Question Posted Wednesday November 9 2005, 7:43 pm
ok so i like this guy and he may find out i like him the thing is i dont want him to find out i want him to like me and ask me out on his own i want him to do it bc he wants to not because he feels like he has to. i would just tell him but im way too shy i mean yea i flirt and try to get the message across but im not the one to make the first move i wasnt raised like that im so worried about this my friend says if he asks about it just tell him that i like him im so confused what should i do? tell him or not?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Friday November 11 2005, 12:05 pm: I think you should tell him because like you said he's starting to find out that you do so if he's going to know anyway, best just tell him. You don't even have to tell him face-to-face. It could be by letter, or tell him over the phone..just be like," Look I don't know if you've noticed, but I like you. I don't know how you feel about me, but if you don't like me like that can we just forget I mentioned this and just stick to being friends?" Because even if you can't be more than friends, it'd be better just to be friends with him, then nothing at all, right? I hope I helped.
snickerzz11 answered Thursday November 10 2005, 7:20 pm: if he asks, its prolly that he likes you too. that means, you'll have to tell him! it won't really be making the first move, but if thats what you consider a first move, why not make the first move when it will make you happy? so, if he asks, say YES! hope i helped! ♥ [ snickerzz11's advice column | Ask snickerzz11 A Question ]
xxsexiispankyxx answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 9:32 pm: i think that you should tell him! he might be shy like you and be scared to ask you out because he is afraid that you dont like him. so i would just tell him that i like him abd see what happens from there. i really hope i helped!
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hco_babe answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 9:15 pm: TELL HIM. = ) trust me. it will just make everything so much easier. you'll be so happy once you do. you don't even have to be like "I LIKE YOU" you could just say "hey your really cool and i love hanging out with you." he'll get the message. [ hco_babe's advice column | Ask hco_babe A Question ]
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