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so this guy asked me out finally.
but idk if it was a joke..
he asked me on myspace.
heres the exatc convo..
will you go out with me?
really?
yeah i like you alot.
awe.
yeah i dont want to be mean but whats the answer i gtg soon.
yeah sure.
so you will go out with me?
yeah.
then it ended..
the part where he said i like you alot dosent make since.
it could of been a joke.
what do you think.
i really need help
THANKS SO MUCH!
I RATE 5 (link)
maybe you should write a note about it and give it to him. call him and if he has an email maybe you should email him. but it might be better if you talk to him on the phone or in person.


Everynight for 2 weeks straight I have had this dream, can you tell me what you think it means?

My 2 friends and me are walking up a beatan path/trail in the woods and its kinda stormy, we are headed to the top of the mountain. When we get to the top of the mountain I see my ex, so I walk over there to talk to him. . Then all of a sudden out of the woods a dark evil shadow pushes him off the cliff. I look down the side of the cliff on some rocks and he is layin there blood surrounding his head. I scream, and the proceed to climb down the side of the cliff and go over to wear his body is. I put my hand under his head and blood is all over my hand. I lean over and hold him while crying and screaming while his blood is dripping all over me. I lean over again to kiss his bloody lips. I kiss him while holding him close. I wake up screaming & crying. Whats so weird is I could swore I almost taste blood in my mouth. (link)
maybe you still have feelings for your ex. in your dream(s) you climb down to help him. you may want to protect him or help him


I recently babysat for one of my husband's coworkers for a few days. After seeing a few warning signs, I'm beginning to think that the children are not being taken care of and that she may be abusing them.

This woman brings the children out in freezing weather with no jackets. She drops them off with no supplies. The children don't appear to have been bathed. They have severe, untreated diaper rash which leads me to think they're not being changed like they should. I've also noticed bruises on one of the children. It could be from bumping something, but from the look of the bruises I suspect the child was hit. When I feed them, they act like they haven't been fed in a while.

I've tried talking to her, but she told me it was none of my business. I'm worried what might happen if I don't do something. Should I call social services and report my suspicions? (link)
yes you should definately report this. it doesnt matter if your getting into other peoples busuinesses or not. if this wonam is really hurting her children you need to contact social services.hope i helped, jess


There is a semi-formal dance on December 2 at my school. Here are some possible outfits I might wear, which is the best???:

--Black silk assymetrical tanktop with black beads on the bust and straps, a black pinstripe blazer with red and white stripes, and a pair of dark green corduroys

--An awesome long tye-dyeish indie/boho skirt, and some cute top like the one above or a long sleeve princess-necked one with a halter underneath

--Nothing ;-) hehe just kidding

Which do you like the best, and don't say nothing... (link)
well...i like both...but i would choosed the balzer with the corduroys


Everyone tells me that glow in the dark tampons are a bad idea. Am I the only one that thinks I could make millions off of it? (link)
i dont think thats a good idea. and besides whos gonna see it? you could like get an infection maybe too


Im getting my hair dyed professionally and its going to cost me about $50. Assuming the hairdresser does a good job, how much should I tip? Thanks. (link)
i would say about 10-15 dollars


I want to lose weight but I can't seem to do so. I can have my mind set on anything except not eating so much food. Can someone please help me so that I can lose weight and gain muscle before the new year. (link)
you have to exercise alot. like run or lift weights or pushups or crunches. and you have to eat alot of fruits and vegatables and drink lots of milk and water


I'm 14/f. There's this guy that I really like. We're pretty good friends. I told him that I liked him a while ago, and I think he thinks I've moved on because I never show that I like him. My friend said that I should show it. I sort of want to, but I don't know how to do it without looking like a sap. How do you show that you like a guy besides telling him and/or flirting? (link)
write him notes and give him hugs and call him and just let him know that ur there and u havent moved on from him


My boyfriend just called me after he got back from hunting (we also talked at 5 AM this morning) and something was wrong so I asked him what it was and he said he had just had to shoot his dog. Because his dad ran over him with the truck (accidentally) and he had a broken back. You can tell my boyfriend is really upset, and I wanna say something to make him feel better if he's still appears upset about it later. He told me about it when he called then said he was going to go to bed (tired from hunting all morning.)

Any advice? I WILL RATE! (link)
just be there for him and talk when he needs to talk


ok so there is this guy in my class that i really want to get to know. I like him but i havnt really done anything to show it. Anyways, whenver we pass in the hall both of us look away really quickly. lol. i cant help it. he usually only says one word to me and thats bye, but he acts figgidy and stumbles on his words. its really cute! lol. I put this little note on his locker on valentines day last year from a secret admierer and i dont think he had any clue it was me. Anyways, we are both shy, but how can i know if he likes me? (link)
you have to talk to him more! try and get his number or give him yours and see if he has a screen name.


Is it normal to not be able to get over the guy you lost your virginity to? I lost mine to an asshole who completely used me as a bet and lied about how he was a virgin and "wanted to loose his virginity to me too" I can't get over him. It's making me depressed and I don't know if I'm overreacting or what? (link)
it is normal because the guys a total jerk! but dont worry, you will find someone special and forget about that jerk.


sorry its long

okay so for me homecoming is next weekend (i know kinda late) but this guy likes me...but i don't like him i like someone else...and the guy who likes me (lets call him bob) well bob asked me to homecoming, but i don't want to go with him i want to go with someone else so i told him that i would tell hiim by tommorow (which is today) so wht should i say??? i dont want to lie, but i dont want to go with him cause i was planning to ask the guy i like. so wht should i tell him (and wht if the guy i liked say no then i would be in a situation cause there are not very many people in my grade cause i go to a private school)

sorry if its kinda confusing

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ask your crush and if he says no then tell the guy who originally asked you yes.


does anyone know any stores to buy beanies? (hats) (link)
you could probably look online a find a store that sells them.


Okay, I'm 20, and I think I *MAY* be developing some feelings for a guy I know...I'm going to think on this very carefully, and if it turns out that I do like him...

How do I get his attention???

Thanks!

S (link)
anything and everthing, flirt get his number and give him yours invite him over for a movie or dinner or something. and see if he has a sn


my best friend and i are crushing on the same guy she loves him but dosent even like her and i told him i liked him and he might like me if he asks me out i badly want to say yes but at the same time i dont want to loose my best friend. what should i do? (link)
dont take him. friends are so much better than guys. one guy could ruin ur friendship forever.


A good friend of mine, of my entire school's, died. He was the Spanish teacher and the koolest teacher. He was more of a kid than most of us kids are. It's a middle school, so I mean, just the drama makes ppl upset, let alone someone close's death. I have been doing OK. But a good friend of mine (and an old crush of mine) has been hung up over it. She really loved the guy. I wish that I could help her. Normally, I'm really good with advice, but I just don't want to say something stupid this time. Any advice on giving advice? (I know it's weird but I really care about her as a friend and I hate to see her hurt). She's 14 and already has enough troubles with middle school drama.
-A dude who would appreciate help (link)
wow, im really really sorry. and give your friend my email just incase she wanted to talk. just be there for her. give her your shoulder to cry on when she needs too. always be there for her when she needs you.


There is this boy I have been going with for two months and his mom found a new house and is moving. When they move he will be tranferring to a new school. They keep setting these dates of when it's going to happen. Every time that date comes they don't move. When I found out he was moving I cried for two whole days. I really love him and don't want him to leave. Then he asked me if he actually does leave will we still be together. I really need some advice on if I should stay with him. (link)
stay with him. if u guys really love each other and really have a connection, ur relationship will be fine


Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate. (link)
less than 5 years is fine. 6-8 years is kinda ok. 9-... i dont think is right.


I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?

prettykitty77723 (link)
find out wh yyour friends hate your guy so much! he cant be that bad!


yesterday a boy came over that i really like. Ok so things got heated and we started kissing, makin out a lot.yeah. Then we got into my room and he fingered me. Now im afraid that maybe he doesn't like me or somethin or just doesn't have any feelings for me. He's not the kind of guy that would use a girl like me like that because I know him really well and he treats me differently than other girls (in a good way)but for some reason I'm still worried that he's just gonna forget about me and go with another girl or something. What can I do to maybe prevent this from happening??? thankss! (link)
just alwasy flirt talk get his phone number and make sure he wont forget you. if he comeover again kiss him.




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