My name is Mike. I like snowboarding, football, baseball, track, and hanging out with my friends. I have a girlfriend who i love so much! Our year anniversary is coming up so i know a lot about love. I'll answer pretty much anything so ask away.
Member Since: November 8, 2005
Answers: 15
Last Update: December 1, 2005
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To start off, i'm only 15 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for five months. We just recently broke up, and a week after our break up he got a new girlfriend. I was really upset for awhile, and I couldn't even eat because of it. I cried just about every day. I constantly think about him, and regardless of how bad he treats/has treated me, I still have an enormous amount of feelings for him. I don't know why I can't get over him. My friend told me "If you can't get over him, maybe there's a reason". Is it possible I'm in love? Or what is it that I'm feeling? And why can't it go away? (link)
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My girlfriend and i just broke up... three days before our year anniversary. She is going out and meeting guys and i have to respect that. But a week for a new girlfriend is a little soon. For 15 that seems a little immature. Make sure you keep your friendship with him. But i think you should move on.
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Okay well, I really like this guy. He's everything I want. Funny, intellegent, cute, long hair, sweet, kind and he skates. There's nothing more that I want then for him to like me back. The bad thing is that my friend likes him to. No one knows that I like this kid and I've been hiding it for a really long time. I don't think he has a clue and we are good friends and I don't want to ruen it by telling him that I like him.
I need help and FAST.
I'll rate for the advice you give. Just help. :{ (link)
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Your problem is like two common ones wrapped up into a big mess. You dont want to hurt your friend, and you dont want to ruin your friendship with this guy. Make sure you talk it out with your friend FIRST. You are allowed to like the same guy. So then once u talk you should tell this guy how you feel. If your friends it wont be too hard to talk to him. But make sure you talk to your friend first because you dont want her to think your trying to steal him.
Hope that helps
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I know this sounds really weird, but is it normal to have a little crush on a character in a movie? Not the actor, but the character. Because, I have no idea why, but I kind of have a crush on the Phantom from "Andrew Lloyd Webber's Phantom..." I don't know why. Maybe it's because he's so dramatic, you really feel for him, has a great voice, and/or the unmasked side of his face is goodlooking. Is this pathetic? (link)
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For girls, not at all! I know this one girl who is in love with Seth from the OC. And the weirdest is this other girl who would honestly marry Harry Potter if she got the chance. Don't worry about it.
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mkay there's this guy i like and he likes me too. so he sat with me at lunch today and we barely talked. im not sure wat to talk about.. any ideas? thanks. (link)
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He came up and sat next to you. That is a start. Guys don't like making the first move even though they ALWAYS have to. If you guys barely talked then that means you didn't either. Tell him to sit with you again. When he does, start the conversation and you will hit it off. Trust me. Hit me back if it works.
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My gf of six months dumped me. i still love her and i dont know what to do, idk if shell take me back. i saw that you have a gf and that you know a lot about love so i thought you would be able to help...thanks (link)
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Its pretty funny how you just asked me this right now. My girlfriend of a 3 days short of a year and i just broke up. I am 100% still in love with her. She won't take me back just yet either. I know how much you want to go get run over by a bus, twice. It sucks and all you can really do is hold everything in. Tell her you still love her and that you want her back. Then play hard to get for a while. (Yes hard to get for a guy.) She'll get jealous and realize how much she misses you. Thats what I'm trying. So tell me how it goes. Good Luck man.
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Hey, Curly.
You've answered a question of mine before and I read most of the questions you've answered and I just wanted to point out that for a guy you're amazing at giving advice. It's good to know that this site isn't just filled with 13 year old girls, but we also have mature guys too.
Keep up the great work!
-therocketsummer- (link)
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Thank you for that. I didn't really think giving advice would be cool but im really getting into it. Anytime you have a question you know where to go
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My boyfriend had some acne problems at the beginning of the year, like most 16 year old guys do, but then he started to take some medicine for it. It's starting to look 100% better already! Is it wrong for me to comment that it's looking better? would it offend him? (link)
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I wont lie. I have pretty bad acne. Dont come out and say anything about the acne. It would make me mad so you probably shouldn't. Just tell him he looks good and compliment him. Guys have feelings to and they like compliments.
Hope that helps.
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Is it true that lifting weights stunts your growth? (link)
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Ok everyone here is retarted and making stuff up. Look at Shaq, does it seem like his growth got stunted. NO! IF you want more information then go to http://www.trulyhuge.com/news/tips63iq.htm
hope that helps.
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Ok Well theres this Amazingly Gorgeous kid in my 6th period lunch named, Joe and hes soo amazing like i almost passed out the first day i saw him.. no jokee!! and belive me if i think a guy is hitt hes majorly hottt.. because i dont think many r hott.. but moving on...
My friend chelsea is obsessed over himm... and hes always looking over to me and my (girl) friends tables.. soo like yea i looked at him and he looked at me and it was almost like we had a staring contest (laugh out loud) and than his friend like tapped him on the shoulder soo he turned his head..
but my friend Chelsea totally thinks he stares at her all the time.. but hes nott.. and hes in 11th grade and were in 9th soo its like were 14 hes 17 but what ever (laugh Out Loud) we got one of our 11th grade friends to talk to him..For chelsea and the 11th grade friend who was a girl.. never told chelsea what he said but she told me..
She said Chelsea was gross and wear way to much make-up and he'd only go out with her for some "booty".
So Chelseas always tlaking about how hot he was.. yesterday she said she was in love.. i feel soo badd.. i wanna get her mind off this kid because hes not interested.. what do i sayy to her? (link)
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If you tell her exactly what he said then she could be heartbroken. I would go more along the lines of, he says he would use you for some booty. Don't tell her about the gross and makeup part.
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why do guys think when girls wear sweatpants its hott (at least thats what ive heard) (link)
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From a guy's perspective, if you look attractive in sweatpants it's a big plus. If guys think your hot and your dressing down and not getting all dolled up then your good to go.
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Hello.ok,I am in the 7th grade and my boyfriends never does anything with me like go up town or go to the movies.I am haveing thoughts of dumping him because he hasnt even huged me and we have gone on a date yet but i love him 2 death. WHAT DO I DO?
~*BLONDE*LOVE~ (link)
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Ok im in 9th grade and i have been to the movies with my girlfriend alone only one time. You guys are young and you shouldn't end it just yet. I think that you should invite him to the movies or up town with you. You waited for him to make the first move, but he didn't. So now its your turn. Next time you see him, run up and give him a big hug. See how quick everything changes.
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I guess this is the right category, I don't know. Well I'm going to my friends house this weekend, and she's always hanging out with a lot of people (guys & girls). Well I have a feeling that we'll probably play truth or dare and I'll probably have to makeout with someone. Cause that's just how it is there. Don't get me wrong, I really want to go, so don't say like DONT GO or anything. I want to. But problem: I've never kissed someone before (or madeout). So I need a little advice. I don't want you to tell me "It will come naturally", because people are always saying like, "OMG they're such a bad kisser!!". I want to know the truth. And please don't give me those websites that tell you how to kiss. I want you to tell me please, and I need some advice on not being nervous. I will probably be scared that I will do it wrong or something, and I'll get nervous. ALSO, I'll probably have to do it in front of everyone, and that won't help with being nervous. PLEASE help me? (link)
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Every answer you'd get is going to vary because every one does it differently. Your first time is going to be special because your nervous and you don't know what your doing. Just make sure that you keep an even balance of tongue and lips.. you don't want to just open your mouth and use your tongue. (First-hand account) So just get into it and have fun cuz its your first real kiss.
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ok, theres this guy and i really really like him, so i want to ask him out. I have a feeling he likes me, but im not sure about it. Ive nevr asked a guy out before so i have no clue what im doing. i need ideas on how to ask him out w/o being too direct or too indirect. keep in mind that were both 13 and im very shy. thanks! nellie (link)
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Ok well since your still young i think the best thing to do was find out if he likes you for sure. You don't want to have to deal with the embarrasment if he doesn't. Once you find out for sure then drop hints at him that your interested. Make sure to flirt because guys LOVE it. Hope that helps.
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my boyfriend of over a year and a half recently broke up with me/ decided we should take a break because he was confused about how he was feeling and he wanted a break from being tied down. it was really sudden and it confuses me. he still says he loves me from time to time so that kind of give sme hope that maybe this isn't over for good. do you think he just needs some time without me to see what our relationship was worth? or what? does he jus tneed to be single for a while. Everoyne tells me when loves for real it lasts froever and we both know it was as real as possible.. so do you think he will come back? he neve rreally wants to talk about the situation either but what can i do to convince him to come back or let him know what we're worth? help plz thank you will rate hihgh (link)
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The answer i can give you is really based on if you feel strongly about him. If you love him and you think he is worth it then wait for him to come back. Flirt with him and let him know your still interested. Hopefully that will speed up the process. I know what it is like when people tell you that you arent in love. I know that i am in love and that it is worth waiting for. No human being can be together forever so a break could be good for both of you. Hope that helps!
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I need some help on picking something out for my boyfriend for christmas... We havent been going out long but i really like him. I want to show him so I want to buy him something that he'll really like. If guys have ideas for me for my boyfriend... please let me know! THANKS :) (link)
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My girlfriend and i had been going out for one month at christmas. Your at the point now where you don't want to spend tons of money but still want it to be meaningful. I think the way to go is a cd. Find out what music he likes and get him that cd. If it worked for my girlfriend it can work for you!
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