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Should I Tell?
ok me and my best friend (guy) are going out secreatly and i was wondering if that is wrong to keep it even from my best friend. Should i talk to him and see if im able to tell a couple of really good friends? im 13 and a female.
**sleepiesheep**
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ok u definateley need to find out why he wants to keep it hush hush. and if he says u cant tell anyone, go deeper into askin him why.
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Ok well i went out with this guy and i didnt tell my best friend and she got pissed but thats just her, its totally up to you and if you want to keep it private - i see no problem Good Luck w/ your decision
PeAcE
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First question you should ask yourself is "Why are you keeping it a secret". Is either of you ashamed of it being out in the open? If so, then why? Is it because of what people would think? You should discus it with him before you do anything, but if I were you then I would let your best friends know - tell them that it's a secret if you want, but if they find out some other way then they might be offended and tell you that they don't want to be your friends because you didn't trust them with this.
Obviously, it's up to you, but don't do anything without asking your boyfriend first - doing the wrong thing could jeopordise your relationship with him, and you don't want that to happen. Good luck.
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Is he ashamed of letting it out in the open? Someone is going to find out sometime!! If your friends are not the first to find out, then that could mess up the relationship you have with them! Talk to your boyfriend about getting it out in the open!
Good luck!
x Steph x
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if you two are going to be together then you should have to hide it let him know that. because your relationship isnt going to work if its secret
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My first question is why is it a secret-my first nswer is your parents? If that is the case then maybe you should tell them first before it gets back to them from someone else. If it is b/c your b/f wants it a secret i would be suspicious of why also.
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Why would it need to be kept secret?
Secret means either his parents think hes to young to date, or he has another girl in the wings somewhere he doesn't want to find out.
I would talk to him and see why you need to keep it a secret ( unless you already know). Let that help you in your decision. :)
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i dont really understand why you have to keep in a secret in the first place. I think that if you are going out with somebody but dont want anyone to kno thats kinda weird ya know. Just tell your frineds there is nothing wrong with it.
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why are you keeping it a secret? what's the point? i say go ahead and tell all your friends. = )
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