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ex bf and bf
My ex and I broke up a little while ago. It was my decision. It was mostly because he lives a while away and I only get to see him on weekends. Well a fiew days ago this kid asked me out.. it was really un expected and I didnt know what to say so I just said yes. I like my boyfriend right now and it feels good to have someone hold me every day, but i feel like my ex is THE one for me. And I think I love him. Id feel bad if i broke up with my bf for my ex cause he just asked me out and it would be really weird cause he is in my class... what should I do?
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Well you got to be honest with him. Just explain to him that you still have feelings for your ex and you apologize and would like to remain friends if he wants. I mean even thouhg it might be weird in class.. even if you two were to break up in later relationship, it'd still be just as weird, so might as well do it now. And anyways, you don't want to be with him clearly and that's not being fair to him anyways.And I'd try and start talking to your boyfriend again. Even though he lives far away you could still make it work. Me and my boyfriend have a long-distance relationship but I love him so much and we try and work it out. We talk onthe phone or internet every single day and it's just worth it, and whenever you two see eachother one the weekends, you can make up for all teh time you DIDN'T see eachother. It'll all be worth it. You'll see. =] I hope I helped.
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MELii
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simply follow your heart, if you truly feel that he is the one for you, break up with your b/f now and get 2gther with ur x again, because over time your realationship with him is sliping away hope i could help!!
Jasmine,
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Tell your current boyfriend everything. Let him know exactly how you feel, why you broke up with your ex, everything. This way he won't be getting any wrong ideas from you and won't be completely shocked if you break up with him "for no reason". If he's a good bf he'll talk to you about it and be very understanding. Give him a month or so and if you still feel that way, it's silly to stay in a relationship with him. Good luck!
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Well I think you should break up with your boyfriend. You dont want to be going out with someone you dont like. Just talk to you boyfriend and be like not to be mean but I dont really want to go out with you, I just said yes because it was totally unexspected. Be like i think I like someone else sorry and ask if you can still be friends and stuff.
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You need to follow your heart. if your questioning that your boyfriend now is not the one and your ex is maybe your right. Just try and see who makes you happier. Also if you would live for the weekends to go and see your ex, i think you should be with him.
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Well, it's better to feel "weird" then to be faking something when all along your not really feeling it. Don't leave the on you LOVE for the one you LIKE because the one you LIKE will leave you for the one they LOVE. In other words, if you love the guy your with, stay with him. Since that doesn't seem to be the case follow your heart because it's not fair to your current boyfriend to be pretending hes the one when all along your really not feeling that way.
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I know how that feels.. I think you should go back to your ex if you think he is the one for you... let him know you miss him n still love him before its too late.. I hope I helped.
Allieboo<3
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I think that you should go out with this guy for just one more week and make sure you really wanna break up with him and if you do then breka up with him. It isn't fair to go out with someone if you don't like them back. Tell him you just want to be friends or that you don't LOVE him but you really like, bu tnot in that way. If he really like syou he will understand. Then you need to explain to your ex why you broke up with him in the first place and then tell him that you love him and you made a bad choice and yo umiss him and you want him back and see what happens. Don't give up:)
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