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Well I'm a 16 year old girl.
Ok. To be blunt, ever since I was about 6 I have been praying that my parents or someone would abuse me or give me a reason to run away and never come back. I am trying to end this cycle but nothing has helped so far. I guess ever since I was little I never felt good enough for someone to love me. When I was younger I was always causing trouble in order for them to get sick of me and tell me what I already believed was true. Is there something I can do to end this cycle?
You need to realize that people are going to love you in your life and your going to have to let them love you. running away is not the answer. because your parents probably really care for you or you would of been gone. You should be highly thankful that you have parents that love you. I no a kid that reciently commited suicide because he would come home to a mom who hated him. You need to look around and see how lucky you are.
My dad has a girlfriend and I don't like her she's tells him what I do and then I get introuble she also treats me like a 3 year old what do I do and my dad is planning to marry her and he's already purposed and that was like in two months that he's been dating her
Talk to your dad tell her how you feel and that hes rushing things. if he doesnt listen to you talk to his girl friend so you guys can settle your differences. if none of this works treat the girl like shit if she really loves your dad and you she wont leave and shell try to change if not, she will leave.
k well my best friend krystal is always telling secrets about me to my other best friend ari(arianna) and well it dusnt exactly make me feel good:( but their always doing it!!!! especially at lunch. and wenever im around k(krystal) i feel down because of things like that. and not too long ago a(ari) called my house n said that k did not come to her house yet which i new was a lie cuz i knew she was going to her house and then i said hold on then i put the phone on mute and i heard them whispiring so i told her i had to go anyways she was acting all wierd so i knew k was over. and they just dont understand how i feel. and i also heard her dad say "hey girls!" in the background and a dusnt hav a sister. and they just really put me down especially k.
please please help me thnz guyys
sincerely,
sad gurlly
Okay so iv had a problem like this before to. You should really just talk to your friends. You might have done something wrong without knowing it. If she doesnt tell you what you did or why she is saying stuff about you maybe you just need to get new friends. thats what i did and i feel great because my old friend turned alot of people against me. i say just talk to her tho. try and work things out.
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There is this guy who's in a lot of my classes. He's nice, intelligent, athletic, hot....heh. Anyways, I like him and he sorta seems to like me but hey, I guess he could just be messing with my mind.
We used to flirt in our classes but this one time in Gym class I walked passed him and he's all,"Don't touch me," because he has curly hair and I pull on it as he walks by, and I responded with,"Why would I want to?" So now he doesn't flirt with me anymore. He looks at me and stuff like that, but it's not the same.
I don't want to ask him out, because I am too scared of him being all, "ew." I want a way to be discreet about showing him that I am interested, so he might get the message, but not too out there so he doesn't get disgusted. I DON'T want people telling me that I should just ask him out, because people who say that probably don't remember how scary it is/are more brave then I.
Sorry it's so long. Thanks in advance!! I rate well.
Okay so that sounds like a kid i no. By him saying dont touch me may of been a way of him flirting or maybe you accidently did something to make him upset. depending on the way he did it. Mayb you can get his screen name and just talk to him and ask him who he likes or tell him you like him. You dont want to spend your life wishing you would have said something so i mean its worth a chance especially if hed flirt back with you.
My gramma passed away a week ago. As a grandkid, i recieve 2000 dollars. I hafta put most of it in the bank, cus my parents are making me. The rest of it, which is probly about 300 dollars, in mine to have. Any ideas on how to spend it? Im a girl, but it doesnt make a difference cus i dont like makeup and brand name clothes and stuff. Any ideas are helpful
As the others i am also sorry about your grandma.
To spend your money just think of things you really enjoy doing or something you really waant. Like if you like music you can get and ipod etc.
But you dont have to spend the money all right away mayb just go shopping one day and just look around or look in magazines and online of things that you might like.
hope i helped
Meg
My ex and I broke up a little while ago. It was my decision. It was mostly because he lives a while away and I only get to see him on weekends. Well a fiew days ago this kid asked me out.. it was really un expected and I didnt know what to say so I just said yes. I like my boyfriend right now and it feels good to have someone hold me every day, but i feel like my ex is THE one for me. And I think I love him. Id feel bad if i broke up with my bf for my ex cause he just asked me out and it would be really weird cause he is in my class... what should I do?
You need to follow your heart. if your questioning that your boyfriend now is not the one and your ex is maybe your right. Just try and see who makes you happier. Also if you would live for the weekends to go and see your ex, i think you should be with him.
Well I'm 16 and female.
Well I know that it is somewhat expected that siblings will be jealous of each other but how long is it supposed to last? I have a sister who is slightly less than 2 years younger than me and I have been jealous of her ever since she could walk. She is always the pretty one, the athletic one, the funny one, the outgoing one. She even got a boyfriend before I did. My sister and I are basically complete opposites and we don't get along. I've always thought she was perfect and I was nothing. She always gets asked to dance at school dances while I sit in the corner and cry. Maybe I'm just a bit too emotional. My mom says that in many ways I'm better than my lil sister but I don't believe it. Is there any way for me to stop being jealous of my sister?
Wow okay I no what your going through in a way. I had worked myself to make the cheerleading squad for 2 years and i never did and then my sister made it the first time she tried out. The thing is i had no confidence in myself. Im shure your a beautiful girl if not on the outside on the inside. Maybe what you need is some confidence just try finding sumthing that you are good at and it will really help you. For the whole pretty part you can always try adding a lil make up or doing something with your hair if you already dont. Just remember everyone is good at something and everyone is different; thats what makes people special.