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What should I do
Hello.ok,I am in the 7th grade and my boyfriends never does anything with me like go up town or go to the movies.I am haveing thoughts of dumping him because he hasnt even huged me and we have gone on a date yet but i love him 2 death. WHAT DO I DO?
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As hard at it might be you need to sit down with him face to face and tell him how you feel and that you want more to a relationship than he does and if he wants to keep it that way you need out...it will solve the problem i promise...go for older guys way more muture if u ask me!
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Since your in the 7th grade, your pretty young. SO you dont want to send a message to other guys that your easy. And your boyfriend seems to be shy, so you should ask him when he has free time and set a date to go to the movies or something. and if its only been a month, your expecting too much from him, but if its been more then 2 months(GIRL YOU MAKE THAT MOVE)for more info emial me.
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Well you're young. You don't want to put on an expression that you're easy. You hug him. He seems shy and doesn't want to lose you by touching you in a possible "wrong way" You make the plans to go the movies. Ask him when he's free. Set a date & time. Get your parent(s) to drive the BOTH of you so he can't say "I have no ride" How long have you been going out? If it hasn't been a few months.. You're expecting too much....but if it has.. You make the moves.
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you love him to death yet you are thinkin about dumpin him....??? um... y dont you try to hug him urself? or make plans for a date yourself
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Move on hun.. your young.. ♥ Dez
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Why don't you try asking him if he would like to go somewhere entertaining like the movies or hang out in an amusement park or somewherelse.Another thing is you should talk to him about how he feels about you.If you want to try hugging him,see if he returns it back,or how he will react to see how much he really likes you.Another last thing I advice you to do is to tell him that you love him and observe his expression which will also tell you a lot of how he feels towards you.
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Ok im in 9th grade and i have been to the movies with my girlfriend alone only one time. You guys are young and you shouldn't end it just yet. I think that you should invite him to the movies or up town with you. You waited for him to make the first move, but he didn't. So now its your turn. Next time you see him, run up and give him a big hug. See how quick everything changes.
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wow i say u should break up with him because nothin is happening. u would probably be better as friends.
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ask him to hang out call him more often and flirt then you might get used to it or approche him with the problem well i hope i helped :)
p.s-dont dump him until he has an explenation
love,
alyssa
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♥ Blondiee.
Hiiii doll.
kayeee so. Hes obvoisly a typical 7th grade boy. Hes shy and not mature yet. Totally natural. It doesnt mean he doesnt like you.
I guess your the one now having to make the first move. =/
Suggest to do something casually.
Be like " hey wanna do something this weekend..I dont have any plans"
About hugging you..Hes just shy like I said. If you relle have serious thoughts about him not liking you then maybe ask him. Thats like the only way you will know unless he improves.
G0OD LUCK!! LOVE YUH MUCH !!!
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if you love him, stay with him! = ) the other stuff shouldn't matter. if it's that important to you though, then i guess you should dump him. tell him how you feel, and tell him you want to take it further. you should be the one and invite him out places! (just be like "HEY wanna go out to so and so balala)
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