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how do i ask a guy out???


Question Posted Thursday November 10 2005, 4:23 pm

ok, theres this guy and i really really like him, so i want to ask him out. I have a feeling he likes me, but im not sure about it. Ive nevr asked a guy out before so i have no clue what im doing. i need ideas on how to ask him out w/o being too direct or too indirect. keep in mind that were both 13 and im very shy. thanks! nellie

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happy-helper answered Friday November 11 2005, 6:21 pm:
Right...why not find out what he does on the weekend, if he says he goes somewhere, tell him you'd like to go with him sometime. Or just see if he's going anywhere where you can go out with him and spend time with him outside of school. If not, then compliment him and see his responses. It's probably that he's shy too!
Good luck! :)
x Steph x

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oObananaduckyOo answered Thursday November 10 2005, 7:55 pm:
ok well try this. ask him to go to a movie. then when your sure that he likes you he might ask you out! hope that helps

-alex

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CutieAllTheWay41 answered Thursday November 10 2005, 7:11 pm:
Well you should take a very deep breath and go up to him!Then say hi and ask him if hes doing anything this weekend or something!if he says no ask him if yall wanna make plans or something..and if he says yes..tell him to holla at you wenever hes not busy!if you want you can give him your phone # or ask him for his fone number and you ll call him sometime tonight!well ive dont this lots soo you should try it sometime!!

Hope it works out..
Kristine ♥

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Curly answered Thursday November 10 2005, 6:50 pm:
Ok well since your still young i think the best thing to do was find out if he likes you for sure. You don't want to have to deal with the embarrasment if he doesn't. Once you find out for sure then drop hints at him that your interested. Make sure to flirt because guys LOVE it. Hope that helps.

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angelfire2708 answered Thursday November 10 2005, 5:51 pm:
ok first of all, i hope your asking some1 that you like hang out with and are friends with.
You dont just ask some1 out just because you like them. When you ask some1 out, you both know how each of you feels about the other person, and youre already spending time with each other.

Think about it. i know this is alittle extreme, but kind of look at it this way> What would you do if a guy that liked you suddenly asked you to marry him? What im trying to say is> just because you like some1 you dont need to go out with him first before getting to know him. Relationships begins with friendships!

Dont ask a guy out unless your prepared for rejection! Besides> whats wrong with having the guy ask YOU out when the time is right? Youre both very young yet. Take time to let that friendship grow before taking the next step!!

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pinkaliciousbaby answered Thursday November 10 2005, 5:51 pm:
alright sweetie, this is what you do. if you want to just go out with him as in just have him with you then have a group of friends go with you. then you can say "hey me and a group of friends are all going to the movies, want to go?". if you just want it to be him and you then say something like " hey i was wondering if you have plans on ___day, because i dont!" then he'll say no and you'll say " so want to go to the movies with me?". now if your talking about asking him to be your boyfriend then say something like "hey i think you are a totally awesome guy and i want to get to know you better, so heres my number, call me sometime ok?" good luck and i hope i helped

*remember to relax and know it's not the end of the world if he says no! theres A LOT of more guys out there! have fun!!!!*

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