Question Posted Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:35 pm
yeah okay. so i went out with this guy and he dumped me and he was but anyway i was really upset about it. and now he likes me again and i like him soo much and i loved what we had but like my best friend hates him and thinks that he a complete @$$! and like she's always like oh please dont go back out with him please dont. i mean what do i do? do i go out with him? oh and another thing lol um its like i really wanna be with him again, but then again i dont wanna go back to my past, but theres no one else out there and i really like him. lol sorry if its confusing and long but i really need the help
brokenagain answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:49 pm: hunny there are alot of other people out there-you just have to look--and sometimes lloking ownt get you to find it will happen -give it time. as for your bestfriend saying not to go back with him--lets put it this way it is your decision but people who are outside the "circle" really see what the person is about. Also ive learned never chose a man over your best friend men come and gofriends are forever-he obviously hurt you once before do you want him to do it again? good luck [ brokenagain's advice column | Ask brokenagain A Question ]
jazz82289 answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:37 pm: Go for it, it your friend doesn't like him that's her business, she doesn't have to go out with him. If she's a good friend she will have your back 100 and 10 percent and you should tell her that. Tell him he has one more chance to break up with you though because if you let him keep breaking up with you and get back together he's going to walk all over you. I hope I helped! xoxo [ jazz82289's advice column | Ask jazz82289 A Question ]
xobarbiex3 answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:28 pm: i had this problem not to long ago! i think that if you like him and you wanna go back out with him go for it because if it makes you happy then its worth it and your friend should relize that you really like him and she should get over it! just be ready for if he breaks ur heart again i think people dersever 2nd chances [ xobarbiex3's advice column | Ask xobarbiex3 A Question ]
kilauea1030 answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:16 pm: wow.. that is.. interesting.. i think you should listen to your friend.. i mean.. she is your BEST FRIEND.. who knows you better than she does?? besides.. she just wants the best for you, she dosnt want nothing bad happens to you.. and, if this random guy dumped you once.. who tells you that he wont do it again, and youll get hurt, the same way you did before, but if you really feel that hes being honest, and that he has changed, and that he deserves a second chance.. go for it! you should ALWAYS ALWAYS listen to your heart first than other people.. [ kilauea1030's advice column | Ask kilauea1030 A Question ]
bubblesamin answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:08 pm: Dear Oh Mann,
It doesn't sound confusing to me i know exactly where your coming from. I think your best friends are the one's who know you the best but nothing or no one knows you better than yourself and your heart. What i say is that don't give him a try make him regret what he did. It's best if you just drop him if your afraid of getting hurt again because who wants that.You'll feel much better after you've detached yourself completley and moved on. And trust me on this one there are always plenty of other fish in the sea.
ac_hc14 answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:06 pm: hey i cant totally relate to that, you know your going out with this guy and he breaks up with you, then he like you again, but you friends HATE him.. Well my advice to you is go for it.. if you do go back out with him, your friend should be supportive. and if something goes wrong your friend should be there fo you.. I Hope that helps!!!! [ ac_hc14's advice column | Ask ac_hc14 A Question ]
emilyjessica0x answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:04 pm: OMG totally go out with this guy. So what if your friend hates him. So what if its your past. He might not do that same thing again! So i think you should totally go out witrh him. I hope my adivce helped and visit my advice column...thx
AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:02 pm: hey..wow..i can totally relate!! my best friend HATES my boyfriend..and she always tells me to break up with him, but i really like him so i just brush it off. she doesn't hold it against me she just thinks im doing the wrong thing because she thinks he hurts me too much. But if you really like him go for it and your just gonna have to talk to her about it...Follow your Heart! hehe xox Allie x3 [ AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu's advice column | Ask AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu A Question ]
xXtashmahottieOo answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:00 pm: I know I know chick before dick I always break that rule but go for him i mean friends should always support you if she has that big of a problem with itthen maybe she shouldn't judge people she doesn't know.Go for it..but then again what do I know..haha ave fun good luck lyl !!MWAA [ xXtashmahottieOo's advice column | Ask xXtashmahottieOo A Question ]
DeadMemories answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:52 pm: Omg. I can TOTALLY relate to that. The guy that broke up with me likes me again and my friend hates him. Shes always like "Look how gay he acts" and I am like "Uh Thats NOT gay" But my advice: GO 4 It GIRL!!!!!!! ♥ [ DeadMemories's advice column | Ask DeadMemories A Question ]
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