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k i like this guy lets call him D and he is black i am white and my parents are totaly against that! i havent told them yt but i really like D so i am confussed about what to do!!! i think he likes me too but its kinda iffy!!! i wanna date him but i dont want to be disowned by my family. and i know they will disowen me because the had told me before if i had ever dated one then they would ! so what should i do!!!
Thanks!
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You should talk to your parents. ask them if it's okay if you guys hang out. you should get to know this guy like your brother before you decide if you like him. hang out with him and become really great friends before you choose. remember to consult your parents first. ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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Well I have a problem! I have a friend and i found out she likes me but i dont really like her as more then a friend, I mean shes fine but i dont know. So a while back she told me that she liked me and i told her i liked her too, but just so i wont hurt her feelins, and now she always drops hints that she likes me and tells me i got a big ass, but i dont like her as more than a friend but i dont wanna hurt her feelings PLEASE tell me what to do!!!
Signed , Confused Kid
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talk to her and tell her what you think. if you can't get face to face with her, then write her a letter. don't dodge her or anything or she'll figure out something is up. just be nice. hope it helps. ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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is it ok if i dont know why i like the guy i like? i mean ok i know i like him but i dont have a clue why hes not hott and yea i guess hes kinda cute hes just average boring guy not really boring but you know what i mean just kinda there and i like him and i dont have a clue why i do! any ideas why i may like him and is it bad that i dont have a clue why i do? thankx (link)
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you might like him because he is an awesome person, friend, guy. you know that stuff. hope it helps! ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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Which of these boys should I ask to my winter formal? I go to an all girls school, so for the winter formal, all the girls have to ask the guys. Vote who you think I should ask:
guy 1: Pretty much my best guyfriend. Hang out with often. Am comfortable with. Nice, friendly, social, and a bit geeky. He's a dork. Mama's boy. Boy next door. Not a great dancer. Haha. Currently has a crush on me that I just found out about from my friend.
guy 2: Older than me by two grades. Friendly, but speaks really quietly. Has recently asked me out to see a show with him but I couldn't go. A bit boring to talk to on the phone. Sweet and laid back. Can actually dance. Never hang out with him in person.
guy 3: My personal crush. Asked him to formal last year and got turned down b/c he didn't know me that well. He now knows me better this year. Funniest guy I know. Always makes me laugh. Sweet and friendly and social. A nerd. But still social and outgoing. My friend thinks he has a crush on me because of the attention he gives me when I'm around. But I don't think so. He doesn't really like to dance. Smart. There's another girl who really likes him. I want to choke her. Well. Not really. Okay, yeah I do.
So give me feedback! WHICH ONE? (link)
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no question about it, guy # 3. if you really like him and you know each other alot better this year, go for it. if you get turned down, go for guy # 1, then guy # 2. # 2 doesn't seem like you like him that much. if he's boring to talk to and you don't hang out with him often, i would say no. guy one is my second because if you ask him out it mite ruin your relationship with him as a friend. guy 3 sounds like the best. hope it helps. ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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Okay heres the deal. I met this girl at school, and she is in 11th grade. I'm in 9th. Anyways Shes really nice and we talked and stuff, eventually she decided to call me her 'brother'. And well the other night I went to a concert with her.. and well I realized that I like her.. and i don't know what to do because If i ask her out or something she might think i'm weird because were 'siblings'. also, she will graduate after next year.. If we do get into a relationship will it even work? And i'm afraid that if we to end up going out and something happens between us. I might lose one of my best friends. (link)
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don't do it. just be friends. don't lose her. you're too young (in my opinion) hope i help! ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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Well my neighbor who is like my best friend is throwin' hints that he likes me or whateva, but he won't come out and say it. When I ask him questions to kinda "trap" him into tellin' me he always comes out with something for us either to start arguing or to get off the phone. How can I get him to tell me how he really feel? (link)
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don't push him. i don't think he's ready to tell you, so don't make him. give him time to decide if he really likes you, and for the time being, just hang out with him. if you can't get him to tell you then just be great friends. hope it helped! ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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I broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years a few weeks ago for my own reasons that I'm not getting into - just know it was for both of us, not just me, that I did it.
It was a bit of a conversation, but one thing I did ask was that he not forget about me and consider me a friend. Since then, he's attempted contact (via AIM) a couple times, and each time it's ended with me in tears and him saying he doesn't think he can handle talking to me just yet.
The thing is, I don't miss him. I'm happy single right now. This is what I need and I'm glad I did it. I feel bad because I know I hurt him, yet he agreed with my reasoning and seemed to think I was right.
Was it wrong of me asking him to keep our friendship? If I don't miss him, why do I always end up crying?
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just give him time, and give yourself time. you'll be able to talk soon, and it's okay that you want to be friends. you may not miss him, but you cry because it makes you feel bad that he misses you. don't feel bad because you did what was right. hope it helps. ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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ok i really like this guy and he always is being sweet and stuff and always asks to play the question game so he can ask me questions and i have to answer them too and he tells me i am so gorgeous and he is just ginuinly the nicest guy i have ever met and hes cute... and i know hes not just using me for sex and stuff because he believes in abstinance but eh only catch to him is that he has a girl friend but he like asks me questions that you dotn ask a girl you dotn really ike and stuff and so i play along is that wrong... and should i wait for them to break up... pleas help if youcan
love lacy
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you should ask him if he really likes you. don't be shy. be outgoing and brave. it's good that this guy believes in abstenance, because then you won't be obbsessed with kissing and stuff. just be yourself when you're around him. and if he likes you he'll break up with his girlfriend. don't be really mean to her because then he might not like you as much. hope i helped! ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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im 14f there is this guy i like i have know since i was a baby but we never really talked but now i talk to him like everyday online but when ever i see him in person he is like shy or something to talk iuno if thats true or wateva because my friend told me that she thinks that he likes me?? i really like him what should i do to get him to talk to me in person or to do something to try to move this faster? (link)
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try to talk with him more. get to know him better. become a really great friend with him before you decide if you really like him. i hope it helps! ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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13/f
There is this guy who's in a lot of my classes. He's nice, intelligent, athletic, hot....heh. Anyways, I like him and he sorta seems to like me but hey, I guess he could just be messing with my mind.
We used to flirt in our classes but this one time in Gym class I walked passed him and he's all,"Don't touch me," because he has curly hair and I pull on it as he walks by, and I responded with,"Why would I want to?" So now he doesn't flirt with me anymore. He looks at me and stuff like that, but it's not the same.
I don't want to ask him out, because I am too scared of him being all, "ew." I want a way to be discreet about showing him that I am interested, so he might get the message, but not too out there so he doesn't get disgusted. I DON'T want people telling me that I should just ask him out, because people who say that probably don't remember how scary it is/are more brave then I.
Sorry it's so long. Thanks in advance!! I rate well.
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i'm always telling girls that it's not wrong to ask a guy out, but if you're uncomfortable, don't do it. follow your heart. give this guy some space. there are guys that you may think like you, but then it turns out that they don't, so try to be good friends with him before you make your move. i really hope it helped. ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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okay,well..this summer i got really..hard nipples and if you poke them they hurt.They pop out,there like darts! i havent had my period and no boobs yet so why are they popped out like that? 13/f does this mean when i get my period i will get boobs fast or something? pleasse help! rate 5s (link)
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some of the other things that people say may not be true. it's just the way your body is developing. everyone goes through puberty at different times. getting your period doesn't mean that your boobs will grow fast, it just means that you're maturing into an adult. everyone grows at different times, so your body will develope when it is ready. hope it helps. ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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hey im having a christmas party in december, and were gonna do a gift exchange. each person is bringing one present, and will give it to another person. the problem is, a want a creative, fun way to have people choose which present they get, like a game. got any ideas?
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this is so weird. i am having a party,too and i want to have a gift exchange! i really want a creative way to do it, so i asked my mom. she told me that as everyone walks in, give their present a number. (a piece of tape on the paper is fine) then, when everyone is ready, put a bunch of numbers in a hat and mix them up. let everyone pick a number and number one goes first and they get present number one. (and so on and so on) hope it helped! ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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My hamster died.:( I had him for like 2 years. Thats not the point though. I was thinking about gettting another animal but I dont know what. Cats,dogs,rabbits and any reptiles are just not going to work...should I just get another hamster but that seems like I am just replacing it. Got any suggestions?I love ferrets but I don't have the money for them.
I rate 5!!!!
Thanks
ps this isn't Britt but she knows I am using it.
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i am so sorry to hear about your hampster. if you got a new hampster it wouldn't be replacing the other one. it's respecting it. look at it as if the old hampster was so great that you wanted a new one that it was great. if you really wanted a ferret just keep on saving and don't buy too many other things. I hope i helped! ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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Okay.
I just broke up with my boyfriend four days ago because I didn't have feelings for him anymore. The thing is, I now have feeling for my other ex. We went out for two months and he broke up with me because he cheated. (He didn't want me to break up with him first) Well, he's kind of a player and also likes three other girls but he tells me all the time he likes me the most. I seriously don't know what to do. I know he's changed because when he cheated on me the whole school wanted to beat him up (I'm well-liked, I guess) and we're friends so I don't think he'd do that again. (link)
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usuallly i would say to try to get back with him, but since he's cheated on you before, what makes you think he won't do it again? Love is hard and you probably won't like this advice, but it's the best i can give. just stay friends for now. ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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okay i like this guy well i dont know if i like him cuz we dont really talk but i wanna get to know him but i cant cuz we never talk hes online all the time but im too scared to IM him becuase we never have anything to talk about its so wired its just always quite and i hate it and keeping the convo. going isnt my only promblem how do i IM him first? if someone can answer both of thoes qustions that would be great thanks!!
ill rate 5's!
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To IM him, all you have to do is get his scn. then send him a message. it really isn't that hard. I don't really understand your other question. sorry! ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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Hey guys,
I'm 15/f, and I really like this kid and he's 14. The only problem is that he lives in a different state! It pisses me off, because I like him so much and he already knows that because I've told him many times. He also has told me he likes me a lot. He wants to come and visit me sometime with his mom. I also talk to his mom, and she's very sweet. I've been talking to her son for a year now. I like him so much, and it's driving me crazy. I wanted to know if anyone here has ever really liked someone in another state, and has become really close with them. I really wish this kid could move here, and he always says how he wants to move here. I also wanna know if anyone has liked someone a whole not in another state, or even just far from them, and eventually the person moved closer to them, or in the same state? I know this is a stupid question, but I really like this kid. He is the sweetest kid I have ever talked to, and he has the nicest mom ever. Do you think there would ever be a chance for him to move here anytime soon, or when he gets older, or am I just being stupid? Someone please help me out! I'm going crazy here. We talk to each other everyday. I've never liked anyone this much. We have sent pictures to each other, and he's got the best personality. If anyone can, please help me out! I'd really appreciate it. Thank you so much! :-( Please don't say I'm stupid or anything, and don't tell me to get over him cuz that won't happen anytime soon. (link)
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i'm not gonna tell you to get over him because if you were me you'd still like him after you were married! (not that i am) you're just going to have to be patient. he probably can't just tell his parents that they're going to move, so just send sweet letters back and forth to each other. i've not had this problem before, but everyone has a guy that they really like, but can't spend enough time with. I really hope this helped. ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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There is this super hot guy and hes just the perfect guy except he's stuck up, kinda. So, when i walked passed him i said hi to him and he just looked at me weird and walked away.The next day I was with my friends being crazy and i said stupid random things and he thinks im really weird. I really want to be his friend or at least make him think im not weird.What do i do? thanks&hearts
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i've had the same problem. there is this guy that i really like, and when my friend told him, he said i was annoying. what i learned out of it all was not to change for a guy, but just be yourself. now me and this guy are really good friends (and on our way to even better) so i hope this helps. ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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My best friend (A) might or at least I think is flirting with my Ex who I am still in love with. She knows I like him and she has a boyfriend that she likes to. But what got me mad was when I saw them play fighting. So I got mad and left and I 'sorta' got over it today until I saw her around him again play fighting and acting stupid. It broke my heart and I almost cried cause I he might like her!! What can I say to her. Thanks All 5's SWEAR! (link)
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chances are your Ex still likes you so don't completely crash. don't get mad at your friend either, because she obviously likes him to. This probably isn't that great if she already has a b/f though. just try to be nice to both your friend and you ex, and might just win his heart back. you're welcome ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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