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eh.....
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There is this guy who's in a lot of my classes. He's nice, intelligent, athletic, hot....heh. Anyways, I like him and he sorta seems to like me but hey, I guess he could just be messing with my mind.
We used to flirt in our classes but this one time in Gym class I walked passed him and he's all,"Don't touch me," because he has curly hair and I pull on it as he walks by, and I responded with,"Why would I want to?" So now he doesn't flirt with me anymore. He looks at me and stuff like that, but it's not the same.
I don't want to ask him out, because I am too scared of him being all, "ew." I want a way to be discreet about showing him that I am interested, so he might get the message, but not too out there so he doesn't get disgusted. I DON'T want people telling me that I should just ask him out, because people who say that probably don't remember how scary it is/are more brave then I.
Sorry it's so long. Thanks in advance!! I rate well.
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Okay so that sounds like a kid i no. By him saying dont touch me may of been a way of him flirting or maybe you accidently did something to make him upset. depending on the way he did it. Mayb you can get his screen name and just talk to him and ask him who he likes or tell him you like him. You dont want to spend your life wishing you would have said something so i mean its worth a chance especially if hed flirt back with you.
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i'm always telling girls that it's not wrong to ask a guy out, but if you're uncomfortable, don't do it. follow your heart. give this guy some space. there are guys that you may think like you, but then it turns out that they don't, so try to be good friends with him before you make your move. i really hope it helped. ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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I think you're getting the wrong message. You were probably flirting with him, and you mistook his reaction to flirting back. Then you pull his hair, and he goes "Don't touch me." First off, curly-haired guys hate it when you pull their hair. From my analysis of your question, it sounds like his heart is saying no. If you want to ask him out and you're worried that he'll get disgusted, then you shouldn't ask him. It's pretty clear that he doesn't like you. Trust me, from personal experience, there's [almost] nothing more embarassing than having your crush be grossed out at you. It seems like you have only two options; give up on him, or hang out with him, get to know him some more, and hope that he'll eventually like you back. If you decide to choose #2, I highly recimmend that you wait on it for about two months or so, because right now it's completely fresh in his mind that you were flirting with him. After a while, the image will fade a little and he'll be able to overlook it.
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OK well...
i have been on the other side of the situation, the funny part is i have curly hair, and this girl kept pulling on my hair, but even though i had asked her to stop she kept doing it... so it pissed me off hah even though i didnt "like" her i wasnt trying to be mean... so he's probably just wanting some space
neways, chances are, he still likes u, just give him a couple days, and after that start flirting again
Hope I helped
-Connor
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i didnt take the time to read the whole thing, because i already know the story. im thinking what would help you is a bit of cocoa frogs on a cold summer day. lol just kidding... im actually gonna read this and then answer it, just as id answer any other question, and try to forget that the question is actually about rob. ewww. you should have titled it "ew....." not "eh....." so anyways.. here comes my honest advice...
(ANYONE WHO READ THIS, MY BEST FRIEND ASKED THIS QUESTION AND I KNOW ITS HER, SO IM NOT BEING RUDE TO SOME POOR INNOCENT PERSON)
i think you should just keep talking to him and flirting with him. (ignoring the fact that ill have to watch during periods 4 and 5 on every day except for thursday)maybe he does like you, and maybe he doesnt. maybe he thought you were ultimately disguested with him, when you said "why would i want to"... (even though you know you really want to)im almost sure this answer is good enough for a 5 now. and if it isnt... one of yours wont be either. good luck stranger.
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He probablly thinks that you're not interested in him. You need to talk to him and start flirting first. I bet he had a bad day, so he came off kind of rude. Just talk to him and ask him what's going on. I don't think it's anything personal though. Flirt with him and see what happenes. You don't have to ask him out and I know how it is to. I never asked a guy, but if I put myself in your shoes, I'd be pretty scared too.
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