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i have a feeling that my husband is still fooling around with other girls what should i do to know and find it and to stop him
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I'm so sorry this is happening you to =/ Really sucks. But..even though he "promised" to you that he'd never do it again, he probably still is. He shouldn't even have to promise you won't date other girls. He promised that to you the day he said " I do " and obviously he's not living up to that promise. If I were you I'd leave him. If not leave him, then try taking some time apart and let him ( and you ) see some other people. See if you two really are commited enough to be together and see if he still wants to be with you and if he does he needs to stop dating other girls. As much as it hurts, it seems to me like he doesn't love you in return otherwise he wouldn't be dating other girls and you shouldn't stay with someone like that. =/
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Leave him plain and simple he obviously dosen't love you if hes dating other people no matter what he says you should never give him another chance prove your rite and hes wrong and theres nothing he can do about it.
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I think that being w/ any guy that is cheating on you and is low enough to try and ask for forgiveness is not worth going for. Didn't Sienna Miller have this exact same problem recently? Well I remember thinking to myself that she should break up w/ Jude Law. Which is what I think you should do: divorce. I know that it is very weird for you to do this, but if your husband is cheating on you, it's the way to go.
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go confront him and tell him what you think. Also i would break up with him just to see what he does about it. If he wants you back that means he really love you
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Wow i`m extremly sorry to hear this.. I mean i`d just probably my distance a little bit from him and see if he tries to have sexual things with you and if he doesn`t then i would think he`s gettin it somewhere else.. If you ever find out and confront him about it then i`d file for divorce if thats an option.. i know divorce can be expensive my mom has gone through it.. I believe people should try their hardest to make a marriage work and thats why i think givin him one more chance is something to do but if that doesn`t work know in your heart you tried and it just isn`t your fault.. ♥ Dez
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If you find him with someone else then confront him again and if he denies it then dump him
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this is a tough one but Im sure I can be willing to help. If you still feel uncomfertable and you feel that he was dating other girls than gather evidence because if you dump him you have no evidence and plus your not 100/00 sure that he is dating other girls. If you have a cell phone bill or telephone bill read the following calls and see if any unsual numbers appear then try to call them if there lots of women and no male then difinately I say this is a cheater your husband is. I know its tough because you want to be with him but he's not a great guy if he cheats on you, dating other women, not letting you know. But if there are no unsual numbers you could always try and follow him when he says he's going out for a lttile while follow him I know that sounds silly but I can't think of any other way to see that hes cheating on you.
But you could always ask him if he's still dating other girls who knows maybe you'll get lucky and he'll tell you the truth.
Let me know how it goes, Jessica
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If He has a Cell Phone you could get a print out like have a guy sibbling to get it. Get one of his bills and use it for refrence!- Thats What My Mom Did!
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Oh boy, this is a tough one. People are going to tell you to dump him or gather clues and confront him... But being married is more than just those things, and I'm so sorry this stuff is happening and you must not feel so great about it. Would you be adverse to going to couples counseling together? He may be against it because he may be forced to admit things you don't want to hear, but tell him this: That you think you are having some problems in the marriage that you want to work out, and that some of the things may hurt to hear but you are willing to work through them if he is...
However, if the damage is done and you want out, by all means, kick him out or move out on your own and get a good lawyer.
Good luck and keep me posted.
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