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my boyfriend of over a year and a half recently broke up with me/ decided we should take a break because he was confused about how he was feeling and he wanted a break from being tied down. it was really sudden and it confuses me. he still says he loves me from time to time so that kind of give sme hope that maybe this isn't over for good. do you think he just needs some time without me to see what our relationship was worth? or what? does he jus tneed to be single for a while. Everoyne tells me when loves for real it lasts froever and we both know it was as real as possible.. so do you think he will come back? he neve rreally wants to talk about the situation either but what can i do to convince him to come back or let him know what we're worth? help plz thank you will rate hihgh
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Hi There. I think that instead of sitting at home wondering what he's up to, you should take this opportunity and get out there! Maybe you should take a break from being tied down, too. It's healthy to meet new people. Whether or not you decide to date someone new, or get back together with your ex, it will be a growing experience for you. It will give you a better perspective of what you want in a boyfriend, and a better idea of whether or not your boyfriend fulfills that or if you should get to know someone new. If you two are meant to be, you'll find eachother again. Give him his space... and enjoy yours as well.
Good Luck,
Anne Nonimous
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When a guy says he needs his space, what hes really saying is, his feelings have changed and he doesnt want to be in a relationship anymore. Because you and him were together for over a year, means he doesnt want to hurt you by telling you the truth. If a guy wants his space, he doesnt need to break it off. He could simply choose to not see you as much.
You didnt mention your age! Maybe he wants to see what else is out there, and not be tied to 1 girl just yet.
Theres really nothing you can do, its all up to him. Just be there if he needs some1 to talk to, but thats it. If youve been involved sexually, stay clear of it. It wont make make him change his feelings.
Being apart is either gonna make him miss you, and realize that he still loves you, or move on without you!
If its meant to be, you and him will someday be together again.
Good Luck Hun!
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The answer i can give you is really based on if you feel strongly about him. If you love him and you think he is worth it then wait for him to come back. Flirt with him and let him know your still interested. Hopefully that will speed up the process. I know what it is like when people tell you that you arent in love. I know that i am in love and that it is worth waiting for. No human being can be together forever so a break could be good for both of you. Hope that helps!
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dump him ti doesnt mean a thing
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well i dont think he needs to be single for a while i think he just needs space. And if you love him like you say you do then you should just give him space. Dont act like your completly fine with it but be supportive of his decision and he will relize what he wants. If he doesnt want to talk about it then dont presure it. what ever you do i advise you to not beg him, it will only push him farther. so just try these and see where it takes you ...hope it helps any more questions or anything you need just ask
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