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My name is Kate and I have brown hair and blue eyes Im 4'11" I have two white rats named Algernon and Dex pureo people call me a goth witch dosn't bug me so much but if you call me emo or secne you'd better run (jk)if you ask any stupid question Im not gonna answer it hello im not stupid and I know how to spell fairly well so don't send me some thing that looks basicly like this
"shjdhjkasjkljsdkioijdskfljdslkfjiowejfksndjdshgjsjgkhndsvjkfsha;ljkfgdsjhfjk" no one can read that. Yeah I take ballet and yes I do own two german sheperds and a pitbull who I trained my self thank you very much. lol yeah I know that wasn't realy funny but oh well.

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I am a dark, pessimistic, negative person. I feel totaly hopeless and that both the good and evil forces are against me. I try to be the positive, outgoing type, but that realy isnt me. Im realy pained inside with doubt and hiddin secrets. I have a crush on someone and today I was thinking about the girl, the way she acts when I flirt with her, the way she is so outgiong. Those happy, warming feelings turned cold. I have been doubtful about myself, I feel like I cant start a close relationship, not even a close friendship. Its more than that, but it would take forever to explain things. I feel weak and helpless. Can you help me?
--Caden--

Yeah Tried it dosn't work... It sucks... not being able to realy be outgoing feeling weak. im not exactly helping but I know how you feel
morbid

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i have a feeling that my husband is still fooling around with other girls what should i do to know and find it and to stop him

Leave him plain and simple he obviously dosen't love you if hes dating other people no matter what he says you should never give him another chance prove your rite and hes wrong and theres nothing he can do about it.
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There is this boy I have been going with for two months and his mom found a new house and is moving. When they move he will be tranferring to a new school. They keep setting these dates of when it's going to happen. Every time that date comes they don't move. When I found out he was moving I cried for two whole days. I really love him and don't want him to leave. Then he asked me if he actually does leave will we still be together. I really need some advice on if I should stay with him.

you should prolly stay with him if you both have im you can talk to him thats what my best friend and her boyfriend are doing and its worked out fine but if you get wind of anything like hes going out with someone else dump him. :)

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I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like?

Get her a stuffed animal or like a gift card for a shop she likes or lipgloss people like that for some reason
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I really like to act and the auditions for the school play are in december. I do a lot of acting outside of school. I have been acting ever since 1st grade. At the moment I am taking 2 theatre classes. But last year I didn't get into the school play. I was actually crying. I knew I could do it but I didn't. The problem is, I can't sing and the play is always a musical. When I act in front of people it's a peice of cake but when I sing I just can't do it. I really want to be in this play! Any advice? I'll rate a 5 if the advice is helpful.

Usualy in musicals thers a part that dose not involve singing but just sing and try your best and i doesn't mater if you can't sing bucause they look for personality and stage presence rather than the broadway singers so just be confadant. :)

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i am not sure what kind of litter to get for my new cat can somebody help me...

Try fresh step thats what i use.

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i have a really random question: as long as your overage, its not illegal to get drunk as long as you don't drive, right? lol i know its a really weird question but please answer thx!

its legal as long as you dont go out to like a public place and act crazy cause you'll get arrested for public intoxication

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theres this boy called Aaron i feel alot for him but he doesnt like me and hes going out with one of my best friends i dont no what to do because i want him to like me and i want him to be mine!
thankyou Natalie x

hummmm this is a tough one...
Try first to just hang out with him and your friend for a while and become his friend first and you never know he might just relise that he realy does like you and don't be afraid to tell him you like him if he starts giving signs that he likes you. :P
Hope i helped
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My dad has blood cancer and has been in the hospital for the past 6 months. His whole family is basically just waiting for him to die so they can get his money. None of them have even visited him in the hospital in the whole 6 months. Actually, his brother did--on his birthday. It's my mom's family that has been there for us and my dad. They don't want anything from my dad.


Everyone has been telling my mom to not even give them the chance at my dad's money if, god forbid, anything should happen to him. But we don't know if there is any legal way we can keep them from getting anything. Does anyone have any knowledge of this or any ideas?

IF your father has writen a will you should speak to his lawer to see how you can makeit so they don't get any money this is a very good idea because my grandmothers friend after she died her kids took everything and were getting pissed because there was nothing left so talk to his lawer she/he will know what to do
hope this helped
morbid
p.s. i hope your dad gets better :)

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My boyfriend just called me after he got back from hunting (we also talked at 5 AM this morning) and something was wrong so I asked him what it was and he said he had just had to shoot his dog. Because his dad ran over him with the truck (accidentally) and he had a broken back. You can tell my boyfriend is really upset, and I wanna say something to make him feel better if he's still appears upset about it later. He told me about it when he called then said he was going to go to bed (tired from hunting all morning.)

Any advice? I WILL RATE!

Just tell him your realy sorry about his dog and hug him it will probably make him feel better

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Does anyone know what can happen if you get too many MIPs (Minor In Possession)? I've gotten 2 in the past 3 months for alcohol.

umm it depends where you are but you'll prolly go to court after the fourth or fith time then if you don't win at court you'l probably go to a rehab place or juvie but idk thats just what i've read

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I'm sooooo pissed off at the world right now!!! I can't talk to anyone about anything! Nobody knows how I feel... or what I'm going through... Sorry if some of this doesn't make sense, I'm waaaaay too frusturated to think!!!

13/m I'm going through puberty, I know it. Nothing physical yet. I'm still short. My voice is still insanely soprano. I don't have any acne yet. No facial hair. But I'm feeling everything mental. I'm getting smarter, I must be since I've been suddenly getting better at chess. And I'm experiencing every one of these what I like to call "true emotions": from love to infatuation, from rejection to jealousy, I'm feeling it all. I can't even remember everything else, I'm so distraught!

Now, if I had someone to talk with, things might be better. But my friends are only going through physical and not emotional/mental so far, except for those two guys who're obsessed with "is she hot?" right now. So many Advicenators are so obsessed with all that 13-year-olds-can't-love crap that their advice winds up getting me more depressed than it does help me. My parents figure that if I haven't physically changed, I couldn't possibly be mentally changing, and so they just tease me about it. I tried keeping a journal, but I'm not good at that stuff. And I'm way too busy to see a therapist or something.

I'm soooooo pissed off at the world, my life sucks. I shouldn't even bother living or making my regular jokes anymore. I'm nothing anymore... please help me!!!

~~Dakmor

PS Smartasses will be reported!!!

It realy does suck when no one understands what your going through but your friends might have more suttle changes instead of everything all at once so don't think your nothing no ones nothing im sure you'l find someone going through the same thing too i know I did but things even out after a while so don't stress it just makes things worse
hope i helped
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ok sorry its long but... i have a lot of problems and i dont know whats wrong with me. there are just so many things...here are just a few:
1-i cut myself...like really deep to the point where i pass out and wake up with blood all over

2-i pull the ends of my hair on urdge

3-i feel tension and stress about everything bad

4-i over analyze EVERYTHING makeing it scary and bad

5-i think about suicide all the time

6-my mood can change in an instant-one minute ill be all happy and something will happen or someone will say something and ill go all depressed

7-i burn myself on occasion

8-i find it really hard to express my feelings and what imthinking b/c ik that noone will understand...they will try but they just dont get what im going through unless they r goin through it too

9-i am always tired all the time b/c i dont sleep much...i havent in like a week

10-i have lost a lot of weight b/c i refuse to eat and when some one makes me eat i throw it back up

11-at times i will find my self sitting in my room and all of a sudden i will just like start crying and i will cry for hours

12-for the past year i have been trying so hard to make it sound like i am happy and im so good to the point where my parents think that i am a "happy delightful young lady who is fun to be around"



you see? there are so many things wrong with me and like i have tried sooo many different ways to cope with the stress in my life but like nothing that i have tried works! its just realy hard and idk what to do.


ill rate high for good answers...nothing cocky plz


♥ rrenef ♥

wow you sound like me...
i understand what your going through and how annoying it is to talk to people and have no one understand what your saying and it realy sucks that you can't stop doing things like not eating or cutting your self but theres realy nothing but therepy which i myself don't like one bit because i can't talk while im there i get freaked but you never know everyones different try writing aboutit thats what makes me feel better sorry i couldn't be of more help but im trying to figure this out myself
signed
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Okay, so I'm dreading next week. Its the 5th anniversary of my dad's death. And for this last month it seems like everything i look at or touch reminds me of him and i just break down crying...but its been five years i mean im almost 18 i shouldnt be acting like im 5, right? I have the support of my boyfriend, but my family isn't here to support me, they dont and havent liked me since the day my dad passed away. I'm not thinking about hurting myself in anyways...its just that my heart hurts terribly...is this normal?

of course its normal to miss your dad no matter what age you are you may just be thinking about him more now because mabey you've been bored latley or mabey all the sadness has cought up with you and you feel as if you don't have anyone to lean on but don't worry this is completly normal if you don't all ready keep a journal or something like that you could write about your dad or just do something fun to keep your mind off him for a while this may seem rude at first but your dad would have wanted you to go and have fun not be sad
Hope i helped
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I need a topic for a science project ASAP(as in tomorrow). If you guys have any ideas, please, please help!! I have to have a question in this format:
How does ____ effect ____?
an example the teacher gave us is:
how does wingspan effect the flight distance of a paper airplane?

thanks a ton!

How does Amount of wind effect the heart rate
i seriously want to know so if you find out tell me

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Okay i need the answer to this riddle please!!

You are stuck in a room with no windows or doors. a solid room. Only things in this room is a mirror and a table. how do you escape?

It really got me thinking and i can't seem to find out the answer. If i think you got it right then i`ll give you a 5. but if you try i`ll give you a 5 also!! =D thank you

how the hell did you get in a room if it dosn't have any windows or doors but you look in the mirror see what you saw pick up the saw cut the tabel in half the two halvs make a hole and you climb through the hole im not sure where the hole gets you cause its a tabel and how a saw can come from seeing .... O GOD IM CONFUZZLed

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Okay, I have this REALLY good riddle that 80% of kindergarteners got compared to 17% of senior COLLEGE students... I know the answer, too!!
(And they all have the same answer)

What is greater than God?
More evil than the devil?
The rich need it
The poor have it
And if you eat it, you'll die!!


Answer me, or guess, and I'll post the answer on your feedback!

Nothing
I luv that one

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ok i love fire and i love watching it ........ well today i almst burn down my house because i lit something on fire that i couldnt put out....... how do i stop this!!!!! is there anything i can do to stop mself from playing with fire!??!

Im like that to I almost burned down my neighbors house theres realy nothing you can do but people sugest therepy (by pyro gel that stuff works wonders on clothes) its kinda diffucult to find though its the safest

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I met this guy through work.. He's actually my bosses son. Im 14,female hes like 16,male. im in grade 9, hes in 11. the other day we started to flirt with each other and he gave me his email. he also called me hot on numerous accounts. would this be wrong if we actually got together? do yuou think the actually likes me? rate 5's please help

It wouldnt be wrong for you to get together as long as it dosen't interfere with your job because he's only two years older than you and thats not alot it sounds like he realy likes you but you should get to know him better and see who he realy is. Just follow your heart it 'll tellyou if he likes you or not but you never know unless you try
Hope I helped
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i am about to go to this really important dinner but i have no idea how to use all those forks and spoons and stuff...which one do i use for each course? help me i rate high!

start on the outside fork and work your way twards your plate and the fork above the plate is for desert

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