♥ //stacey
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i really really really like this guy in my global, gym and study hall classes he always glances or stares at me but ive never really had an acutall conversation just shot backs how do i get him to ask me out/like me? (link)
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you cant get a guy to just like you that coem naturlly. all you can do is just talk to him and flirt with him he will like that. i hope i helped.
♥ //stacey
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Ok. I'm going to this party tongith and the guy I like is gonna be there. My friend likes him to...we are definetly gonna play spin the bottle.
What the heck should I do!!!!!! (link)
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i think you sould defentally play spin the bottle. and talk to your friend before the party and tell her how much you like him and tell her that you are going to be at the party with him. if you need any more help just im me.
♥ //stacey
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Umm! Well a guy lent me his and I have no idea how to wash them! Can you just shove it in with a normal 40 degree wash or should I hand wash it or??
Heeelp! lol (link)
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i am pretty sure that you can just put it in the wash with whites. then dry it on tumble dry!! i hope i helped!
♥ //stacey
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hey how many tampons can you have in at once? (link)
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one
xo//stacey
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Well.. its me again.. Ive tried talking to my friend and she said she didnt like the guy. But we shuld have stopped when they came in the room. And yes i no i may be a bit young to be haveing sex.. But i was reading thru your advice column and a 13 yr. old was getting ate out.. look i dont drink or do drugs.. I have sex it feels good and i get pleasure out of doing it. i no it may sound funny but once u start having it u cant stop and its not my fault he would get off of me he shuld have. i didnt deserve to get slapped he broke with me.. i dunno y and now hes with my friend. Soo im with right now the one guy that makes me melt inside when ever i talk to him and i love the way he makes me feel i shuldnt be penalized for my ex's mistake of breaking my heart. She calls me a slut... and says that im to pretty to be real and makes up rumors about me and.. i dunno.. anymore help... (link)
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i wasnt trying to say that you were to young i just havent yet i dont think it is wrong i mean it is a free country! and yeah it is not your fault that he wouldnt get off you. and your ex had no right to slap you that is wrong. and i think that if your new boyfriend makes you melt when you are with him then he is the one! i havent had that feeling yet and i no it will come but i am really happy for you!! and i think your friend is really wrong for calling you a slut and spreding rumors! but i think even if you do get mad at her to not even start rumors about her! you are in the right with all this it is your choise to have sex and if it feels good and you like it keep doing it!! but if you need anything else let me know i am here i can help!!
xo//stacey
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Well on friday night i was at my friends party and I saw my ex boyfriend there and he was with this other girl... who just happend to be my bestfriend.. and isnt it a friend code that u dont date ur bestfriends ex boyfriends.. soo i no this is kinda bad and all but to make my ex jealous i started to really hardcore flirt with this guy i had my eye on for a long long time and he started to dance with me n then we started making out n before i knew what was going on we were on the couch in the other room and he was eating me out. and then he got on top of me and asked me if i wanted to have sex with him so i was like ya soo then i was like well lets go upstairs onto one of the beds soo we went upstairs and at first we started to make out some more and then he took off my skirt and thong and spread my legs and then he took off his jeans and boxers and like he put is dick in and right as he put it in my ex walked in with my friend and i had the loudest orgasim ever and my now boyfriend kept going at it and didnt stop right in front of them and they finnaly left. soo after like and hour and a half we were finnaly done and we walked out into the hallway and my ex came up and slapped me. soo then my bf punched him and now my best friend isnt talking to me.. what should i do?
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wow well i dont get why your friend would be mad at you i mean she was all over your ex!! and i think that you should just taLk to her and tell her how you feel bout her doing that to you and ask her what her problem is. maybe she liked the guy that you were with and she got mad but you didnt no so its not your falt. or maybe she is mad because you had sex with him maybe she thought you are too young it could be a lot of things!! well i hope this helped!! im me if you need more advice its xxsexiispankyxx !
xo//stacey
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My best friend (A) might or at least I think is flirting with my Ex who I am still in love with. She knows I like him and she has a boyfriend that she likes to. But what got me mad was when I saw them play fighting. So I got mad and left and I 'sorta' got over it today until I saw her around him again play fighting and acting stupid. It broke my heart and I almost cried cause I he might like her!! What can I say to her. Thanks All 5's SWEAR! (link)
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ok well maybe you could be like do u like my ex? be like i wont be mad if you do just tell me and do you no if he likes you!! i mean you two are best friends so you should be able to talk to eachother!! i really hope i helped!//xo stacey
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ok so i like this guy and he may find out i like him the thing is i dont want him to find out i want him to like me and ask me out on his own i want him to do it bc he wants to not because he feels like he has to. i would just tell him but im way too shy i mean yea i flirt and try to get the message across but im not the one to make the first move i wasnt raised like that im so worried about this my friend says if he asks about it just tell him that i like him im so confused what should i do? tell him or not? (link)
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i think that you should tell him! he might be shy like you and be scared to ask you out because he is afraid that you dont like him. so i would just tell him that i like him abd see what happens from there. i really hope i helped!
xo//stacey
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ok my parents were not home so i took there car out to practice my driving.then i took the car to go out to the mall and go shopping.when i came back from shopping there was a huge scratch on the hood of it!please help!!! (link)
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ok i did the same thing but put a big dent in it! when my mom asked about it i was like i dont know there is a dent? so just be like i have no idea what you are talking about maybe it got scratched when you were out and you just noticed it. i hope i helped// xo stacey
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hi im 12 almost 13 and i have a 38B is that to big or to small or just right?????
i rate high for good advice!!!! (link)
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um i would think the is just rite if u are almost 13 i think that is what i was but it was a 36b so i think you are just right!! i hope i helped//
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i just got my period and i am using tampons cas the pads feel like diaper's : ) and it said something about only using they when your flow is moderate what does that mean? and how many times a day do you get your period??
thanks ill rate 5's ♥ (link)
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umm i think if you just started then you should use pads just for a couple months. but what they mean by moderate is when you are flowing heaver. and you will have your period all day for about a week its not how many times a day. i hope i helped!!
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To give a little background, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year I'm 16 and he's 17. He would always get things in the mail from the Army, Navy and the Marines. He would save them, show it to me and I'd rip it up and tell him he's not going. The thought of my boyfriend going away to war is something I just CAN'T handle.
I was in his room, cleaning it up while he was in the shower like I always do and I found a flyer that had the information about the Navy on it... I was getting ready to rip it up when I saw that he had signed up for it..
I always told him that I'd be heartbroken if he would sign up for anything that COULD get him killed.
I'm trying SO hard to understand... But I can't. I don't know why he would do this to me. He keeps saying it's for the best but I KNOW it's not the best for him. He always told me he'd never leave me, but by doing this I feel like he is. He always told me, "You don't know what I would give just to see your beautiful face every day and just to have you in my arms, even if it's for 5 minutes." He's told me he wants to be the father of my children, my husband, my one and only.. If he's at war, how is he going to do that??
I really want to convince him NOT to go, but that's just being selfish... But at the same time I want him here with ME. I don't want to live every day in fear that I'll get that knock on my door and having someone tell me that the love of my life was killed.
So my questions are... SHOULD I convince him not to go and explain to him why I don't want him to?
If not, how can I get over this? How can I deal with it every day knowing that my boyfriend is risking his life? (link)
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if i were you i would tell him just how you feel and try to make him realize how bad it would really hurt you!!i no i couldnt deal if i had a b/f going into the war!! i hope i helped!! xox stacey
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Is it true that if u sre a smaller girl you dont get your period until ur like older and if you are a bigger girl you get yours sooner????is that true or is that just a lie... or doe sit have nothing to do with how big you are its just the was your body develpos (link)
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it dose matter wat size you are everyone satrts at their own rate! i hope i helped
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Ok, long story short, I fell in love with one of my best friend over the summer. Yes, I'm 13. Yes, I know you're about to tell me that this is mere infatuation rather than love. I'm just gonna spare you a 1 rating: It's not infatuation. I know love, and I know infatuation. And this is definitely love. I can feel it as right as 2+2 is 4. Anydangways, she knows very well how much I love her, but she still only likes me as a friend. Now that the school year's started again, our attitudes have sort of changed. We used to joke around all the time, but nowadays, we see each other in the halls, and either we just say "hi" or we stay silent or involved in our conversations. Personally, whenever I'm talking to my friends in the halls, and then I see her coming, I'm suddenly turn silent and I say something like "Yeah, I know, I'm weird." or "Yeah. That's it." Or something to end conversation and not embarass myself. Also, I've been hoping to see her: whenever I'm near where she lives and talking to someone about something, I think, "I'd better make this conversation a bit smarter in case she comes near. Just to be safe" or something like that. And I'm always trying to impress her. I don't know why, we're best friends, and she knows how much I love her. What's going on? Why do I just suddenly lose all my intelligence, self-respect, and logical reasoning, not to mention my will to do what I please, whenever I think about her? It's like in that manga D.N.Angel, whenever Daisuke thinks about Risa, he becomes Dark and loses control of his body. Sorry, I babble a lot. I'd better stop now. Please help me! (link)
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ok thats really cute awww!! you are in love!! the only thing i can think of fer you acting that way is because you really like her and that feeling isnt going to go away overnight! maybe you can tell her how you feel maybe she feels the same way!!! i hope i helped!
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Opinions, please!
I'm looking for a cologne (hopefully under $50) that my boyfriend would like. I know he's into mild stuff - like stuff you can spray and not choke yourself and other people with - and kind of oceany-breezy-type-smells...Light stuff.
Anyone have any ideas for me?
I'm new to the world of scents...my mother has allergies to like, everything and I'm finally in college - I want to be SCENTED! Lol...So yeah.
Any suggestions are helpful =). (link)
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my friend uses curve for men or crome and it smells really good so give thos a try!! you can find them at jc pennys or famous bar! i hope i helped!
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okay, i started my period last month in august on the 23. and yesterday on the 18th of september, i thought i was starting my period but it was like 5 days early. its like brownish and sticky. kinda gross to read i know but i wanna know. so i wore a pad to school today and its just like a normal period but just a wierd color and early. whats going on? is this supposed to happen? (link)
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that would be dischgre its fine just wear a pad it will be fine!! and yes it happens! i hope i helped!!
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14/f... just wondering if 34B is small for my age. Please help - I'm really worried!!! (link)
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nope thats not small some of my friends have that size!! i hope a helped!!
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