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NEED ADVICE!!!
Kinda in love with this woman, she is not interested in me (I EVENTUALLY found out), and is drawing away from me fast. I'm currently pissed off with the whole thing myself but...
We DID connect on some level, I REALLY feel like we talked about stuff that mattered to us both...in my experience people usually can't fake this.
It would seem that except for her exes friends she really doesn't have anybody to confide in, no female friends at all, at least i have NEVER seen her with em, and the all her guy friends (sadly including me uptill this realization) just wanna get into her pants.
Now I am a tad of a thinker and pratical knowhow eludes me most of the time, but i really think this girl needs a friend. Without wanting to get into her pants i am willing to look for other women and be her friend even tho I feel she screwed me over and lied alot... but the point is if I am right then she had pretty good reasons to have done everything I feel pissed off about.
I have to ask her out about this tommorow but am unsure of how to go about it, preferably without putting the words in her mouth and letting herself weaseling out of the blame till I know for sure if my feeling is accurate.
PLZ i need advice and fast!!!
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Yeah, I'd say what the other answerer said...just tell her that you'd like to stay friends. It might not fix whatever is broken, but it'll mend it for the time being, and hopefully she'll begin to confide in you again over time.
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You just want to be her friend? Wait... did you say 'ask her out about this'? You mean ask her to be friends... right?
Anyway, just tell her honestly that you don't mind her not interested in you, but you're hoping you two can be good friends. This might save you guys from being too awkward if you guys run into each other. But dont tell her that you think she needs friends... that might not be a good thing... Talk to her about how she treats you and tell her how you feel about it, hopefully she might realize that there are some parts of her personality she could improve. Hope you have luck talking to her tomorrow :)
did i even answer your question?
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