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Kinda in love with this woman, she is not interested in me (I EVENTUALLY found out), and is drawing away from me fast. I'm currently pissed off with the whole thing myself but...
We DID connect on some level, I REALLY feel like we talked about stuff that mattered to us both...in my experience people usually can't fake this.
It would seem that except for her exes friends she really doesn't have anybody to confide in, no female friends at all, at least i have NEVER seen her with em, and the all her guy friends (sadly including me uptill this realization) just wanna get into her pants.
Now I am a tad of a thinker and pratical knowhow eludes me most of the time, but i really think this girl needs a friend. Without wanting to get into her pants i am willing to look for other women and be her friend even tho I feel she screwed me over and lied alot... but the point is if I am right then she had pretty good reasons to have done everything I feel pissed off about.
I have to ask her out about this tommorow but am unsure of how to go about it, preferably without putting the words in her mouth and letting herself weaseling out of the blame till I know for sure if my feeling is accurate.
PLZ i need advice and fast!!! (link)
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Yeah, I'd say what the other answerer said...just tell her that you'd like to stay friends. It might not fix whatever is broken, but it'll mend it for the time being, and hopefully she'll begin to confide in you again over time.
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ok. so this guy liked me for the past month and then right when i started to like him i find out that he likes this other girl instead of me. and the thing is that i get really shy around him and he doesnt like when girls are shy. he wants them to be themselves.. so im finally going to see him tomorrow and act my real self and not be shy even though he doesnt like me anymore. but i wanna look really cute so he can look at me and be like wow what am i missing out on.. do you get what i mean? what do guys want girls to look like and how should i win his heart again?? (link)
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You gotta be yourself. You can fake being the kind of person he wants you to be for only so long, then you'll eventually get sick of it. Plus he'll likely go for somebody else who is more genuine than you. Remember dating is a two-way street--you don't want him to be fake, so don't be fake with him. There are plenty of guys who would appreciate your genuineness.
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hi
I am balaji from india i am 22 years old.. i am doing my final year mca.. and my problem is my fatness.. i am 100kg of fat and 5.6 feet of tall... since i am tall no one say me fat.. but i need to become thin.. its for my health fitness and also for my girlfriend request.. she said me to become thin.. advice me if its possible.
ragards.
balaji (link)
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Hi Balaji,
Your goal shouldn't be to get skinny...it should be to get healthy. Try some cardio...running, or cycling. It's tough work starting out, but you'll feel better in the end. You can get your girlfriend to join you in your workouts as well. Choose more carefully the foods that you eat. Ask your girlfriend for suggestions, and ask her to join you in those suggestions (be it a change in diet, exercise, etc).
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