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So In Love
There is this boy I have been going with for two months and his mom found a new house and is moving. When they move he will be tranferring to a new school. They keep setting these dates of when it's going to happen. Every time that date comes they don't move. When I found out he was moving I cried for two whole days. I really love him and don't want him to leave. Then he asked me if he actually does leave will we still be together. I really need some advice on if I should stay with him.
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you should prolly stay with him if you both have im you can talk to him thats what my best friend and her boyfriend are doing and its worked out fine but if you get wind of anything like hes going out with someone else dump him. :)
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well just call him and write him. or even talk to him online. then maybe you might even get to go visit him if he donjt live that far away on like the weekends. but if you know youll never see eachotha or talk then i think your gonna have to do of what you fear-brake up-which will of course be hard but stay togethor i think and in the end if it dont work then say your goodbyes. afterall youll never know what its like till you give it a try. hope i hellped buh bye &hearts terri!!! plz rate me high thanks!!!
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Gurl !! if you love him of course stay with him !! you guys wont see each other all the time but you can try weekends you !!
hope i helped !!
♥ Samra
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If you really love him, then why would you break up with him because he is a moving to a different house? There will be obstacles in a relationship, and if it's 'true' love, then it will definitely find a way. If you are questioning if you should split up because he isn't going to be living as close away, then yeah, it's not true love.
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ok if you actualy are in love you will be fine. but it is a,ot of work so be ready for it.
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stay with him. if u guys really love each other and really have a connection, ur relationship will be fine
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If you really love him and he really loves you the relation ship will work out just as well with just not as much seeing each other.but if you dont trust one another it wouldnt be such a great idea.so if you trust and love him 100% then your okay..and it's great you can stay with the one you love.
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well..a long-distane relationhip is really tough..and u need to trust each other 100% in order for this to work out..but i say..if you REALLY love him..and he REALLY loves you..then it`s ment to work out..it may be tought at first because it`s new..but if you guys at least maintain talking on the phone..AIM..and seeing each other once in a while..all should be well..bu it also counts for him..as much as you may love him an care for him..he may want to break up because he cant rely on a long-distance relationship..but you never know..just remember everything happens for a reason..
-christina
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If you guys loved each other, you would do whatever it takes to keep your relationship good. Try and see if it will be a problem. You guys could try and work this out. Just because he will be going to a new school doesn't mean you guys won't see each other and be able to talk and hang out. He will always like you no matter where he lives, and that's probablly how you feel about him too.
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it just all comes down to whether or not you think you two can work out the whole long distance thing. if you're fine with not seeing him all the time, then i say go ahead. otherwise, find a new man, because long distance can get tough.
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i think you should tell him maybe.. if you live in the same state theres a possibility you'll still see each other and be able to keep your relationship, if hes moving out of the state then theres no way and you should end it stay close friends! good luck!
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Yes, a long distance thing isn't that hard especially with IM and texting, etc. Also if he goes to a new school he'll need the support when he first gets there and someone to talk to. I know it will be different when he moves away, but it doesn't mean it will be worse and if you care as much about him as it seems you do, I'm sure it will work out. Good luck and keep me posted.
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well der
if you really love him nothing will come between you, heres part of a song i listen to when i think about love and stuff:
its called quick fade by feeder, ill quote a lil bit...
glide, glide over tides, waves that pull you, oceans divide us once and bring you home again, love will survive...........
and so on
its s0o0o0o0 cute lol
hope i helped xox ◊ ♥
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If you love him (which from what I know, you really do love him) then the answer is yes, you should still stay with him. There is nothing wrong with a long-distance-relationship. As long as there is trust in your relationship, you shouldn't worry about it. When he moves, you can still talk to him on the phone and computer (if he has one) . I don't think that you should leave him just because he's moving!! Stay with him. This test will make your relationship stronger!
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Long distance relationships can be difficult. I'm not going to tell you what to do, but I will advise that you talk openly to your boyfriend. Trust becomes the main thing rather than physical. You must trust that he won't do anything a boyfriend shouldn't do whilst you're seperated. Why don't they move on the date they say? Are you 100% that he is leaving? To sum up, talk to him, tell him how you're feeling and what thoughts are running through your mind.
Good luck!
x Steph x
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