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yeah okay. so i went out with this guy and he dumped me and he was but anyway i was really upset about it. and now he likes me again and i like him soo much and i loved what we had but like my best friend hates him and thinks that he a complete @$$! and like she's always like oh please dont go back out with him please dont. i mean what do i do? do i go out with him? oh and another thing lol um its like i really wanna be with him again, but then again i dont wanna go back to my past, but theres no one else out there and i really like him. lol sorry if its confusing and long but i really need the help
hey i cant totally relate to that, you know your going out with this guy and he breaks up with you, then he like you again, but you friends HATE him.. Well my advice to you is go for it.. if you do go back out with him, your friend should be supportive. and if something goes wrong your friend should be there fo you.. I Hope that helps!!!!
This boy I like (ive gone out with him 3 times) came over like 2 days ago and we kissed alot and well he fingered me. Within these two days, he hasn't even called me. He always used to call me..almost everyday. I talked to him online but i dont know things dont feel the same. I don't think he knows I like him but I do A LOT. yeah, he's my first love...dead serious. I don't know what to do..what I'm supposed to say, or anything. I dont thinik he used me because we we're really close before all of this. He acts different around me than all the other girls..like fools around with me and hes like not wicked serious. hes really funny and fun to be around, but hes serious around other girls.So anyways, what am I supposed to do? What should I say to him? I don't wanna call him because I'm just scared to. I don't see him in school, because he doesn't go to the same school. What do i do?? I've been like sad and stuff for a while now :( thanks in advance..I just really need some help
-kate
Well since this guy hasnt called you since what happend, maybe hes just as scared as you are.. and maybe hes waiting for you to call him.. and if you call him act normal, like nothing happened, and once you comtrable with him then talk about what happened..
put one in my inbox, and tell me how it goes or if you have any other questions!!
okay well i have long, thick blonde hair.. and in the shower it comes out REALLY EASiLY.. and a lot. like seriously ... a bunch of hair. idunno.. so .. does anybody know any shampoo && condishiner(sp?) that prevents this.. right now i use Tressime.. ((im 13/f if it helps any))
hey you should try panten pro-v, it works relly good!!!
okay i have this friend that really gets involved with different guys over and over..well one day she was flirting with a guy,but that day she still going out with this other guy.So then i told her off (She shouldnt be all over different guys all the time,) cuz people start to call her hoe and slut, and i thought i told her off to Help her. am i jealous over my best friend or am i a good friend??
Personally i think you were being a good friend... And if she doesnt understand that, then she needs to grow the f*** up!!She needed to her what you told her, cuz no offense but she was being a little hoe... So all you were doing was being a honest TRUE friend.
okay i just did something with a boy that i really like and i dont know if it was right to do ??? HELP
dependign on what you did, if you really liked hi, then it was an okay thing to do!!! Hoope that helps
Well i am a grl and i like to wear boy clothes!!!
is that weird or normal?
hey wearing guy cloths isnt wierd, but to some people it might to wierd. So just wear what you feel comfritable in...
O.k Well my best friend is a total whore... i mean like shes the type like if you have a dick .. shell suck it like after an hour of knowing you.. i confronted her about it like.. why have you changed so much (because she was never like this)The Other night i said some
things to her i maybe shouldnt have said..
but i meant them she told me i was never on her side, and i never helped her through anything meanwhile when she broke uph with her boyfriend i was there, through everything and when other people called her a whore i was there through it allll!!!
Well I Told Her i hoped she got pregnant and, shes a f****** whore, and a slut, and guys only want you for a#$ soo yea, i was pretty mean she was probably crying...
But today i was thinking am i just jealous of her. I mean shes a whore and she gets all the guys she wants, i always thought that if you havent done a lot of stuff with guys they'd want you more, am i wrong... AM I JEALOUS?
Hey you know what your NOT jealous of her, and if thats what she says then shes wrong.. You tell her off because your jealous, you did it because you really care for her.. No offense or anything but your friend needs to grow up and relized that you told her off cuz your a TRUE FRIEND!!!!Hope that helped
ok this is long yall but stick with me and i'll rate high. anyway im f/17 and ive been talkin to this guy whose 18. we go to the same school and we kind of started talking about 2 weeks ago. and he seemed like the perfect guy, literally, there was nothing wrong with him. but then he started hearing rumors about me that were so untrue about how im like a slut and stuff. and i told him that he just had to believe me when i say that they are not true because theres nothing else i can say or do to prove that they are not true. and he believed me. it took a little while to get past all of it but we finally did. the thing is though, were not boyfriend and girlfriend, we've just been kind of getting to know eachother in more ways than one. but then today i hear that the whole time that we've been talking, he has a girlfriend! and i was soooo upset at first! and when i went up to him and started yelling at him he told me that it wasnt true. he said theyve been best friends for a long time and stuff but they dont think of each other like that. and i was like "so if i ask her she'll tell me no yall arnt going out?" and he said yes. and then he said youre going to have to believe me like how i believe you. so should i? do ya'll think hes telling the truth? i dont know if i should trust him and give him another chance...please help!
Hey i think you should believe him, but you should keep an eye on him.. Cuz you never know things might happen.. Anyways you shoudl trust cuz he did trust you when there was rumors about you, so maybe this is just a rumor.
Hello.ok,I am in the 7th grade and my boyfriends never does anything with me like go up town or go to the movies.I am haveing thoughts of dumping him because he hasnt even huged me and we have gone on a date yet but i love him 2 death. WHAT DO I DO?
~*BLONDE*LOVE~
Since your in the 7th grade, your pretty young. SO you dont want to send a message to other guys that your easy. And your boyfriend seems to be shy, so you should ask him when he has free time and set a date to go to the movies or something. and if its only been a month, your expecting too much from him, but if its been more then 2 months(GIRL YOU MAKE THAT MOVE)for more info emial me.
Last year I got in a lot of fights.(not fist fights but like curse fights online) So I kinda had a bad reputation. Well now this year I'm more girly and its my last year in my school then i go to high school so I'm trying not to have any fights this year. Well this girl in my grade who is mean to me but I'm not mean to her (i just get mad when she gives away my sn to strangers)she found out some how that I'm on advicenators. Well today she asked me a question a private one to me and she said my full name (first and last) and said that I pick on her and bully everyone. She also said that i take everything from her even the boy she liked that liked her. Now I have no clue what boy liked her that I liked/like. I just feel like I'm hated by everyone and no one likes me. And I don't know what to do to make myself cheer up. Wouldn't she be the bully now? What should I do? I feel so hated and unwanted.
hey you should just ignore her. Cuz all shes doing is starting this between you two, cuz she knows that your a changed person since last year. But if i were you i would have cussed that bitch out by now, but since your trying to stop- i wouldnt suggest that. Since your addit try hanging out with people that make you feel loved and wanted.
I'm very shy but I want to be more outgoing, i'm popular but I think I would be more popular if I was more outgoing, What should I do?
Hey you know what, i went through the same thing. Last year i was very shy but i was popular and i wanted to try out for cheerleading. But then i heard that one of the requirements were being loud and outgoing. So i went out and had fun with everything i did and know that i think about it i had alot of fun doing it... SO IF i were you i would go out and get myself into different activies (?sports?) and just have fun with it..
I'm not fat but I would feel much better about myself and more confident if I was skinnier, what are some good ways to lose weight, i'm already in soccer and bearly eating anything, but i'm not losing weight.
Hey, not eating is not the best thing to do, Cuz when you dont eat your body doubles everyting you put into your body. And since your in soccer GREAT!! Stay in it, and in your spare time just do so exercises like:push ups, sit ups, jogging, walking(30mins), things like that.. Then when your eating try and wat heathy food like salads, fruit, and veggies... I hope that helps!!!
Their are these two guys and their constantly fighting over me and their really good friends with me and my friends and also good friends with each other and it's always justc been a joke to me and my friends how they act around me but now it's gone to far they got into a fight over me and ever since they havn't been friends and I feel so bad that I caused it. They got suspended because of the fight but when they got back both of them tryed even harder to get me and started flirting way more with me and I dont know what to do because I like both of them more than friends and I know they wont be okay with me dating both of them.
hey there isnt alot you can do. Since you like both of the guys you have to choose one, because deep down you have to like one more then the other. When picking between the two guys that you have feelings for, you should list things that you like of each guy (which one makes you more comturable. And once you have chosen the guy, you should try and be friends with the other one and make sure that he knows why your not choosing him, cuz then if you and the other guy break up, youll always have the guy you rejected to go back too... BUT then again the guy you rejected might not take you back for choosing the other guy.. So then again if you dont want to have to choose between them you can always reject the both of them...If you reject the both of them just make sure they know that you only want to be friends. I hope that helps>> For more info email me!!!
okay so im 16 and the guy is 17. he is in my genetics class. and yaeh he may not be the cutest or anything but is so funny and is nice and all. he talks to me and stuff. been thinking i may like him more than a friend. just wondering if there are ways to know if a guy likes you as a friend or as in a more than a friend way.?? hope that made sense... any help/advice would be GREAT! :)
hey waz up!! from my experience you would know if a guy likes you more then a friend when he touches your and looks in your eyes ALOT!! He would also try to impress you by being the best in things... He would also be a joker around you.. Hope that helps!!!!
13/f
Ok well i've been really bored lately and i just got of restriction that lasted for ever and i just wanta do something fun with all my friends guys and girls. So i was thinking about throwing a party but like i need a theme and some good ideas like what to do so it wouldnt be so lame and just something we could do from 6:00 pm to 9:30 pm that would be fun and wouldnt get lame and stuff like that and that we could all have fun doin if this helps i have a nice pool in the backyard but its too cold to swim i also have a trampoline and i would want about 25 people at the most so give any good ideas and ill rate u a 5
thx
hey i had the same problem last year... Well you should have refreshments (and since theirs guys get pizza) you should probably have good music
okay im 16 and so basicaly i have the worst time ever talking to guys. just get all nervous haha. and well i suck at flirting. and there is this guy that i really really like and he is always like stairing at me. but he doesnt seem to really notice im there.. and i was just wondering what the hell i should do to get this guys attention..? :) any help/ advice you can give is greatly appreciatied.
hey you should just go up and talk to him, maybe thats what hes waiting for....
ok so my friend. we were eating dinner with her parents. they asked me a question about something for school. we had something for our parents to meet our new teachers. then she got GROUNDED because i said we had em (since she didn't tell em). well now i feel like crap since i got her grounded. WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE IT UP TO HER? DID I EVEN DO ANYTHING WRONG!?!?!?!!
hey to me i dont think you did anything wrong... Your friend shoudl have told her parents about it... and if she gets made about it, then shes not a true friend( cuz she should have told her parents)
How Do You Like Makeout With Some One I Never Have Before So I'm Like Scared I'll Do IT Wrong.... Ummm soo whoever knows give me some feedback please i rate high, and dont give me the b.s like oo practice on your hand lol ok thanks
hey, i know how you feel, i have alot of friends that havent kissed their boyfriends yet... You should just do it, that why, when anyone askes you "have you kissed yet" you can say "hell ya"... and that way you dont have to feel embarrassed when people talk about kissing....if you kiss, email me!!!!!
okay well theres this guy and i like him alot but he moved to alaska and i barley ever talk to him anymore and i just got threw talking to him and asked him if he still liked me and he does the thing is he was like my best guy friend be4 he left and now i have feelings 4 him and he told me that he might come back this summer. i realli hope he does but i have a boyfriend now and i dont no what to do. please help.
okay there really isnt alot to do.. For one you have to choose between the two guys. You can stay with your homeboy throughout the year and then when the summer starts (if you still have feeling for the guy that moved away ) then you and your homeboy should take a break... And you can be with your friend that moved away until the summers over) > Then you and your hoemboy can get back together..
Ok I need help. I have a boyfriend that i really like alot but my ex boyfriend that i loved like alot. and i got over that yet i still love him so i still think back sometimes. well he called me and it just brought back memories cuz i hadn't talked to him in a long time and i just need to know how to get over him bc im so happy..but i still get sad when i look at a picture of us or think about it..help..advice please
hey, that is hard to do... But you have to remember you have a boyfriend that you like, and your ex is just your ex, sooner or later your going to have to move on, so just try to get through the pain cuz there really isnt anything else to do ... and just be happy for what YOU have...