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so i like this boy who's kind of my friend. everytime i see him, i freeze up and i can't even say hi. i really don't know what to do. i guess he thinks of me as a friend. i always get really nervous around him

obviously you dont see him the same way you think he sees you.. you obviously like him.. dont u? if thats the case.. start talking to him.. or just smile at him..
a smile worths more than a thousand words.. and maybe he'll come and talk to you.. if not.. she'll think you're very sweet.. because of that smile.. so.. how can you lose?

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can anyone tell me what the appropriate amount of time would be until i should start dating again? there's this guy i really like.. but me and my bf just broke up today and we'd been going out since october 30, 05. please help! how long should i wait?

there isnt really like "a certain amount of time" its like.. you should start whenever you feel ready.. but not right away after a break up.. its really sensate to wait unless a month.. but if you think you're ready before.. or that you really really like this guy.. and he is really worth it.. go ahead whenever you want

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yeah okay. so i went out with this guy and he dumped me and he was but anyway i was really upset about it. and now he likes me again and i like him soo much and i loved what we had but like my best friend hates him and thinks that he a complete @$$! and like she's always like oh please dont go back out with him please dont. i mean what do i do? do i go out with him? oh and another thing lol um its like i really wanna be with him again, but then again i dont wanna go back to my past, but theres no one else out there and i really like him. lol sorry if its confusing and long but i really need the help

wow.. that is.. interesting.. i think you should listen to your friend.. i mean.. she is your BEST FRIEND.. who knows you better than she does?? besides.. she just wants the best for you, she dosnt want nothing bad happens to you.. and, if this random guy dumped you once.. who tells you that he wont do it again, and youll get hurt, the same way you did before, but if you really feel that hes being honest, and that he has changed, and that he deserves a second chance.. go for it! you should ALWAYS ALWAYS listen to your heart first than other people..

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There is this guy that I know, and I've been trying to get to know him for a while, but he's unreadable.
He will only talk to me when everyone is around, and even then, he's indirect about it. He'll never actually start up a conversation with -ME-

When I try to talk with him alone, he'll end it promptly.

What can I do to get this guy to open up? I don't know what his deal is, if he likes me, or hates me, or what.

you should start showing him what are you like.. whenever you with "everyone else" show him the great person that you are, so when he gets to know u better.. he'll want to talk to you, even if you're alone..

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